Let s talk about it, what conflicts in the family give you a headache?

Most men promise women too many conditions before marriage, I will take care of you for the rest of my life, I will do housework, I will work hard, I will not gamble, I will not smoke anymore, etc. After getting married, the two of them can pretend to talk in a short period of time and coax women to be happy, but it will be impossible for a long time, with children, family expenses, housework, etc., the play will not be able to continue.

Since ancient times, no one can say clearly the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the family conflict is mainly between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and now some mothers-in-law are still old ideas, old concepts, and are very mean to their daughters-in-law, but there are also good mothers-in-law, but there are too few, I may be very lucky to meet a good father-in-law and mother-in-law to me. Even if they are good to me, there are still family conflicts, just give one step each, don't care too much about what the other party says, and live with one eye closed, which is good for everyone.

We have to realize that the relationship between a family is multiple and diverse, as we mentioned earlier, between parents, between husband and wife, between parents and children, and there is also a big problem in interpersonal relationships: between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It can be said that in a family, the relationship network is often more complex, but it is basically built for "love".

In this way, that is, many times, home is a place of intercourse, not of reason. And the seemingly simple but complex relationship network, if there is no more communication, it is inevitable that conflicts will arise.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, housework, husband and wife quarrels, don't go over old accounts, let alone your mother's family come forward, you have to learn the day. Learn to forget those old sesame seeds. We must also learn to be confused, learn to suffer, learn to understand, and learn to be tolerant.

Not for anything else, but for yourself. Believe in your choices, believe in your loved ones, and slowly everything will be fine.

My leader, when I gave birth to a girl, my mother-in-law didn't love her, and she said a lot of ugly things, and the child resolutely didn't look at it, and she didn't even want to look at it. Their husbands and wives did not have a high salary back then, and they had to take out one person's salary to support their mother-in-law and sister to study, and they had no money to find a nanny, and their mother's family was in other places. The child has to be brought and the class has to be attended, and it is difficult for you to imagine how difficult her situation was at that time.

Hehe! Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. As long as there is love, then you have to learn to be a little more tolerant, a little more understanding, and learn to do housework in his family, his parents.

Because everyone has their own family, and they are not independent people, the intricate housework can never be explained.

Yes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read! After all, it is a new society, the old people are from the older generation, the society is changing year by year, the young and the old people are different concepts, contradictions naturally come one after another, my mother often says, treat the elderly like children, they all need to be coaxed, have patience.

We often say that home is our safe haven, always sheltering us from the wind and rain, always giving us companionship and satisfying us when we need it. But sometimes it also hurts us and makes us feel helpless, because there always seem to be all kinds of contradictions, between parents, between husband and wife, between parents and children, and so on.

The more I grow up, the more I feel that family affection is precious. Like a nest of nestlings taking off and splitting into nests, they go to their own life paths. Different circumstances lead to different thoughts.

Various advantages and disadvantages are also exposed. Human greed and selfishness are the most hurtful weapons. Many families have been cut off from family and friendship because of it.