What is the best time to divorce when the children are old?

The younger the child, the better the divorce.

1. Children aged 0-3 years.

Children aged 0-3 years are more in need of physical development, and the need for parents is particularly frequent and cannot be separated. As long as they can establish a long-term and stable relationship with the main caregiver, they will be better cared for.

So, divorce at this stage is the least harmful to the children because they have not yet developed a sense of self.

As long as the child follows the person who has taken care of him for a long time after the divorce, the subjective feelings will not be very confusing.

At this stage, it is important not to use the young age of the children as an excuse to maintain the marriage, because their nerves are slowly emerging, and they are sensitive to all the external worlds, and the long-term discord and quarrels of the parents will affect the development of the children.

2. Children aged 3-5 years.

At this stage, children are much less dependent on their parents, but this stage is a child's sense of security.

During the main period of formation, the long-term absence of parents can make them feel panicked and scared, so parents should ensure their companionship.

Divorced parents should not blindly fight for custody at this stage.

Make sure that your child follows the parent who is more dependent on them on a daily basis, and that the other parent can be given regular companionship.

3. Children aged 6-13 years.

At this stage, children already have a clearer understanding of separation, and their emotions are stronger, so it is difficult to accept the separation of their parents, and they will always try to get their parents back together through their own abilities. If it is not handled well, it will leave them with indelible scars for a lifetime.

Their feelings are very strong, so during this period, divorced parents should try their best to take care of their children's emotions, do not be too troublesome, and express their love to their children more.

The divorce of the spouses is not directly related to the age of the children. The timing of divorce depends on the couple's determination to divorce and their ability to take care of the children. Only the woman can file for divorce during pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months of the termination of pregnancy.

If the breastfeeding period has passed, both parties can file for divorce. In conclusion, divorce is a major decision that requires careful consideration.

Legal Analysis: Divorce between a man and a woman has nothing to do with the age of the children. The law has rough provisions on divorce in the following situations:

1. If both the man and the woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

2. The man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy. This restriction does not apply if the woman files for divorce, or where the people's court deems it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce. 3. If a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

Legal basis: The Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the People's Bird Town Court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation, and if the relationship has truly broken down and mediation is ineffective, they shall grant a divorce.

The impact of divorce on children will be more or less severe. This should be determined according to the feelings of the husband and wife. If the relationship between the two parties has reached the point where they have to divorce, then do not kidnap the relationship because of the children.

At the same time, the parties must be clear that even if the parties are divorced, they cannot neglect the management and education of the children. According to article 36 of the Marriage Law, the relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the child remains the child of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the parent or the parent.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise and educate their children.

Article 37 stipulates that after divorce, the other party shall bear part or all of the necessary living expenses and education expenses for the children raised by one party, and the amount of the expenses and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties. If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. An agreement or judgement concerning the maintenance and education of the child shall not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent, if necessary, in excess of the amount originally agreed upon in the agreement or judgment.

Article 38 stipulates that after divorce, the parent who does not directly raise the child has the right to visit the child, and the other parent has the obligation to assist. The method and time for exercising visitation rights are to be agreed upon by the parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. Where a parent's visit to a child is detrimental to the child's physical and psychological health, the people's court is to suspend the right to visit in accordance with law; When the reason for the suspension disappears, the right to visit shall be restored.

Love needs to be managed, and marriage is even more so, when a marriage goes wrong, both husband and wife are responsible, and when we think that the relationship can no longer continue, we will find a way to end it quickly. But divorce is not child's play, it involves life after divorce, as well as the issue of raising children, so a large number of people have chosen to compromise.

Since this issue is being discussed openly, we must first think through a few issues. You say that the relationship between husband and wife can't go on, so what is the reason? Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, it is not terrible for the relationship between husband and wife to have problems, what is terrible is to blame each other for all the faults, then this marriage will easily come to an end.

Even if you want to deal with it, your husband may not be willing. Therefore, you must first think clearly about what is the reason for today's situation, whose fault is more, whether it is possible to repair it, and what you need to do during the period of repairing the relationship between husband and wife.

In addition, I hope you understand that it is not me who is narrow-minded, divorce is divorce, and it is normal to dare not divorce for the sake of children, but this does not excuse you from choosing not to divorce. Although a single-parent family is very detrimental to the growth of children, if the marriage really cannot be sustained, it will continue to suffer from chaos. So, do you really want a divorce?

What happens after divorce? How to raise a child? Wait, you should think about these questions.

Whether the child belongs to you or to the other party, child support must be obtained, and you may be a housewife before the divorce, but after the divorce, you have to be self-reliant, which is something that needs to be faced.

And the most important point is, how long can you hold on to this kind of life without feelings, but you can't give up your children? Waiting for the child to reach adulthood? Waiting for your child to go to college?

Or wait for the children to get married and have children? In fact, this is unrealistic, as long as there is a problem with the relationship between the husband and wife, if the two people do not want to live together, or do not want to maintain the relationship, then they will eventually choose to divorce. Now it seems to be for the child, but in fact it is also ruining yourself, the child is important, but the more important thing is how you should live in the future, don't use the child as an excuse, you have to face up to this problem, think about what will happen after the divorce.

I think we should communicate patiently with each other and negotiate a countermeasure, which can give each other some space to calm down, so as to reduce conflicts.

If there is really no emotion, we can ask the child if it is acceptable for the parents to continue to live without feelings, and first ask the child's wishes before making a decision.

No matter how old the child is, he or she can go to the civil affairs department to register the divorce. However, if the child is under one year old, the man may not file for divorce. If both parties divorce voluntarily, they may go through the divorce formalities together at the marriage registration office at any time to dissolve the marriage relationship.

If one party wants to divorce, except for those who are pregnant or breastfeeding, the man may file a lawsuit for divorce with the court.

A divorce can be given to a child no matter how old he is, but if the child is less than one year old, that is, less than a year after the woman has given birth, the man cannot propose a divorce. However, during this period, the woman may file for divorce, or if the court deems it necessary to accept the husband's claim, it can also be divorced.

Legal basis] Article 1082 of the Civil Code provides that the man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, there is an exception where the woman files for divorce or the people's court deems it necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.