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Anonymous users2024-02-16Gentleness and indifference, in fact, are not opposites, really gentle people are often accompanied by the characteristics of indifference, not that they are indifferent, but they see clearly that many things do not have to be enthusiastic.
In fact, when you grow up, you will find that those who are really gentle are not soft-spoken and weak in action;
Gentleness is more like a kind of indifference and warmth after being tempered, understanding and tolerance in the face of the world, acceptance and respect for self, high emotional intelligence and empathy, and an ability that can make people feel comfortable at all times.
You feel that they are so soft that you want to get closer, you want to go deeper, but they politely avoid all contact that could have a negative impact.
I won't get too close to you, I won't help you too personally, I won't open up to you and talk to you.
It's as if they're just hovering within the safety line, doing everything to perfection, but you'll never be able to reach them in another dimension.
The so-called indifference comes from this.
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Anonymous users2024-02-15First of all, we must adjust our mentality, treat different people differently, and people who are good to ourselves must be gentle, and outsiders must be indifferent.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14If you already have a suitable other half, you must keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex, and give all your tenderness to your other half, so that you can be a gentle and indifferent person.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13Be clear about your bottom line and have a clear goal and direction, so that you can be a person who is both gentle and cold.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Maybe you also have such confusion:
Why do some people are naturally gentle, and they seem to be born with a lack of this temperament?
Born in an unhappy family, often unable to control their emotions, and even attacking others, how to solve it?
Psychology believes that those who have the best power are more likely to have the power of gentleness.
Force is a kind of psychological repair ability, which can not only heal itself, but also help others.
They are able to realize what they are feeling, and they are less likely to lose control of their emotions and are less likely to act impulsively and destructively.
On the contrary, many relationships break down precisely because of the lack of ** force.
They gain a temporary sense of control by turning on a state of self-preservation, using anger, accusations, and discrimination, and they can't wait to hurt the other person to avoid becoming the one being hurt.
German psychologist Karen said: In order for a person to truly grow, he must be aware of himself and accept it calmly, and at the same time pursue something. 」
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Be gentle in sensual matters and indifferent in rational matters.
Look at everything, there is no perfect thing or person in the world, don't take the result gain or loss too seriously, treat everything with a tolerant heart, make others happy is equivalent to making yourself happy, uncut things are in the cycle, you want to think about how others treat you, you should first treat others. Don't always want to reap before you give, look at anything optimistically, you will find that your heart will be very broad-minded, everything depends on your mentality.
In fact, it is a matter of mentality, and most of the lack of confidence is the fear of unknown difficulties. At first, this feeling will be very weak, but because you keep imagining how difficult it is, and you deepen it over and over again, and over time it plays a leading role in your mind, and when you encounter difficulties, you instinctively lack the courage to face them. I have believed in others so many times in my life, but this time I just need to believe in myself. >>>More
Simple. Be yourself. If you can't look at it, you have to sit. >>>More
The reason why people are annoyed is that they have too much attachment and value many things, such as money, career, and fame. The Buddha said that the reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. Let go, you will be at ease, learn to let go, then your mood will be natural and peaceful. >>>More
First of all, you have to have an awareness, you have to realize that you are not impulsive and suddenly want to become, after this impulsive period, give up, you must know, this is a very hard process, is a long process of perseverance, if you are mentally prepared, then please look at the following, for my classmates, I tell them that only if you want to learn to learn independently your grades can be greatly improved, want to learn to show in, with the greatest serious listening, the greatest serious homework to complete the learning things, often ask the teacher questions, Many people say to me that they are timid, they dare not raise their hands to speak, they dare not ask questions, I think the problem is not these, but your determination is not big enough, your awareness of learning is not strong enough, so, I think the most important thing is your learning awareness, and then it is hard work, I don't know what grade you are now, if you have enough time to start writing all the wrong questions into a wrong book or sorting, you can take a look at some learning methods on the Internet, and explore a suitable learning method for yourself. If you don't have enough time to start with your homework, write your homework carefully, and ask more questions if you don't know (this is what the teacher told me) Learning is a process of accumulation is a cyclical and gradual process, work hard, start small, only feel that you are a little better than yesterday every day, that is success, and your grades will naturally come up after persevering for a long time, and the top students are not only good academic performance, but also have a good relationship with classmates, help each other, and improve your grades in the process of learning from each other, come on, If you have the determination, I'm sure you can.