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I'm also two places farther than you.
This kind of thing is to come step by step, two people are in agreement, and eventually the family will agree, not to mention that now the transportation is convenient, distance is not a problem, love or not is the problem.
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First of all, two people together, to understand each other, is just the simplest and the main problem! You can sincerely talk to your girlfriend's parents, people's hearts are flesh and blood, you also have to think about it, the girl is not as far away as the son, and the parents will definitely not be at ease, one is that they can't see it, and the other is that they don't dare to affirm you now, you have to use your sincerity to influence her parents, and you have to love him well
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Don't know what difficulties you have in your work? If not, then buy a house in the city of the woman's family, it is understandable, after all, it is still so young, just leave home, parents will not be at ease, if your parents have nothing to oppose, it will be better, you love each other very much, you can't be separated because of where to place your home.
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Two ways: the first method, the two of you go to the woman's house together to do ideological work, the small one is emotional and one ceremony, people's hearts are flesh and blood, the reason why the woman's family does not agree is also afraid that their daughter will suffer if she marries in other provinces, it depends on your attitude.
The second method is to cook raw rice and mature rice, that is, two people go directly to register their marriage (the premise is that her family is not open at all, and she is not emotional), but I do not recommend this, this is a last resort.
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You can go to Jiangxi Province to buy a new house, if she doesn't marry, you can go over.
Don't tell me you don't want to go, you can't even go over, let someone else come?
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As long as you are determined and can reassure the woman's parents, there is nothing to worry about. So you have to work hard to reassure the girl's parents.
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Aren't you going to go over?? Make the raw rice into mature rice first, and then the rest will be easy to do!!
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Take your time, as long as the two of you can wait, there will be no problem, the parents are just suggesting, it won't last long, they will compromise if they see that their daughter is really willing.
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Look at what bottom your 2 love can go, either you sacrifice her city for her, or she sacrifices your city, there are no ruthless parents in the world, just communicate a lot.
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Haha、I should say it's not suitable、
You can't find a woman in such a big Fujian province
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Negotiated processing. The subject's family is far away, so your parents are reluctant to let you marry far away - this is normal.
First, they want to see you from time to time.
Second, they are afraid that it will be inconvenient for you to marry so far away.
Third, I'm afraid that you will be bullied by others if you marry so far. Don't think that your husband is good, marrying one person is equivalent to marrying a family.
Your parents don't approve of marrying far away, but is there a way to get you to move to the same city? This is not something your parents want to do. The point is, your economic strength has not reached that level.
In everything, we always have to do what we can. You hope so much that you can be together, get married and have children in the future. Well, of course, you can't be in a long-distance relationship.
It's here. Always, there is always one side that needs to be compromised. The weight of the two benefits is the heavier, and the lesser of the two evils.
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Hello, according to your description, my suggestion is to say that in this case, as long as the two of you love each other very much, in fact, there is no need to care too much about what your parents say, although it is indeed a little difficult to marry far away, but if the two of you are together, it is also okay. The two of you must be together, and there is no way his girlfriend's family will disagree all the time. Even if you don't agree anymore, if you are together, they have no choice but to accept it slowly.
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Probably most parents are like your girlfriend's parents. I don't want your own daughter to marry far away. When the time comes, when you are wronged, there is nowhere to cry. But if you really like to love him. You can do some thought work with his parents. Talk to each other.
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The daughter's boyfriend is a foreigner, whether to agree to him marrying far away, if you can, try not to, but it also depends on the man's character, as well as his family background and family situation, if they are all very good, in fact, don't worry too much, because now the transportation is so developed, if you want to come back, come back.
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should not agree to the daughter's marriage, and generally the daughter marries away from home, there is often no way to live very well, and if she leaves a place where she has lived for a long time, she will be very unaccustomed to it, and she will not be able to come back after being wronged.
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It should not be agreed, it is very hard for a woman to marry far away, and she often can't see her daughter, so she definitely shouldn't agree.
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I think it's best for girls not to marry far away, no one is sure whether the marriage will be good in the end, if it is not good, it will be very wronged.
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If they love each other very much, then they must agree, but if their daughter does not love him very much, then do not agree at all.
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If the relationship between the two of them is very good, I think it is possible to marry far away, and if there is a problem with this man's character, I think he should not marry far away.
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I think it depends on the relationship between two people, and whether the boy can give the girl happiness. Personal opinion.
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The measures taken by the girlfriend's family to disagree with the distant marriage are as follows:
1. Promise to come back several times a year and how long each trip will last.
2. If you don't buy a house, if conditions permit, prepare an extra bedroom and tell them that they can often come to the house to see their daughter.
3. Fully understand the heart of a mother. Most mothers want their daughters to marry closer to them. If you marry far away, it will be more difficult to meet, and the mother will be too reluctant.
4. Prove your care and love for your girlfriend with practical actions. In order to touch the heart of his girlfriend's mother. Finally, communicate well with your mother, and preferably make a promise.
The dangers of long-distance marriage:
1. I don't know where to go after the quarrel. Girls usually slam the door and seep out after a quarrel, but they don't know to go ** after they go out, and they can go to a friend's house or go directly to their own home locally.
2. Being bullied at home. Many girls are bullied, especially when they quarrel at home, they don't have a stupid person to help, which will make women feel like they are completely like an outsider, and they will feel very aggrieved and shout to accompany them, but they are not good at attacking.
3. Can't go home in time after the accident. The elderly need someone to take care of them when they are old, and once something happens to the elderly, they cannot return to their homes to help the elderly at any time, and they may have regrets. <>
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Summary. Kiss, talked about a girlfriend from a foreign place, your family disagrees, in fact, I can only persuade you not to give up your love, if it is just because the other party is in a different place, your family does not agree, in fact, I think your relationship is more worthy of continuing, you don't have to find a local one to fall in love, it may just be more, your parents have not yet understood the girl, and have not really accepted the girl's <>
What should I do if my family disagrees with my girlfriend from out of town.
Kiss, talked about a girlfriend from a foreign place, your family disagrees, in fact, I can only persuade you not to give up your love, if it is just because the other party is in a different place, your family does not agree, in fact, I think your relationship is more worthy of continuing, you don't have to find a local one to fall in love, it may just be more, your parents have not yet understood the girl, and have not really accepted the girl's <>
Hello, I'm a girl, I talked about my boyfriend from other places, my parents didn't agree, and asked my boyfriend to buy a house in my hometown, but he didn't have any money, and I was reluctant to break up with him.
Your first piece is grossly out of place.
Please provide accurate information.
Which statement is true?
I made a typo to be precise, I talked about my boyfriend from other places, and my parents didn't agree.
The first question is how old are you now, the second question, have your parents ever seen that boy, have you really understood that boy, and the third question is that the main reason why your parents don't agree that you are together is because of money?
I'm 24 years old, my dad met me once, my mom didn't, the main reason was that he was out of town, his parents were too far away, and he was worried that I would be difficult in the future, so he objected.
Good sister, 24 words, I think the most basic concept of love should be, parents should not interfere too much in the relationship, if it is really because of a long-distance relationship, persuade you to break up, I think maybe parents have considered talking about marriage more to the point of talking about marriage, you two have been talking for a few years.
We've been talking for four or five years, living together for three years, and I haven't dared to tell my parents, but I have feelings and I am reluctant to ask him to settle down with us, and he can't buy it, so I don't know what to do.
Does my boyfriend know about it now? What was his attitude towards this?
He said he didn't have the money to buy a house, and he said why he didn't go back often to buy a house in my hometown.
To tell you the truth, sisters, although the 24-year-old said that he has been working for a few years, but as an ordinary person, it is really not easy to buy a house at the age of 24, at least for ordinary people, so he must not be able to afford it, this must be the truth.
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Summary. Dear little brother, hello, you can reply like this: Dear, I understand your parents' thoughts very well, they may not be at ease with me, you can rest assured, I will do my best, let them rest assured that you will be handed over to me.
Dear little brother, hello, you can reply like this: Dear, I understand your parents' thoughts very well, they may not be at ease with me, you can rest assured, I will do my best, let them rest assured that you will be handed over to me.
There are also happy people who marry far away.
Marrying at the door does not necessarily mean happiness.
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What should I do if my girlfriend's family doesn't let me marry far away, how can I tell my parents to get my girlfriend's parents to agree with us.
You promise his parents that they will come back for the holidays.
Be sure to let his parents see that you are good to his daughter.
I know this, can you tell me the kind of tirade that tells me.
You can't be a fat man at this time.
Gotta take it slowly, I say take it one step at a time, you do it one step at a time.
That's how his parents reacted.
You tell me directly, wait a minute, I can communicate with my girlfriend's parents.
First of all. You first tell your girlfriend's parents that although you will marry far away, you promise to come back every year during holidays, and if you don't come back, you will also buy health care products for the other party's parents.
Secondly, he promised that he would not let his daughter be wronged, and he would be happy.
You start by telling his parents.
See how to say it.
That's because your parents have always loved you and want their children to be by their side, especially their daughters, because daughters are their parents' intimate little padded jackets.
You can communicate with him about this kind of thing, after all, I think many things can be solved through communication, if it really doesn't work, then don't go.
Wait for her to heal, come to you, generally in this case, the most convincing is your girlfriend, if she loves you, she will find a way to convince her parents to accept you, the only thing you can do is to love her well, and then wait for her parents to accept you.
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Although you don't live with his father, he will be so affected by his family, and if you are really together, it will be affected in the future! Be prepared! Your business is to challenge the majesty of his father's parents, and he will subconsciously suppress you when he gets married in the future, such as thinking of giving you a dismount! >>>More