Why did you become scum after a breakup? Why do people become scum after falling out of love

Updated on healthy 2024-08-13
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    How to say, about not hurting girls, in fact, when you decide to be with her, there are bound to be harms, so hurting girls because of a breakup is just a result.

    And the scumbag is an excuse, if you can't bear it, you shouldn't have this beginning, everyone is an adult, and you have to be responsible for what you have done and said.

    What we decide requires us to do our best, not to do nothing.

    It's easy to break up, but it's hard to heal a wound. This is a fast-paced era, and so is the relationship, and people who are drunk and depressed in the middle of the night because of love go viral.

    Most of the time we are full of smiles, and that's because others don't owe us anything, and we can't bring bad emotions to others, so we seem happy.

    Finally, no matter what, everyone should cherish themselves and make themselves "rich" first, and other good things will follow, look forward to it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Because you can't find the person you want to put your heart to anymore.

    Or, if you feel that the pay is not proportional to the return, you will not treat it sincerely, and you will naturally be scum.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Breaking up will give people an indescribable real pain in their hearts, this pain is stronger than the pain of the girl's aunt, and the love and remorse in the heart after the pain can change everything about people, and hard work or Shen Lun will change very completely. Becoming a scum after a breakup should be an understanding of love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It may be that I was hit after the breakup, so I thought it didn't matter anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because the person I like is no longer by my side, I feel that no one cares anymore and if I have been in love for a long time and break up, it will be even more sad, after all, I have been with and paid for so many years, and I have formed so many years of dependence and habits, and in the end I didn't leave anything During that time, I felt as if he had to be, and slowly this concept was imprinted in my mind, and I couldn't be interested in anyone, and I didn't dare to show my sincerity, for fear that this person would leave him like the previous one. Without mercy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because the injury was too serious

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I've met someone who looks better than you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How to mention the breakup looks like you scum. You've found a girl who's prettier than you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ask someone directly for a breakup fee.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is nothing that cannot be passed, only the mood that cannot be passed. You were broken up because your ex dumped you, and you feel like you've become a scumbag, which is guilty of your current you. You haven't moved on from your last relationship.

    I hurriedly threw myself into a new relationship. So you feel like you've become scum. If you want to be good to each other, you can be friends with him first.

    There's no need to make deep friends. He'll understand, too.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, after going home and thinking clearly, you may feel that you are not suitable, maybe he meets a better one, and he dare not say to you, in fact, people are like this, and they meet good. In fact, the best is around, he won't cherish it, and if he doesn't like you, it's useless for you to keep his people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is the most uncontrollable, although you feel that you have been thinking about your ex in your heart, but you can say what you want without scruples about this girl, express your possessiveness, in fact, your ex is just a habit, and now is what you like the most, and you have to let go of the feelings that have passed, so as to have a better start!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I was broken up, I was dumped, I felt like I was scum, and that's because you gave up on yourself. A lot of things are like this, once you make yourself sad, you will give up on yourself. But no matter what, we must learn to look at the correct analysis of the problem.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You were broken up because your ex felt like you weren't responsible. You didn't come out of your last relationship. Throw yourself into a new relationship.

    For you and the current one, it's hurting each other. Why bother? If you're not ready, you can start by being friends, and there's no need for others to expect so much from you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Some people will always feel that if they really like someone, they are willing to humble him, and even put down their own body and devote themselves to this relationship, as long as he can be happy and willing to be with him, it will be fine.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whichever party loves deeply, it will pay more, it's not that you become scum, it's just that you don't pay so much, in your heart, you still pretend to be your ex, and you don't take the current one so seriously.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe every time you don't take it seriously, so you feel guilty and guilty. The next time you meet a girl who is willing to walk into you, please be gentle with her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to be confident, it's not your ex's fault that you were dumped, the scum should be dealing with me, do you say? If you break up, you can forget about the past, that's all before, don't think about it anymore.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You've been broken up, you feel like you've been dumped, don't get caught. Only possible your own mental thoughts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It may be that you are addicted to this relationship and can't extricate yourself and don't come out.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because you are on the passive side. There will be a slight imbalance psychologically.

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