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If it's the breakup I mentioned, it must be the result of my careful consideration, and if I get back together, I will definitely break up again, since I know that this is a certain result, why do I have to get back together to hurt the other party many times? All have loved, please be kind.
If it is someone else's breakup, and the breakup can be successful, it is because I repeatedly asked not to break up, and after grinding with the other party for more than a week, the other party still insists on breaking up, so persistent and decisive, and then wants to return to me, I will think I am nothing? He's picking and choosing outside, and he thinks he's not as good as me, so he's thinking he's coming back to me? I'm not so bad that I don't even deserve to have self-esteem, I want to get back together, so I'm free, and I'm dead.
Afford to put it down, self-love.
There are reasons to be together, and there are reasons to break up, and people who are mature enough have made decisions that have been weighed repeatedly, and they can't be together only to break up. Since it was a deliberate decision, what are you going to do together? If it wasn't right at that time, would it be appropriate at this time?
Breaking up will be sad, uncomfortable, melancholy, crying, and even nostalgic, and then there will be no turning back.
Because the hearts of both people are already cold, the moment they turn around and leave, it is the moment when they become passers-by. Love is two fiery hearts attracting each other, but when they experience the beauty and sorrow of love, the two fiery hearts have slowly cooled. When they choose to break up, both people will go to meet their new lives, and rarely choose to get back together.
Knowing each other too well, the two people who broke up have already determined in their hearts that there will be no more hope.
After breaking up, I jumped out of the original mode of getting along, had more time to do what I liked, expanded my circle, and slowly looked at the relationship more rationally. Then I found that I was happier after the breakup, and I didn't want to get back together.
Every relationship has worked hard and done its best, but whenever there is room for it, it will not give up on each other easily. Since it has reached the point of breaking up, it means that the other party is not worth wasting time, and there is no need to get back together.
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Personally, I think this varies from person to person, and the more some people like possessiveness, the stronger they are, and they will find it difficult to tolerate a lot of things because they like it.
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Because compounding can't change the past. If someone who loves each other can break up, it means that they can't live anymore.
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I think it's because if you choose to get back together, you'll end up losing both sides and separating.
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Because such people are very painful to break up, and if they get back together, they will experience secondary damage. This is undoubtedly a blow.
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It is precisely because of the deep love between the two parties that it hurts deeply. If the original problem is not solved, compounding is useless.
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Because you love him too much, you know everything about him, and you know that two people are not suitable, but if you insist on being together, it is not very good.
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In fact, as long as you love deeply, you can't say "goodbye" rashly, no matter what reason you choose to separate, there will still be some nostalgia and reluctance in their hearts, worry and unforgettable will only make you no longer feel happy in the days to come, the person who was with you and vowed to love you is not suitable for you, there will be many conflicts and disputes between you, so you have no choice, separation is just you saying goodbye to someone who is not suitable for them, thus finding another possibility of happiness, You must know, Being together again does not repair the relationship between two people, it only brings harm to each other again.
I have a friend who is in love, Yalin is with her boyfriend every day and shares happiness with each other, when there are difficulties and setbacks, they are united, the two have gone through a lot of ups and downs together, I see that she is very happy in love, I am really happy for her, I hope that their relationship can continue, however, after the two have been in love for a while, they break up because this man is tired of this relationship, he thinks that Yalin and him have no future, And he won't fall down in the future, so he wants to let go sooner rather than later, and since he proposed the breakup, Arlinn has been a mess all day long, and I haven't seen the smile on her face again, nor noticed that she's passionate about life.
In this way, she was decadent for a long time, and then slowly came out of the shadow of the breakup, I know that Yalin has put a lot of effort into getting out of this relationship, and I think that since she can get out, then her life should be different, but when Yalin is about to start her new life, the man comes back to keep her, says that he was wrong and wants to be with her again, after all, there is such a relationship between the two, and this relationship is very deep, Yalin has not yet decided to guess the pie to completely cut off his connection, As the man slowly **, Yalin accepted him again, but, since the two got together again, their lives seemed to be different from before, the two had become strangers, and she had an estrangement with the man in her heart, and the man's feelings for her were not as good as before.
Needless to say, we all know that the end of the two is still breaking up, I don't know if Arlene will regret her reconciliation, what I do know is that for a long time after that, she refused to meet new people and also refused to contact another man, so once the people who are in love with each other, once they break up, they will not be reunited, you will not be able to return to the original image, in fact, if two people are deeply in love, if they are both about to break up, it must be that the relationship has been completely broken and it is very difficult to recover emotionally, Sometimes, the more you love, the more you hate it after separation.
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Since the person who has loved deeply has decided to separate, there must be an irresolvable contradiction, and if they get back together, it will still hurt both parties.
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Yes, I think so quietly, because you really paid a lot of attention to Wang and teased the other people, but in the end they separated, and you finally walked out, and when you went back to that memory, the two of them felt that a lot had changed.
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Yes, because since two people believe in ruining the relationship of love, but finally choose to separate, there must be some intractable contradictions in the slippery preparation, and the same problems will still occur when they are reunited again.
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The fact is that if you get back together, it will only bring more harm to both parties, so you should choose carefully.
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It's still going to be separated. Because once separated, there will be estrangement and contradictions between the two people. It's useless to get back together.
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It's like this, love is very deep, how painful it will be when you break up, and if you want to give up, the relationship has come to the end of the balance, and there is basically no possibility of getting back together after the breakup.
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Looking at such a breakup, how much does it hurt? As long as you are sincere in the nuclear brigade, the oak in the gold and stone is open, there is hope to reunite, and you must know that you can remarry after divorce. Anything is possible.
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