Is it really pitiful for children to be divorced, and are children pitiful after divorce?

Updated on parenting 2024-08-13
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    It is true that after such a divorce, the child will be very pitiful, and will feel that he does not have a complete family, so that he has low self-esteem or even autism, and now many problem children are directly related to the divorce of their parents.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Divorced, children are not pitiful This depends on the attitude of parents towards their children Everyone is likely to experience divorce in marriage Children may experience divorce when they grow up So parents divorce Children experience not necessarily pity but a kind of life experience That child understands that divorce is a very normal thing Even if parents don't love each other, but parents still love their children If parents don't love their children because of divorce, then after divorce, of course the children are pitiful, but if in marriage, parents don't love their children, children are just as pitiful So the child is not pitiful, because the parents are not interested in the child, not divorce.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It is very pitiful, divorce will cause the child's body and mind to be hurt, and the soul will be traumatized, so the most pitiful thing about divorce is the child.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    This cannot be generalized. Maybe divorce will be better for the children than if you are fighting together, I hope you have a good life!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Mostly so! The child is innocent, and when the divorce is over, he may go to find what he likes, but no matter who the child is with, there will be a shadow in his heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, without the care of one parent, the growth of the child will inevitably be affected, and the care of the original two families is now less than half.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Children from single-parent families are really pitiful, either lacking fathers or young mothers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is true that children from single-parent families are not as happy as children from two-parent families.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At least life is not as pleasant as it was before the rain, and the family members are different! However, there are exceptions.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Relatively speaking, this is true.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't understand this, I just know that if I had no father or mother, I could at least live like a person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel pitiful, because children need the company of their parents to grow up, and they cannot lack maternal or fatherly love. It is because of the relationship between two adults that the child has been hurt and has lost a complete home, so the child will not get the happiness and joy he deserves.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, this problem has been thought about countless times, I have a small quarrel with the child's father for three days, a big quarrel for five days, he comes back every day is to pull a face and not speak, sometimes the child talks to him He ignores, I am even more angry, and I quarrel again. Sometimes when the child is sick and does not cooperate, he loses his temper and reprimands him, and I also get angry and quarrel again.

    Having said all this, I want to say that after the divorce, the child is not pitiful, and it depends on how the mother educates. If the mother is optimistic, then the child and her will be independent and optimistic after the divorce. If the mother wipes her tears and curses the child's father every day in an environment where she quarrels every day, it is also a deep hurt to the child.

    I remember reading an article about his parents divorced, but she never regretted her parents' divorce, because her father loved to complain about everything too much, and scolded every day when something didn't go well, while my mother studied hard and worked, and now she is a deputy leader at work, and the parents who worked together and met her were the last to be promoted, and a mediocre one. She said she and her mother had learned a lot and knew that complaining was useless.

    Decades of follow-up surveys in the United States have found that the impact of parental divorce on children is not very great, and many times it is our own ideas that are imposed on children. Finally, the child also has a shadow.

    If both parents don't want children, then the children must be pitiful, so I hope that divorced parents can think more about their children, who can give their children a better life, and who the children are willing to follow. Actively guide his outlook on life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In a divorced family, the children are definitely not as good as the children of a complete family, and there is always some lack of love, but if one party can give the child appropriate compensation, it can make up for this regret.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Thank you. After the divorce, the children are the most pitiful people. It's a little better to meet a kind-hearted stepfather and stepmother. If you meet someone with a bad temper, you will suffer.

    I saw the news on the headlines that a little boy was living with his divorced father. The little boy's stepmother also brought a girl over. In order for her children to be able to live well, she abused and beat the little boy all day long.

    The little boy's father, grandmother, saw it and said that the boy was naughty, and it was no big deal to discipline him. In the end, the poor child was beaten to death.

    Even if the stepmother is sentenced, so what, she can't get the child's life back. It is said that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather, which is very reasonable.

    If the woman remarries with her own children, she must have sufficient financial **, and the person must be stronger, otherwise the children will still be bullied.

    I saw a news story about a woman remarrying with a son and a man with a daughter. The two said that they should take care of their own children, and the economy was AA system, but the lady often bought expensive gifts for the man's daughter. The stepdaughter was admitted to college, and the lady gave a red envelope of 10,000 yuan, and the husband was too little, so he had to give a red envelope of 50,000 yuan, otherwise he would be divorced.

    He said that he would leave the house to his stepson, but he transferred the house to his daughter before marriage. He used his second wife as a cash cow.

    There is also a lady who married the man with her daughter, but the man's parents gave red envelopes during the New Year, and gave them to other children but did not give them to the children brought by this daughter-in-law, treating the children as air. The child couldn't stand the crying and ran back to the room.

    Generally, the children brought by the lady who remarry are responsible for the children's life and wedding expenses. Marrying in the past is completely being used as a nanny, and the child will also be discriminated against by the other party's family.

    In married life, no one wants to help others raise children, and they are the children of rivals. Even if you raise it, you will be unhappy in your heart, and you will not be wholeheartedly good for your children in the future.

    Every child hopes that his parents will be complete and his family will be harmonious. I hope that parents will consider their children's feelings when they divorce.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Divorced children are pitiful. During the divorce process, the child will have to face the loss of the circumstances in which he or she will live with his or her father. However, the divorce of parents does not affect the relationship between parents and children, and parents should still raise their children after divorce, and children will not lose their right to inherit their parents' property because of their parents' divorce.

    Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered.

    Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered. Article 1050 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China After the marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family and the man may become a member of the woman's family in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.

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