How do I find my emotions when I fail

Filial piety to your parents is not all about money, and it is only when you start a family that your parents will fulfill their responsibilities and live their own lives with ease. Contentment and happiness A happy family is the happiest and most important.

。Why is it not suitable, it means that my salary is only 2000, I live in a provincial-level city, and I live very freely. There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest, brother.

I think that for this benevolent brother, finding self-confidence is much more important than finding emotion.

The county shouldn't have a high salary, right, are you a boy? If so, let's break in...

The key is to see if there is room for development, if it reaches the top, there is no hope of increasing the money, giving up is a good way!

Management generally has to have outside water to fish, if there is no very annoying, it is generally called a rebate. To be honest, as long as there are rebates to take, the salary is a trivial matter, and the rebate is generally higher than the salary, but you have to have excellent skills, the boss must believe in you, willing to hand over the company to you, what do you want to do or you operate, now you have money in your hands to be real, the boss does not care about your life or death.

Do familiar things, try to get big first, and take your time.

It's great to be able to rely on your own ability to gain a foothold in the city, you don't need to feel that you're useless, so you'll be very unhappy and really not very useful now, the most important thing is to work hard, accumulate experience, it will always be useful, don't think too much, love to fight to win, and for parents, your happiness is the most important.

The job with a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan in the county is already very good, if you want to continue to develop, go to the big city, where you will have competitive pressure and go further.

Alas, rest assured. When things are at the worst they will mend.

Believe in yourself, take your time, and don't rush for quick success! There are always those unsatisfactory things in life, and it's good to think about it!

Try to find a better job after all, after all, you have work experience.

Don't worry, brother, there is no endless road, you will be fine.

In the world of relationships, many people feel that they can't always meet the person they want. As the song goes, "Those who like don't appear, and those who appear don't like it."

If this state is maintained for a long time, it will make people feel a strong frustration, feeling that they are always frequently hurt in the emotional world.

So, how can we get out of this state? Here, there are three suggestions:

1. Adjust your mentality

First of all, you must adjust your mentality, don't be too anxious about finding a partner, and don't let yourself be overly anxious because of the pressure given to you by your relatives and friends. You must be able to clearly understand that marriage and love require personal efforts, but at the same time, it also requires the fate of God, and you can't rush it, if you can't always meet the person you want, then it may be that fate has not yet arrived. So, normal work, normal life, don't disrupt your rhythm because of this.

2. Objectively measure your own mate selection criteria

Many people can't find a partner, not because of other people's problems, but precisely because their own criteria for choosing a mate are too harsh, or simply unreasonable. Therefore, when you are in this state for a long time, you should reflect on whether your mate selection criteria are not reasonable enough.

You can share your criteria with your friends and family so that they can see if they are the right fit. If others think that your standards are appropriate, then you have not found your ideal partner, perhaps the time has not come, or you may be too passive. But if your standards are too exaggerated or too harsh for others to hear, then you need to adjust your own standards at this time, otherwise you may not be able to meet the person you want in your life.

3. Take positive and practical actions

In the world of feelings, many times we need to take the initiative to act, instead of waiting for God to come down to an ideal object, music. If you can't find your ideal partner for a long time, it may be because you are too passive, always waiting for someone to introduce you, or you meet the right person in a certain situation on a certain day. Therefore, to find the ideal other half, you must put in the effort and take the initiative to act, so that you may have a greater chance of meeting the person you want to meet.

You always don't get the love you like, maybe it's because you're not strong enough, you should strengthen your learning, improve your ability, and increase your ability to make money, so that you can meet the best love.

When I encounter this kind of thing, I will share it with my best friend, so that I will not have some frustration often.

Deal with it calmly. Because it is difficult to meet the right person, you may only meet one in your life, so don't be discouraged.

Some people always can't get the one they want in their relationship. I think there must have been a lot of people who have felt this frustration, so I don't think it's discouraged. I feel like I have to keep trying. If you find someone you like, you must punish and pursue it.

I think you might be wanting too much. The more you want, the bigger the gap between others. If you want to stay away from this frustration, you need to be content. So think about a good mood.

There is always a person in the world who can never be separated from after encountering. Everything that has been experienced before meeting is for waiting. And what you have to experience after meeting is to stay together.

This situation can only show that you have not found your true love, so keep trying. I believe that fate will eventually come together, and we must have confidence and determination.

1. Organize your sad emotions. It's normal to have a failed relationship, but you can't never get down from there.

Because love and marriage are never the whole of life, you still have your job, and your family and friends. The result will not change because of your depression, the only thing you can do is to face it.

When you sort out the negativity in this relationship, many things in your heart will slowly be released.

2. Divert your attention. If you've failed in a relationship or marriage, you can find something you love, but you've never dared to try, or something you haven't had the opportunity to do. Divert your attention through these things.

You can do more exercise and don't let yourself be in a daze all the time. Slowly you will find that it is not a big deal to forget about a person.

3. Don't mess around. In love, there is another kind of person who has an obsession, even if there is no affection between you, it is not okay to break up.

Although both of them are in an unhappy atmosphere, for some reason, the other party just refuses to let go. In fact, you still have to learn to end decently, and don't dwell on it endlessly.

4. Learn to talk to friends. Know how to talk to friends, the first is to seek the comfort of friends, and the second is also a kind of venting, say your depression and grievances, say your reluctance and deep love, don't hold back because of that little self-esteem, people's bodies need metabolism, emotions actually need metabolism, when a person has too many emotions, it is easy to be occupied by emotions, venting will keep you sane.

The so-called can't get is mainly too much greed in the heart, and it is said that people's desires are unlimited, and when you can do it, you will also hope that you will do better, so you are unconsciously giving yourself invisible pressure. Slowly, as time progresses, you will feel that "what you can't get is always the best". Ordinary people say:

Those who are content are always happy"! There is also a certain scientific basis, whether in life or work, if your own ability is insufficient, always put invisible pressure on yourself, over time you will find that happiness and happiness will slowly leave you, and the restless heart will always make you feel that you can't get what you want. We are all ordinary mortals, we must learn to be good at discovering the "truth, goodness, and beauty" in life, and not add baggage to ourselves.

Sometimes, when you envy others, maybe others are also envying you.

Therefore, at all times, keep a normal heart, don't rush for quick success, a good attitude is half the success. It is necessary to understand that "those who are content are always happy", and only then will they feel happy in life. If one can get what one wants.

Maybe humanity doesn't exist anymore. Because of this imagination. It has ceased to exist since the beginning of the world.

Human beings are part of the natural world. But there is the existence of the highest and most essential in nature. This is the human mind.

This thinking, in turn, drives nature's constant change and optimization. Until it continues to adapt to the highest state and the highest aspiration of human existence. This is called the law of human society that is complex with the existence of nature.

It is such a law that prescribes that human beings want to achieve their goals and aspirations. It is necessary to engage in labor and struggle. This is the function and value of human existence.

After all, childish fantasies are contrary to the laws of nature. For this humanity summed up. A famous quote that can top ten thousand books in one sentence; "There will be no pie in the sky, and there is no such thing as a free lunch.

When I was a child, I looked forward to growing up, and I always thought that when I grew up, I could do a lot of things that I couldn't do when I was a child. When I grew up, I wanted to go back to when I was a child, and I miss the carefree time at that time. When my parents are there, I want to leave, and I don't want to listen to my parents' nagging and restraint.

When our parents leave us, we think of the home that embraces everything and wants to hear the broken nagging. People always feel that what they can't get is the best, the more they ask for it, the more they feel good, the more they feel, the more they want.

I think you should look at the people around you, in fact, not every relationship is smooth, and not everyone can get their wish, so that your heart is balanced.

Lovers who have been together for more than ten years, but eventually they will be separated, and the relationship has not stabilized, one is economic problems, and the other is the fluctuating relationship. Ten years is just a symbol, a love associated with youth. When each has their own job, the world they see is different, and their concepts will change, and the two people will slowly have differences, and the disappointments will accumulate more, and the time for companionship will become less and less, and the feelings of the two people will become weaker and separate.

When you can't get someone you like, it's usually because you don't have enough ability and all the people you like have rejected you. The only way to solve your dilemma is to improve your abilities.

If you can't always get the one you want in your relationship, and you want to deal with this frustration, I think you still have to make yourself better and stronger, and then keep looking for your love.

It is normal to not get the person you like in your relationship, and your career. You should adjust in time to determine the type you like and change the way you get along with him.

If you can't always get the one you want in your relationship, I think this kind of frustration may be encountered by everyone, so continue to find your own emotion, I believe it will be possible.

In this case, you can only continue to look for the one you want. This kind of thing is very difficult, and it can be said that the vast majority of them are difficult to find.

In the relationship, you should be relieved. Because emotional matters can't be forced. It's good to have a good relationship. But if it's wishful thinking, you have to be more open-minded.

The best thing to do is to divert your attention and focus on your career, so that you don't care so much about emotional issues.

First of all, what are your own conditions? If your own conditions are relatively ordinary, it is not easy to succeed in chasing girls, but maybe you don't have the experience of chasing girls, don't confess at every turn, if people don't like you very much, you have no chance to confess.

It can't be said that you are a relationship failure, you are just a wishful party, the girl does not like you, and the girl has the right to like others. Since the girl doesn't like you, then you don't pester her anymore, cheer yourself up and look for a girl you like and like you too.

I think since the girl doesn't like you, you should give up. Don't keep clinging to it. Boys should not focus all their energy on their feelings, but on their own abilities and careers.

If a boy has his own achievements, he will have his own charm, and he will attract many girls.

In fact, the relationship has failed, there is nothing in the East that does not shine in the West. Where to climb to fall, where to get up, he doesn't like you, someone likes you, there is no need for a moment. The emotional side of things.

Broken car. You can calm down. Learn more.

There are plenty of options for the target.

Of course, it is to let go as soon as possible and let yourself live well, you know that feelings are not the whole of life, there are still many things waiting for you to do, falling out of love is not terrible, what is terrible is that you regard broken love as the end, live well, love will come sooner or later.

I think that the girl you like has rejected your invitation and confession many times, which means that she really has no feelings for you! Since you can't have results, you can only reluctantly choose to let go, otherwise you will sink deeper. Do you think you should devote your time and energy to work, or further your professional skills, or find a new love partner?