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They don't have their own independent life and always rely on each other, they pin all their hopes on each other, they always show humility and flattery in their relationships, and these women are often not cherished.
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People who have no principles, people who have no bottom line, people who take the initiative to pay, people who have no independent personality, and people who have no economic strength.
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Don't ask for anything in return, just know how to pay The more infatuated a woman is, the more she will be good to a man regardless of return. In a relationship, if a woman always gives one-sidedly and shows no regrets, the man will feel that he has eaten you.
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It is often said that marriage is a grave, but it really depends on what one thinks. Some people poetically live a married life. Some people complain all day long that marriage can bury a person's fulfillment.
It is also possible to bury a person's soul. We want to perfect our lives with a positive mindset and an upward attitude. If you don't embellish your soul all day long and ask, isn't marriage a grave?
A woman who is getting married must have a soul of her own. Because there are more conditions attached to getting married, it is estimated that no one will like to bury themselves.
We should keep ourselves the purest of ourselves before we get married, no matter what it may be. Don't forget yourself because you're married. Because before the union, the man is now.
You don't become after getting married. A woman is made of water, and she must have a pure heart. But women also have to cultivate themselves, cultivate their own qualities, and know that life is positive and optimistic.
You can't always forget yourself for the sake of firewood. Women should know how to love themselves. Only by loving yourself can others love you.
Women are the same as men. The root of not being cherished is that you have no love, and you think that others love you as love. This understanding is the opposite, love is giving.
There is no charge. > as long as you have the desire to repay, you will feel wronged, selfishness is a killer, and the reason why people don't cherish it is selfishness. One person is selfish, and the other person, even if the realm is not high, can be calculating, selfish, and follow a vicious circle. Only one mindset can get out of this vicious circle.
It's about being yourself. First of all, you must have love, and you don't care about what you can give in return, or even about favors and revenge. This is the best way to do it to others and yourself.
If you can't do it, it's cheap. In addition, others ask or do not give, do not pursue, others give and tolerate, absolutely can not be grateful, can not have the feeling they deserve. That's what love is.
If you stretch out your hand like a beggar, you should think that you "deserve it". Such people are hurting themselves. Therefore, people who have achieved great things throughout the ages have this in common, and it is said that they are broad-minded.
Only by embracing all rivers can we be happy.
Inner prosperity is true happiness, and it doesn't feel like a big deal. Cool as a cucumber. Only when the heart is poor and narrow-minded can one be selfish.
In this way, you can feel all kinds of grievances, suffer from pain, and feel the urge to be anxious. In this sense, there is no love in the heart. Only those who want to take care of their own expenses cheaply will cherish it.
Only when you have love in your heart can you get love. It's their own business, and in marriage, women who devote themselves wholeheartedly to their families and children are the least likely to cherish! This woman forgets to love herself because she loves everyone!
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It should be that a very strong and very humble woman is difficult to cherish.
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A woman who gives for a long time in the relationship, gives herself for a long time, is often moved by herself, can't listen to the advice of others, and doesn't care about her own feelings, will not be cherished by others.
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Selfish woman. Because selfish women only know how to take, but do not know how to give, so they are not cherished.
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Generally speaking, being too proactive in a relationship can lead to the other person not valuing your efforts, but this is not absolute. Each person and every relationship is unique, so the perception of this issue will vary. Here are some perspectives:
1.Balance and interaction: Balance and mutual input in a relationship are important.
If you have been offering and the other person has not responded to the same level, it can lead to an unbalanced relationship, and the other person may take your contribution for granted. In this case, you may feel left out or not valued.
2.Self-esteem and independence: If you are too proactive, you may give the impression that you have no life and independence of your own.
This can lead the other person to perceive you as too dependent on them, which in turn will reduce the value of you. Maintaining your self-esteem and independence is very important for building healthy relationships.
3.Communication and consensus: In relationships, communication and consensus are key.
If your efforts are too much and the other person's expectations or abilities are exceeded, and there is no clear communication and consensus, it can cause the other person to feel stressed or confused. Make sure you and the other person have a common understanding and expectation to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.
4.Individual differences: Everyone's needs and expectations are different.
Some people may prefer to play a passive role in a relationship, while others may prefer to take the initiative to express their feelings. Understanding each other's personal differences and preferences, and building a foundation of mutual respect and understanding with each other, can lead to a healthy relationship.
The key is to find a balance that works for you and the other person, and establish an open, honest and respectful line of communication with the other person. Don't get overly attached to an overly active or passive role, but focus on building a balanced and mutually supportive relationship.
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Always pay for each other, often quarrel with each other, be cold and violent with each other, and have a cold war with each other, if there are women who perform these 4 things, men will not cherish them.
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Don't go out to work.,Maybe you don't take things seriously at home.,Often perfunctory.,Treat the feelings of the tomato reputation very inspecifically.,Always entangled with the opposite sex who knows him.。
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A woman who blindly pays in her relationship, a woman who can tolerate anything, a woman who is unreasonable, and a woman who interferes too much in the lives of men and people, men will not cherish it.
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As long as you give more, you will love yourself. So, in the face of the object of the heart, she always reciprocates. Good morning, I will send it on time, cooking and laundry are courteous, holidays are a gift, greetings are the same, and the girl wants to be consistent.
However, the doctor's mind is not so, when the boy pays, but when you get a lot easily, he has little strength and enthusiasm for the girl.
The girl will pay for childbirth, which is all the time reducing personal charm and will make him feel that the girl's salary is just some cheap salary, it will not bring him a lot of value, so he will cherish the girl more and more, and even more and more he will cherish the girl The more you worry, the more tired he is, the more you want to escape this feeling. In order to get more love, the girl will increase the payment. Every time they pay it, they have to have something in return.
The resentment in my heart gradually built up in my heart, and I did so much for him. He was not grateful, and the payment she hoped for was filled with inner grievances and began to complain or be distressing.
And the man would be embarrassed, I was very interested in myself, I should have loved her more, but he hated complaining, accusing the language of such attacks, and in order to escape from this feeling, he escaped this feeling more and more. To be honest, I was in a lot of pain because I hadn't been loved enough before, and I always wanted to be more cared for in my relationship, but was often paid and the boys didn't feel it, even her spare tire. Once you meet your favorite girl, he will leave and give a lot to the student.
In fact, good feelings require hard work, and the most important thing to make the other person feel valued and willing to pay your payment. In Wood, if it were just one person who always had to respond, then the person who paid would become more and more unbalanced in his heart, and it would use complaints, accusations, which many boys avoided, and these two people could easily fall into the "ask to avoid" along the model, feeling prone to existential problems.
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Because many boys are born in happiness and don't know how to be blessed, they take it for granted that this woman does this, and this kind of woman can't let boys have any desire to protect at all.
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Because many boys have a desire for conquest and exclusivity, the more sensible women are, the less they can arouse their desire to conquer, so they don't know how to cherish the people in front of them, and feel that these women will not leave them.
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Because this is human nature, the happiness in front of us is often ignored and not cherished, and it is not regretted until it is lost.
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……Not being cherished has nothing to do with being affectionate, and generally boys don't cherish it because of boy scum (or not in love with you).
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Maybe it's because such girls are too secure, and boys want more of a sense of accomplishment in pursuit.
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For affectionate people, they are the most vulnerable to injury. Some things are judged by feelings. So it's easy to get hurt.
You're hurt, and you don't know why. for when your scales are tilted against him. It must be the other side of the equation that is more extreme.
Then the person will think. I think even from the extreme side. When I'm not satisfied, does she do this to me?
If it is to be affectionate. That's the complex feelings of human beings. Sometimes it's particularly selfish.
Therefore, unnecessary harm will be generated. If it's you, it's better to care for everyone. It was a love in the broadest sense of the word.
It is also a manifestation of kindness. No one else can hurt you. Even if you get hurt, you'll recover quickly.
So, you're extremely good to a person. Then it's about to go in the opposite direction. Everyone is born to parents, and everyone has their own personality and characteristics.
There's no need to be so affectionate.
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