My daughter didn t listen to the advice to marry in Africa, and her life was very bad, should I pers

Updated on society 2024-08-14
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Knowing this, why should I think about taking the initiative to marry my daughter to Africa when I married my daughter. In addition to that, I still want to ask, do you want a bride price when you marry your daughter to an African man? How much is the bride price?

    Let's reveal that too.

    This matter is like the water spilled by a married daughter, how can there be any reason to take back the water, not to mention that you not only want to take back the water now, but also want to take the water back and then splash it elsewhere.

    1. Be responsible for the choices you make.

    Of course, it may be because of my limited thinking, or my emotional limitations, in most cases I think that it is not appropriate to marry a girl, especially in certain countries.

    I know that such a thought is limited, so I am trying to change, but I can't overcome the hurdle in my heart.

    At the same time, I just want to say to this mother: we can understand how you love your daughter, but if you take your daughter back and marry other boys, what do other boys think? Isn't this ruining the lives of other boys?

    2. Take responsibility for your actions.

    We are all adults, and it doesn't make much sense to come up with such a thing. Everyone also knows that if you marry your daughter far away to Africa or to a certain other place, when this daughter is completely unsuitable for the customs and habits of a certain place, it will already invisibly increase the difficulty when she comes back.

    What's more important is that this so-called tossing and turning, which we call the poor toss, is it fair to this girl to another man who will marry someday in the future?

    Can you persuade him to return home? insisted on going at the beginning, but only reality can educate her and understand things. Being a mother is how much she can do for her, and only when he wakes up and takes the initiative to return to China can he come back.

    African countries are already lagging behind China, and China in the 70s was much better than African countries today. Only when you experience this gap yourself will you know that the motherland is good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    My daughter doesn't listen to advice, it's not good to marry and live in Africa, I suggest you let your daughter and her husband come back to China to develop, there are many opportunities in China, you are closer to your mother, and life is also very good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    First, ask her what her own thoughts are. Ask her to see if she wants to return to China, if she intends to return to China, you can persuade her to divorce, if she insists on staying in Africa, then respect her own choice.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    As a mother, of course, she should do this, her daughter's life is not happy, and there are many times when the mother should make decisions for her daughter, and let her daughter return to China to find a better one who loves her better, which is better than anything else.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think she should still be persuaded to divorce and return to China, and when you encounter this situation in your life, you must act quickly, don't delay it for too long, otherwise you will definitely become more and more unhappy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    She should be persuaded to come back, because the living conditions in Africa are very poor, backward, and not good, so it is better to return to China for development.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    She should indeed be persuaded to divorce and return to China to find one, because then she can find a better life for herself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My daughter didn't listen to the advice to marry in Africa, and her life was very bad, and I think I should persuade her to divorce and return to China to find one, because her life there is unhappy, and an unhappy life has no future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you stand in the perspective of parents, the happiness of the daughter will always come first, because this is her child, and the same daughter is older, and the feeling of happiness is determined by her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Africa is not monogamous, and what woman wants to share her husband with another woman. And then the conditions in all aspects are not as good as in our country. Everyone thinks they shouldn't be able to get used to it.

    Unless it's true love, the man is good to them. Especially in Africa, the hairstyle is peculiar, and the food is also strange. Plus the ecological environment.

    It's really overwhelming. They are also very sad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't know,,How are you doing,Only I know,It's not that you're unhappy if you marry in a foreign place,Many women,Married to a local man,,Most of them are also divorced,,Happiness or not only you know,,Others only put forward opinions,,Can't ask blindly...

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It also depends on the place, there are good places in Africa, but marrying into Africa has a low status. There is no equality between men and women in Africa, and in many places women are tools for giving birth to children.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Those girls who have to be wronged must be having a bad time now, because the situation on his side is different from ours, the customs are even more difficult, and the language is not so painful, do you say they are doing well? What about the fact that they were all marrying foreigners for the sake of their own face?

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There must be some good, some bad, all the same.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Whether you live well or not has a lot to do with marrying the right person, and has little to do with the region.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's definitely not good, the environment over there is really unbearable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now enjoying the bathing of the sun, the physical strength of the black man. The body is comfortable and enjoys the impact.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Very good, hanging big, **, natural, air. None of them are comparable in China.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Whether it's good or bad is all a matter of personal feelings. You accept that whatever you face is good, and if you don't accept it, it is bad. What's more, if you choose it, how useful it is to regret it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If Chinese girls marry into these countries, the living conditions and working environment are relatively good, but if they marry into those poor and backward countries, they will really suffer a lot. There are always people who say that the life of a husband and wife depends on the love of two people. But the reality is not so simple, after entering the marriage hall, you must consider firewood, rice, oil and salt.

    Although some of the above things sound ridiculous, they are all facts after all, and there are many girls who marry in Africa and cry and shout that they want to return home. However, most Chinese girls who marry Africans now settle in China, and Africans also want to live in a more developed China. When choosing a transnational marriage, female friends must be thoughtful, and don't wait until they get married to know that they regret it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's so poor and backward over there, and there are many diseases, so it can be better.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Most of the girls who marry far away from Africa are unhappy because they don't think Africa is so poor, and many African men don't respect women.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For those girls who marry far away from Africa, in fact, they generally do not have a good life. Because the culture and environment of the two countries are really too different.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is understood that most of the girls who marry far away from Africa are not doing well now, because of cultural differences and differences in living customs, they are not used to it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Actually, it's a good life, and people in Africa are actually very good to their wives, and sometimes we may see only a few exceptions.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is said that it is not particularly good, mainly because the environment and living conditions are very poor, and there is no comparison with the life in China, and I regret wanting to come back, but I can't come back at all, so I can only go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    They are not doing well at all, because the local area is very poor and resources are very scarce.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The girls who married far away from Africa are not doing well at all, because the men in Africa are so machismo.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The girls who married far away to Africa are generally not doing very well now. Because the living environment in Africa is really difficult to adapt.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think the girls who marry far away from Africa will have a hard time. In fact, I don't understand why so many excellent boys in China choose African men? In terms of quality, I think most Chinese men have the upper hand.

    First, the economic conditions of African families are backward

    I'm not discriminating on the region, in fact, Africa's economic conditions are really not that good, and their first-tier cities may be equivalent to our fifth- and sixth-tier cities. And you have to know that the economic conditions of the family you are looking for may be even worse, not to mention that you are full of love and water, you will know that firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, etc. will cost money, and then the child's education will make you even more troubled. This is a problem that every family in the world has to face, and Africa's educational resources are indeed very backward.

    Second, the living and eating habits are very different

    In addition to the economic aspect, your eating habits will be very problematic, and the food in Africa is certainly not as rich and colorful as our Greater China. And they don't care about hygiene, in other words, they live very casually, and there are not so many rules. Originally, you were a very clean woman, and after marrying in Africa, you might have to catch vegetables with your bare hands, and endure not taking a shower for a few days, which will make you sad to think about.

    3. Some African men can have several wives

    After a woman marries in Africa, she endures all kinds of problems above. The biggest problem is that you are not the only woman who is next to your pillow. This is for women who think that there can only be one person in our inherent cognition, and most women must be unacceptable to this problem, but if you are married, you can't help but see if you can accept it, you can only sigh and cry day and night.

    However, the above points are just some of the problems I think I have to go through when marrying into Africa, and maybe they are not miserable. As long as you truly love each other, any kind of problem can be overcome, and happiness is the most important thing.

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