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In fact, there is no need to be calm and calm about everything in life.
Low self-esteem will only make you lose self-confidence even more, and self-confidence is actually very simple.
The manifestation of self-confidence is the belief that you can do it ideologically, in the behavior of showing that you can do it, and emotionally experiencing that you can do it, and this attitude of believing that you can do it is the so-called self-confidence. Self-confidence is a person's conviction in their own strength, in that they will be able to accomplish something and achieve the goal they are pursuing.
Even if they are not at the same starting line, in the same industry, it doesn't matter.
Other people's feelings and evaluations are only momentary opinions about how you behave, but they can't decide anything. Your girlfriend thinks that you are not confident, you just need to be more confident and calm, positive, and face everything with an optimistic and positive attitude towards life, it is enough. The more you feel that you are not confident, the more you will become unconfident.
You have to believe in yourself in your heart before others can believe in you. But self-confidence can't become a distorted self-centered conceit and inferiority, which is all bad. The so-called self-confidence is not complacency, self-esteem is not light, independence is not isolation... It is not a good psychological quality that is easy to develop, so it should be cultivated slowly... In short, it is not so difficult, as long as you are willing to do it, believe in yourself and try boldly, you will gradually form self-confidence and enjoy the joy of life!
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It's better to stick to yourself, being cautious is not a disadvantage, and besides, being cautious and confident are not contradictory. As long as you maintain a good attitude, a positive attitude towards life, and believe that you are the best! Even if you do something wrong, it doesn't matter, stand up and move forward, after all, life is not perfect!
Learning is for a better job, one day you will go to work, don't have low self-esteem, now learning is the most important thing.
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I don't think it's okay for her to be with you, but I think it's good that you have some communication with her, because the communication between the two parties is very important in love, which will make each other understand each other better, I think you can just go to school well, it's not good to think too much!
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Let me give you a word: if the economy cannot be independent, the personality cannot be independent. Your situation will probably only be resolved after you work. But your situation seems to me to be very unoptimistic, because a friend is like you, and in the end the two people have to separate.
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If we want to regain the lost self-confidence, first of all, we have to encourage ourselves more, when we are doing things, it is okay to encourage ourselves, it is very necessary to constantly encourage ourselves, and secondly, we can also let others continue to encourage ourselves, which is also very good.
If we want to regain the lost self-confidence, we also need to find more ways to improve the problem when we encounter difficulties, and we must not retreat when we encounter difficulties and setbacks, which will allow us to slowly give up on ourselves, which is not advisable, and we must face the difficulties.
We can also keep telling ourselves: I can do it, I can do it, this is a kind of psychological suggestion, to make yourself feel that you can do it, so that you can gradually find your own self-confidence, this method is also better.
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Strive to make yourself more upright, and don't let others look down on you.
In fact, you yourself know what to do, and there is nothing more than one answer: improve your self-confidence. But the key is, can it be improved? >>>More
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Open your heart and encourage yourself.
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Self-confidence is like a fine burgundy wine glass, it is present in our hearts with our birth, it is a gift of life given to us by God. It carries our life energy, and these life energy are our bargaining chips for the wonderful chapter of our future life.