How can I get mixed up in school 15

Sweaty, who wants to mix up!! ~

Someone called for help in a fight all day long!! It's not a fighting gang!!

First, you have to be pretty.

Second, learn to be eye-catching.

Third, be powerful.

Fourth, start with your level to find the most creative P, and then get it done level by level.

Fifth, there must be material, you can't say that it's useful if you go to learn sanda, those who are in their mouths rely on bad teenagers who have boyfriends or know very creative other schools or schools.

Sixth, don't let others find you annoying. In the field.

If you mix at your age, you can only be prosperous for a while, but if you study hard and can be prosperous for a lifetime, you can choose for yourself.

Dress yourself up and you'll be touched by those bad teenagers.

I'm glad to see your question.

Immature. It's okay to understand junior high school.

It's all dreaming at this time.

And when you actually get into it, you'll know how naïve you are.

I was at this stage and I only regret my decision at the beginning.

I was beaten every day.

Who's going to help me!

Help me hang it, okay!

In Nanchang Liantang No. 6 Middle School, junior high school 3 (14) class. Come on.

First of all, parents of extroverted students don't have to worry, especially some "self-cooked" children, these classmates are often particularly outstanding in interpersonal communication at school, and they have friends when they go to the school, and they have a lot of friends who will help when they encounter some difficulties, so this type of child is also more popular during school.

Secondly, as a student who is a class leader, parents don't have to worry. Because the class leaders in middle school often have a very close relationship with the teacher, and the activities in the class.

The class cadres will communicate and negotiate with the teachers, so that they can become the "darlings" of the class, and even many students will be the class cadres, and the most important thing is that the teachers tend to pay more attention to these children, so parents do not have to worry about the situation of their children in school.

Finally, sleek children are also worth reassuring, although classmates have different personalities, but sleek children often do not offend people, which is also often said "see people talk about people, see ghosts talk nonsense", such people are often particularly good at dealing with interpersonal relationships, get along well with others, and naturally mix up in school.

If you want to mix well in school, first of all, you take the initiative to make friends with people, you must be courageous, for example, you are eating in a restaurant, and a few buddies at the next table are drinking and chatting, you can take the initiative to serve a glass and raise a glass to drink and chat with others; Some of the students in the next class recognize their names, and when they see them on the road, they take the initiative to say hello, and they go to their dormitory when they have nothing to do.

1. How to respect others

(1) To truly respect others, we must be good at standing in the other person's perspective, empathizing with others, and promoting ourselves and others. To respect others, it is necessary to be able to not make fun of or discriminate against the flaws and shortcomings of others.

(2) To respect others, we must be good at appreciating and accepting others, not doing things that damage the personality of others, and sincerely appreciating and praising the advantages and strengths of othersAllow others to have a place beyond themselves, and do not exclude or despise others that are different from themselves.

Second, the importance of civility and politeness

(1) When people talk, they should pay attention to etiquette and polite language. For example, sorry, thank you, please, these polite words are essential to show a person's humility and cultivation, and your language will be full of charm and make the other person feel warm. Completely different attitudes will have very different results.

(2) In sales, public relations, advertising, customer representative can be postedA good language image and conversation style reveal confidence, sincerity, affinity or humor is an excellent business card.

Money and physical appearance are important factors.

Spend time with those who mix well,

Be a high-profile person and do things in a low-key manner.

If you have good grades, don't talk about studying with your classmates who are trying hard to study and still have no results, saying that this is easy, that is simple, and the result will be that they are crazy and annoying.

If you don't have good grades, don't make that attitude of doing nothing, grades in school don't mean anything, just make more friends, find a confidant, not a friend of wine and meat.

And then if you are a class cadre, don't always get close to the counselor or always stay away from your classmates, a friend of mine, the class leader of their class is holding an arrow to shoot the order, making small reports every day, full of officialdom, and restricting people's freedom of activity, it is conceivable that they are scolded miserably.

Also, those who can help will help, and those who can't help, you should refuse in person, if you promise others and can't do it, others will doubt your credibility, it is better to refuse early, because when a person asks for help from others, there are already two answers in his heart "yes" or "don't agree", and when you choose "not to agree", the other party has already thought about the next person to ask for help, so don't worry about whether it will destroy the relationship between classmates, pay attention, make it clear when refusing, Don't talk about crown springs

In short, it is easy-going, not Tang Seng's easy-going, you must have your own point of view, if it does not involve your bottom line, even if others disagree with you, you ignore it, after all, everyone thinks differently, and it is difficult to unify.

I don't know if you want to mix in the good or in the arms, if you are good, you will study hard to be the first in the whole grade, and if you are bad, you will take the little brother well, you must be ruthless, you have to go first in the fight, beat the school boss down, you will be famous if you are the first. The process of mixing must be righteous!

1.Perceive reality fully and accurately2Accept nature, yourself and others3Be spontaneous, frank and truthful to people4Problem-centered, not self-centered5There is a need for detachment and solitude.

6.Be autonomous, maintain relative independence7With an appreciation that never fades8

9. With an indescribable peak experienceLove for people1011

Possess the spirit of democracy12Distinguish between means and ends13Creative14

Humorous and funny 15Oppose blind compliance.

Help if you can, don't bother others if you can do it yourself, and try to laugh when you can.

Study hard and have fun every day

Mix with the dean first...

First of all, you have a good character, which refers to your thinking and morality, to be kind, tolerant, not too honest, your grades should be good, so that others will look at you with admiration, so that many people will find you as friends.

But if you don't get good grades, you should have a special talent that makes you stand out in the crowd (for example, if I'm a middle school student and I play badminton very well, someone wants to play with me).

But if you don't have special talents, then you have to be handsome, be cool, and make others envy you.

If you are not handsome, then you should be eloquent and learn to have a good relationship with your classmates and teachers.

If your eloquence is not good, then you have to have money in the family, but you have to keep a low profile, so that others think that you are a big money and come to slap you.

If you don't have any of that, then you have to rely on ......It's fate!

Teach you to speak eloquently.

You can watch more cross talk sketches (but I don't recommend Xiao Shenyang), you can collect some classic quotations in them, these will definitely help you.

Buy a few books on eloquence and see how the people in them practice eloquence, I recommend you to read Mark Twain's works, there are many interesting stories, which can make you feel the spicy satire of feudal society at that time in the process of laughing (you will definitely use it in the future when you encounter people who are not pleasing to the eye or insult you).

Communicate with people more, this is a very important step, put what you learn in the book into practical actions, such as saying good things in front of your leaders so that they can make a good impression on you, and the same in front of your classmates, which can increase your interpersonal relationships (I am a good example of this).

You... Your teeth have cabbage leaves! Others... I didn't eat today。。 That's what you ate yesterday... If someone scolds you like this, you say, "Do you want to deduct it for you?" It's a little disgusting though.

Change excellent, more confident, so that they have no reason to say about you, and then ignore it lightly, be yourself, no one will dare to mess with you.

Make yourself better, so that you can see no one in your eyes, and others will not bully you.

Big heart, tolerate the things of the world, empty their heart, love the goodness of the world, calm their hearts, talk about the things of the world, dive into their hearts, observe the principles of the world, determine their hearts, and respond to the changes of the world.

。Spread yourself out and be ruthless.