Tell us how to deal with your child being pushed by other children while playing.

What should I do if my child is pushed by other children while playing? If this is the right way, it should be to go with the flow and see how your child handles it. If the other adult's adult is not involved, you should tell your children that this kind of thing has to be handled by yourself, because you can't follow them all the time.

First of all, let the child know, or let the child understand right and wrong, if it is pushed for no reason, you have to push back, don't be afraid, if you are pushed because of what you have done, you must recognize your mistakes, and have the courage to admit it, so the main thing is to educate the child well, establish a correct view of right and wrong, and don't cause trouble, but if something happens, you can't be afraid of things.

If the child does not react when he encounters a situation of fighting and pushing, the child's heart may be traumatized and parents need to be patient and enlightened. If your child is often pushed by other children, he will have bad emotions during the play, but he does not know how to deal with this situation. Parents should discover the inner changes of their children in time, the children's hearts are extremely sensitive, and the parents are patient and mediated, and the children have accumulated relevant experience.

In the future, when encountering such situations, the child can deal with them calmly, and if he encounters a situation of deliberate fighting, the child will take a self-defense approach instead of allowing others to push and shove.

If there is no danger, it is not advisable for parents to intervene too much in conflict resolution between their children. In fact, many times the pushing and shoving between children is not so hostile. Children need to be socialized through this "conflict".

Maybe the push and beat in the eyes of parents is just a way of playing in the eyes of children. Moreover, at this age, it is possible to communicate. Conflict between children in general does not cause much of a problem, on the contrary, it is something that children must experience and experience.

If the adult has been distressed and protective, then the child will still wait for your protection in the future, and will not want to take some measures on his own. Because she doesn't have to move at all, you already do.

When children are playing, there are occasional pushes and fights, parents should pay attention to the situation of the children in time and observe how the children deal with this situation. When playing, children tend to focus on the things they are playing with and do not pay much attention to their surroundings. Because the occasional action pushes other children, parents do not need to intervene immediately, and should observe how the child responds to the situation.

The relationship between children and other friends requires a process of psychological adaptation, and the intervention of parents in it will affect the friendly relationship of children.

If it is not a simple push, but the conflict escalates to violence, we should immediately intervene and stop it. First of all, you should not immediately reprimand the attacker, but first comfort the injured child. If my child is an aggressor, we need to tell him in a calm tone that this is not the right thing to do, that this kind of pushing will hurt the child, and the child will hurt.

If my child is injured, I can't be angry and tell the attacker the same way, as it will hurt the child.

If the conflict between children is not a simple push, and an adult needs to mediate, we will intervene. When intervening, tell the two children in a gentle tone that they are good friends, and the children should play happily together, and they are not allowed to push, and whoever falls will hurt.

Children in early childhood are young, their mental age is also very young, they are full of curiosity about new things, and it is the nature of children to be lively and active. In the process of playing, due to the young age of children, outdoor activities need to be supervised by adults, and friction cannot be avoided when children play together. If the child is often bumped by other children, then parents should keep abreast of the situation and channel the child's psychological emotions.

If it is just a general fight and pushing, and it does not cause harm to the child, I will not interfere at the scene, because I want to see how the child solves the emergency situation by himself, and the baby can summarize how he can live peacefully with the child through personal experience. If we interfere blindly, we will deprive our children of valuable social experiences. If the child does not know how to deal with such an incident and the on-site response is not good, we will inform the baby how to deal with the conflict when we take the baby away.

Parents who have children being bullied should reflect! There are six or seven children I have come into contact with who have not reacted after being bullied, and they have a common characteristic that they have a misconception that "honesty is a good thing", which is manifested in: some were naughty and yelled at by adults when they were young, some parents always praised their children for being honest to others, and some were criticized by parents for fighting with children at first!

In the process of getting along with friends, children can learn some social experience, which is conducive to children's personality independence and improves children's adaptability and adaptability. It is extremely important for parents to be patient and supervise their children, but do not interfere too much with each other.

When children play together, it is inevitable that there will be a phenomenon of pushing and shoving, if the child is not substantially harmed, then parents should not interfere with it. Some parents are very concerned about their children, and they are also very distressed about their children, and they are very anxious when they see other children doing some push-sang-sang-sangs to their children. So mom and dad will stop other children from doing this, and even criticize other children, this kind of education is very incorrect, and will only cause children to be isolated.

Since Mom and Dad let the children play together, they should give time to these children, and if there is no particularly dangerous phenomenon, then Mom and Dad should not stick to it, because this kind of education is not right at all. And if mom and dad casually interfere with other children, then what mom and dad do will only end up making their children resist by other children.

Children play together in the hope that everyone can have a good time together, and this kind of pushing, pushing and shoving may be just a way of communication between them. If the child is very happy and does not feel offended, then there is no need for parents to deal with it, because at this time the child regards each other as friends, so even if there is such a move, it is just a joke together.

But if Mom and Dad get involved in this matter, it will be different, Mom and Dad will definitely blame other friends, which will be very embarrassing for their own children, and will also make other people feel that this child is not necessary to be friends. In addition, such intervention by parents will make their children feel that they are under the constraints of their parents all the time, which is also a very bad way for children to guide.

Parents should not care about this matter, parents should see how the child deals with these things, if the child can handle these things perfectly, the parents can not know, if the child does not handle it well, the parents can also tell the child how to deal with such things correctly when they return home.

Parents don't care, let the baby to reason with these children, the child's parents had better not interfere in the child's affairs, through such things can exercise the baby's communication skills.

Parents should go over and see if the child is okay, and then also see if the child cares about it, if the child doesn't care, there is no need to make a fuss.

Introduction: Parents find that their children are always pushed by others when they are playing, so they should see if their children are often bullied by others. If parents see their children being bullied by others, they should protect their children in time and not let their children be psychologically harmed.

Today, I will talk to you about what to do when you see your child being pushed by other children while playing.

Parents should not be anxious when they see their children being pushed, they should be calm to understand whether there is a conflict between their children, and parents should be good at helping their children solve conflicts. Children are more fragile when they are young, and parents should pay attention to their children's hearts and do not criticize their children. Parents should treat their children with an appropriate attitude, so that children will not be bullied by others, and parents should cultivate children's good character.

When the child is young, if he makes a mistake, parents can talk to the child in an appropriate tone, so that the child can realize his mistakes, and the child can quickly correct them. When parents see that their children are being bullied, they should use appropriate language to communicate with their children, so that they can understand what they are wrong. Parents should not think that it is normal for children to fight with each other, and if the child's behavior exceeds the norm, it is easy to cause harm to the child.

If parents want their children to play well with others, they should help their children deal with this kind of thing and tell them how to get along with others. Parents can educate other children appropriately, telling other children not to bully their own children, it will have a bad impact on the children, and the children will also follow the parents' decisions and listen carefully. Parents should teach their children to protect themselves, if the child can not protect himself, he will always be bullied by others, and the child must have a healthy psychology in order to grow up healthy and happy.

Parents should tell their children how to resolve conflicts with their friends, so that children will listen to their parents and become very happy.

At this time, you should teach other children well, secondly, you should also let your children go to a safe place not to fall, so as not to cause harm to the child's body, and secondly, you should also let your child learn to resist.

At this time, I will stay quietly and watch how the child deals with this problem, if the child can handle it well, I don't need to intervene, if it is not handled well, I will definitely intervene.

First of all, as a parent, you should stop this behavior, and then according to the child's words, find out the situation, and then educate the parents and inform the parents of the reason.

1.Take care of your child's mood.

If the child is pushed down and cries, parents should go over to care for the child as soon as possible, calm the child's emotions, let him know that he is not alone, and that there are parents who support him at all times and give him more security.

Secondly, we need to help them understand the scene "he wants to run over here, not to bully you", so that the child can understand the other person's behavior.

If the child is pushed down, the parents will "stand out" for the child, and the child can easily understand that "I was bullied and wronged." "There are factors that are not good for the development of children.

2.Try not to interfere in the children's world of conflict.

The world of children is so simple, and children's games have rules that belong to children. Let them find solutions to problems in conflict management, and grow in problem solving.

3.Specific analysis of the specific situation of children's one-day activities.

When children are playing around, you may find that some children are relatively introverted and tend to be more passive; Some children can be reasonable, which can play a role in easing conflicts; And there are also some children who have been doted on by their families since they were young and have a certain degree of aggression.

Sometimes, conflicts between children can also "escalate". That's when the adults have to intervene. The first thing to do is to understand the situation; secondly, specific analysis; Finally, reason with the child.

The most undesirable thing is that parents save face for Zhongli, and they can't help but talk about bringing in their children or criticizing or scolding. This can easily hurt their self-esteem and also ruin everyone's good mood.

4.Teach your child to protect himself in moderation.

1) If the conflict is a small friction in normal life, children can learn to be tolerant and not unforgiving.

2) If the vested rights and interests belonging to the child are violated, the child should be allowed to fight on the basis of reason, not blindly retreat, and learn to defend and resist appropriately in the case of equal strength.

3) If the other party has a large number of people or a disparity in strength with you, don't blindly go head-to-head. You can ask your parents or police uncle for help afterwards.

5.The final solution to the problem: the child.

This is a crucial point that is often overlooked. When children have conflicts, adults often come forward to solve them, and even small things are turned into big things! What we do most often is go straight to the answer:

It's not right for you to do that, you should ......So, when will children learn to think for themselves and really learn the skills to interact and get along with others?

The correct way is to guide the child to express his own views through communication with the child: what causes the conflict, how he and the other party feel, what the consequences will be, and what solutions are available. The purpose is to allow children to solve problems independently through practice.

Children's growth needs the companionship and education of parents, parents may wish to try this:

Don't interfere too much with what your child is doing (develop concentration); Communicate more with your child in language and tell bedtime stories at night (cultivate your child's language organization ability and lay the foundation for future writing and reading); Take your child outdoors more often (exercise, improve immunity, irritate.