A small group of people insisted on chatting and taking pictures with the elderly in the countryside

Xu Kai, a 29-year-old guy from Shaanxi, has attracted widespread attention from netizens because he insisted on chatting and taking pictures with the elderly in the countryside for 10 years, and netizens praised it. In the past 10 years, Xu Kai insisted on chatting with the old people in the village and fields, and recorded the beautiful moments of their conversation with the camera.

Patience and an "iron voice" are Xu Kai's magic weapons. We know that many elderly people tend to lose their hearing when they get older, and it will be difficult to communicate with them, and many young people simply ignore the elderly, but Xu Kai has established contact with the elderly with his unique patience. Xu Kai's communication with the elderly is even more concerned about the elderly, and many elderly people even burst into tears because of this.

Many of the elderly's children travel away for study or work, and they only return home for a long time to visit, which makes the elderly very lonely. It may be precisely because of the loneliness and desire for family affection in the hearts of the old people that Xu Kai has chosen to chat with the elderly for ten years. Although it is just a simple chat, it may be a real warmth for the elderly.

Take pictures of the elderly for ten years, and the old people are living history. Xu Kai revealed that he once took a picture of a 103-year-old man, and when he looked back, the ** had become the last photo of the old man, which couldn't help but make people sigh. "The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, the child wants to raise and does not wait", this should be the most painful thing for many old people's descendants, accompany them when the old people are alive, don't do too much, often go home to see, like Xu Kai to chat with the old man is ......

Xu Kai's persistence can be liked by the majority of netizens, which probably resonates with them and evokes the good memories of many people and the older generation. Xu Kai's action is also a reminder for the public, "often go home to see" is not empty language, it is a real sitting down with parents to eat and chat, in fact, they really don't want much, your simple care is enough!

He would listen carefully to the words of these old people, talk with them, chat and take pictures together, and insisted on it for 10 years.

A small group insisted on chatting and taking pictures with the old people in the countryside for ten years, and he persevered with the kindness and justice in his heart.

I think it's because of what he loves that he has persevered, and now that there is such a boy, I think he is very worthy of praise, he must be a very patient and loving person who persevered.

This young man relied on the kindness of his heart and his perseverance to persist in this habit.

Xu Kai, 29, was born in Fuping County, Shaanxi Province, and whenever he goes back to his rural hometown, Xu Kai always likes to sit next to the old people and listen to them tell their stories. Since he pressed the shutter of his camera for the first time in high school, he has left more than 500 elderly people smiling. For Xu Kai, each of these freeze-frame times has a historical imprint.

Xu Kai told reporters that every old person is like a thick history book, and talking to them can broaden their cognition. Taking pictures of the elderly is like adding a bookmark to the memory, and every time you take it out and look at it, you can remember the past.

Although he is now facing the pressure of work and life, as long as he passes through the countryside and meets a suitable subject, Xu Kai will always stop, take out his camera, and open the "chatterbox". After taking a photo, Xu Kai will print out ** on the spot and give it to the old man, whenever this time, the old man's face will always bloom with a smile.

This little guy insisted on taking pictures and chatting with the elderly for ten years, he may be doing academic research, or he may have a kind faith, taking care of the elderly with practical actions to chat and take pictures with them, with seemingly simple, but in fact, ordinary people can not adhere to this noble character, and do things of noble character within their own ability for the society.

This must be a person with a lot of feelings, a person who is more filial.

It shows that the guy has a heart of respect for the elderly, and it is very rare to chat with the elderly for ten years, and there is a lack of such caring people in the society, which is very praiseworthy.

A 29-year-old guy in rural Shaanxi Province has been chatting with the elderly in the countryside for ten years in his spare time.

I think he must be able to do this because he likes the old man very much, and likes to see the happy smile on the old man's face when he chats with him. And I also love photography, and I like to dig out some interesting old stories from the mouths of old people.

For today's young people, most of them live in busy cities, and their daily lives are very regular. In order to be able to make more money, many people choose to work in a city far away from their hometown and come to an unfamiliar city to work alone.

In the face of the elderly at home, they may only be able to give ** condolences on weekdays, and the time they spend at home all year round is only a handful.

Therefore, the behavior of this Shaanxi guy is particularly heartwarming; Being able to give up the opportunity to develop in big cities and work hard in the countryside is the result of ten years. There is only one reason that can make him persevere, and that is the love for the old man in his heart.

In our generation, many of them are left-behind children who grew up, and they have lived with their grandparents since they were young, so their feelings for grandparents are very deep.

This Shaanxi guy can spend ten years with the elderly, chat with them, and leave them precious **. I don't think I could have done this without patience and a warm heart.

And through his relationship with the elderly, many times he has become a year-old friend with the elderly; His behavior also moved many old people very much, once he gave a straw hat to the old man working in the field, and told the old man not to tan.

Such a simple act actually made the old man cry. It was also because of this incident that he was more determined to care for the elderly.

I think the spirit and warm heart of this young man are worth learning from; If you want to learn to care for the elderly, you should start with the elderly around you.

He hopes that through his own small efforts, he can make the lives of these elderly people a little more colorful and have an optimistic attitude towards life.

Because the young man is very concerned about the entertainment life of the elderly in the countryside, he hopes that he can accompany them.

He likes the old man very much, and likes to see the happy smile on the old man's face when he chats with him. Love to hear them talk about their own experiences and feelings.

The guy is quite popular and popular, and he can be described as an old friend of the old people in the countryside.

The guy's name is Xu Kai, he is a freelance photographer, he and his friends go to the countryside every week to see the old people in the countryside, chat with them, listen to their stories, and give them free photos**. When the old people talked about the proudest thing in their lives, their eyes shone like light. In the blink of an eye, he has persisted in this matter for ten years, and he has brought a lot of happiness to the old people in ten years, but sometimes there is also loss.

Xu Kai remembered that there was a centenarian, and when he chatted with him, his eyes were very calm. Xu Kai himself was also very excited that he could actually chat with centenarians who were more than 100 years old. After taking a good picture of the old man, when he went to look for the old man again, the old man was already gone, which was also his regret.

Xu Kai's behavior also drove a lot of young people, and there were many young people who took the initiative to chat with the elderly, and they used the power of young people to infect the old people.

In fact, what the old people lack is not any fine clothes and food, all they want is someone to talk to. We keep catching up every day, but we forget the old people who have been waiting silently behind us. They have struggled all their lives, struggled for life when they were young, and regarded children as the center of their lives when they had children.

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With the continuous upgrading and development of technology and information, we always care about new things, and we run fast enough to do our best. The old people behind us are getting farther and farther away from us, and many old people don't even know how to scan the code on WeChat, so we need to stop and pay more attention to them. Empty nesters also need love and attention, even if it's just to sit down and listen to him, talk about today's weather, and talk about new words lately.

It's not that they're resistant to something new, it's because no one has ever taught them what it means.

Xu Kai is an old friend of the old people, he brings love to the old people, he brings joy to the old people, and the old people also welcome him and his friends very much.

The popularity must be very good. Most of the young and middle-aged people in the countryside have gone to the city to work, and the left-behind elderly are very lonely, and the older they are, the more they hope that there is a person who can talk to them.

I think the guy's popularity must be very good, first of all, most of the old people in the countryside are lonely and widowed old people, they are eager to be accompanied, and the companionship of the guy makes them feel the warmth of home; Secondly, the guy's move has persisted for ten years, which shows that he is not a whim, and this will also be missed by the locals.

He is very popular in the local area, everyone likes him, he likes to chat with the elderly, and take pictures of the elderly for free. When I saw the old man, I took the initiative to chat with them. He likes to listen to the old man tell his story, and the old man likes to tell him his story.

This person is particularly popular in the local area and is liked by many people, especially the elderly and children, which is a virtue that is worth learning from each of us.

The popularity must be very good. Now there are very few guys who are willing to chat with the old man, and they can hold on for so many years.

In real life, many people of the older generation are not good at verbal expression, and their children rarely sit quietly to chat with them, and as soon as they hear a little nagging from the elderly, they quickly cover their ears and run away. Many young people today also say that the generation gap between the two generations is too large, and it is difficult to communicate with the elderly. But in fact, it is not difficult to communicate with the elderly, but it requires skills.

Like Xu Kai, patience and an iron voice are his two "magic weapons". Indeed, due to their age, most of the elderly are lagging behind in accepting new things, and often cannot keep up with the pace of young people, so there are naturally certain difficulties in communication. But because of this, we need to be more patient and loving to treat this group of elderly people.

If the elderly's ears are not good, when we speak, we can raise our voice by a few decibels, and even take the trouble to say it several times to try to make them hear clearly.

In addition, communication is a two-way process, when we communicate with the elderly, we should not only ask them to accept their own topics, but should try to put ourselves in their shoes to see and feel things, take into account their psychological emotions, so that they feel understood and accepted. In addition, we don't have to argue with the elderly about everything, but say our thoughts euphemistically, which can promote mutual understanding through empathy.

Before the Double Ninth Festival, also known as "Old People's Day" or "Respect for the Aged Day", do you know how long it has been since you talked to the elderly? No matter what the answer is, from now on, we should regain our love for the elderly and take more time to visit the elderly at home.

The ancients often said that filial piety comes first, and we spend more time on the elderly on weekdays, give them more care, and let them have more warm days, in fact, this is also to let themselves be cared for longer. Even though there are thousands of reasons, it is better to go home often to accompany the elderly, chatting with them, eating, going out for a walk, such simple happiness is more precious than buying gifts for the elderly. Because, family affection is priceless, and companionship is the best gift.

He is a photographer, and by chance he greeted a strange old man and was recorded by his teammates and posted on the Internet, which became popular overnight, and everyone felt very cordial, so he continued the matter.

He wanted to make a documentary to record the living conditions of the elderly in the countryside, and this is his purpose.

He likes to take pictures of the elderly for free and chat with the elderly, which is his interest. He said that every old person is a book, and it is intriguing to keep the moment they smile and think about their lives.

I probably really care about these old people, I am afraid that something will happen to these old people, and I love these old people from the bottom of my heart to do this kind of thing. So the young man has a good heart and a good person, and he will have a good future in the future.

Some netizens suspected that he took pictures of these elderly people in order to make himself popular. This Shaanxi guy is a professional photographer, but his biggest hobby is not to shoot some landscapes, nor to shoot models with exquisite makeup, but to photograph some plainly dressed old people and record their most real side. He has a goal, which is to shoot 9,999 elderly people, and he has already photographed more than 500 elderly people, which is still a lot short of the goal, but he said that he will continue to do so in the future.

He not only takes pictures with the elderly, but also chats with the elderly, he said that he doesn't care whether he is popular or not, he thinks that the old people are like living history, and talking to them will increase his knowledgeMany old people may not have a ** of their own in their lives, and this guy wants to make up for the regrets of these old people. The guy also has a habit of his own, he will not give ** to the old man immediately after shooting**, but will solemnly put the photo into a photo frame and then give it to the old man.

He hopes that the ** he photographed can make more people pay attention to the elderly group, think of his grandparents or parents in the countryside, visit them more, and give them some care. What many elderly people want is not for their children to send something back to show their filial piety, but for seeing their children with their own eyes and wanting to sit at the same table with their children to eat. I think the fact that he was able to hold out for 10 years is enough to show that he is not taking the opportunity to hype.

Photographing old people is this guy's hobby, and he learns a lot in the process. Because of this guy's **, many people have begun to pay attention to their relatives in the countryside, which is a very good phenomenon. In the same way, I think that it is not only the elderly who are left behind who need attention, but also the children who are left behind.

They need more care and attention from their parents. We are busy with work, we are busy with life, but we should not forget the parents behind us, forget their care and care for us when we were young, and forget how lonely they are when they grow old. I also want to thank this guy for bringing these old people back into the public eye.