What is the difference between someone who reads a lot and someone who doesn t?

When it comes to people who often read books, the first thing that comes to my mind is Dong Qing of "Reader", she is really a "strange woman". She lived as many women thought she would be. Her smile and every move reveal what temperament is.

It can be seen that she likes to read very much and has benefited a lot from books. On the other hand, what about some people who don't read books, what is the difference between them and people like Dong Qing?

<> no matter where you are, no matter who you talk to, people who read regularly can talk to others without showing their timidity. They always have what they want in their heads, from major national events to small unpopular knowledge, they may be involved in everything. It's different for people who don't read books, they only know what they do in their field of work, and as long as they expand it slightly, they will "ask three questions and don't know".

People who can read regularly must have perseverance and concentration that are different from ordinary people. Although it is said that "there is Yan Ruyu in the book", to put it bluntly, it is composed of many words. Being able to read the book consistently indicates that the person is focused enough to stay focused until he finishes the book.

Such a person is determined to do something and it is difficult to fail, because he will devote all his attention to that thing. People who don't read books may be attracted by other things in the next second.

People who read books often have a bookish smell on them, and they are gentle and elegant. When walking, talking, and working, they always inadvertently reveal their politeness, and they handle things without panic at all, calmly. A person who does not read a book walks in the crowd and does not make people notice him at a glance like a person who reads regularly.

People who read books a lot don't speak in words and are better at writing than the average person. This reminds me of when I was in high school, there was a classmate whose essay was almost always above 50 points (60 out of 60 points), which made me puzzled when I scored less than 40 points at that time, and then I borrowed his answer sheet to "read", but I didn't expect that people's essays were not only beautifully written, but also some idioms and phrases that I had never heard of. Anyway, nothing can be compared to me.

After careful inquiry, I found out that he had always insisted on reading. I realized that the gap between us was here!

All in all, the phrase "there is poetry and books in the belly" is not in vain. How many celebrities are constantly reading, so why shouldn't we improve ourselves by reading books?

"Books are the ladder of human progress. “I believe that most of you have heard this sentence by the famous writer Gorky, which shows the importance of books, and reading has become an important carrier for us to receive education and inherit knowledge and wisdom in today's era.

1. The pattern is different, and one of the more popular emojis is "pattern opening"., because people who read books a lot will have a much greater understanding of the world than people who don't read books often, and they will also have a bigger pattern when faced with something than people who don't read books.

2. People who read books often can broaden their horizons and know a lot of things in books, which is different from most people who don't read books often. It's not that people who don't read books often have a wider horizon than people who read books regularly, it's just that people who read books a lot have an easier and simpler way to broaden their horizons.

Horizon. 3. Stronger understanding of things. People who read books regularly will have a better understanding of what happens than people who don't read books regularly, and they will see things more holistically, not just in a few aspects.

4. Better temperament. Reading books often will cultivate sentiment, improve one's character, shape a unique personality charm, and make people shine and be impressed in conversation and contact. This is incomparable to the vast majority of non-readers.

The temperament is better. 5. Richer knowledge and no timidity. He will not be timid when dealing with things or facing people whose aura is stronger than his own.

6. Be more confident, read enough books, and will be more confident than people who don't read, because they know more, and their horizons should be wide, and there is no situation where they say they don't have self-confidence.

The above is a general view of the difference between people who read books often and those who do not read books often, and it can be seen that there are many benefits of reading, such as: increasing knowledge, broadening horizons, cultivating sentiment, improving self-confidence, and so on.

Therefore, reading more books is harmless to yourself, so go and read books.

The style of acting and speaking will be very different, the style of acting will be more stable and thoughtful, the way of speaking will be very deep and tactful, not impatient or impatient, and the temper cultivation will tend to be friendly!

The biggest difference between people who often read books and people who don't read books is the breadth and narrowness of knowledge, as everyone knows, books are the ocean of knowledge, and books are the ladder of human progress, so a person can swim in the sea, can climb high and look far away, his mind is magnanimous, and his temperament is absolutely extraordinary.

There is a big difference between people who read books often and people who don't read books in speech and behavior, and people who read books often have a scholarly atmosphere, which gives people a different feeling, and they have more temperament. People who don't read books have less knowledge, they don't know a lot of things, and they don't have much to talk about when chatting with people. People who read books often have much stronger thinking and cognitive ability than people who don't read books, and they are always keeping pace with the development and progress of the times.

People who read books often have a much more advanced thinking than people who don't. People who read books regularly pursue their own soul life. People who don't read books often pursue their own real lives.

Read more good books, not **.

First of all, there will be a noticeable difference in temperament. "There are poems and books in the belly", people who have read books, they are not panicked, calm and calm, and have an extraordinary temperament.

Second, there will be a big difference in how you speak. "Familiar with 300 Tang poems, can't compose poems and can chant", people who read often can "spit lotus flowers", can "quote the past and discuss the present", and can even "insinuate sand", but what do people who don't read take to "spit lotus", what "sand", what "shadows"? , not to mention what "ancient" to quote and what "present" to talk about.

Third, in terms of vision, people who read books often have a broad vision and will make the right choice. "There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book", through reading a wide range of books, experiencing the life experienced by others, and gaining the experience summarized by others, it is natural that when facing problems, the vision will be wider and farther. On the contrary, if you don't have these experiences, if you don't have these experiences, it will be like a frog at the bottom of the well, and crossing the river by feeling the stones will have a slim future after all, and the depth is unfathomable.

Fourth, in terms of self-cultivation, people who read regularly are generally very calm and elegant, and after seeing thousands of situations, they will look down on everything in front of them, no longer pursue fame and fortune, and everything will be dull. Grandma Tsuneko, a 90-year-old psychologist in Japan, once said: "When people live to be seventy or eighty, all success will become meaningless."

People who don't read books generally rarely understand this, and even if they do, they may have to wait until the real seventy or eighty, and then it may be too late to comprehend, people have already reached the sunset, and they don't even have more energy to make themselves "sunset red".

How do you want to see the difference between reading and not reading? When you see a girl you like, you confess that you will say: There is a beautiful woman in the north, peerless and independent.

It's not: Girl, you're so pretty! This is the difference between reading and not reading, as soon as you open your mouth, you will know whether you have a certain knowledge base.

2. People who read often have higher self-cultivation. People who read more books understand the principles and principles behind the phenomena. The book will tell you what social responsibility, family responsibility and inclusion are, etc., and those who have read the relevant books will see the essence of things because they know these truths.

Produce a temperament that is different from ordinary people. So that you are steady but not dull, so that you are calm but not silent. Don't mess up when you encounter problems, instead of complaining about the unfairness of the world.

Don't be like Zhang Fei in the Three Kingdoms who can only say: I am the same!

3. People who read books have a wider vision, and they have their own **jade in the book and ** house in the book. The world is so big, but you can't see it all, you can find it in books. Let you understand not to be self-righteous, to understand that there are people outside of people, and there are heavens outside of heaven.

Therefore, there is no end to learning. When you fall out of love, you will say that if life is only as you first saw it, what is the autumn wind and sad fan. Instead of blue lean shiitake mushrooms.

4. People who read books will look at things rationally, and everything will have good and bad sides, especially people who often read literary books, their minds will be more delicate, they will be more sensitive to what happens around them, and they will think about others, because they have seen too many souls in literary works, and when facing problems, they will stand in an objective perspective to examine problems.

5. The temperament of the person who reads will be significantly improved, you can be used to appreciate it more if you are beautiful, and the girl with knowledge and temperament is worth looking up to. There are differences between people who go to college and those who don't, and whether it is values or outlook on life, they will be more or less different. Although it is the era of looking at faces, how many years can you eat with your face?

At a critical time, you still have to take out your own iron rice bowl, which is the last word.

A friend of mine, no matter how busy she is, will insist on reading a book every week, the key point is not that people have read it, but every book, she will make an inductive summary, every time I see the key points of the book she summarized, I will sigh in my heart, it turns out, the book can still be read like this!

Now she has not only improved her spiritual world, but even her life has found her beloved job because of her love of reading.

Reading may not give you anything, but if you stick to one thing, you will always gain something in the end.

There is a big difference between people who often read books and people who don't read books, first of all, their appearance and temperament, manners and speech, work ability, way of thinking and many other aspects are very different, and their vision, knowledge, and cultivation are also different. People who read often are generally very calm and elegant, while people who do not read have a very narrow vision, are more impatient and reckless.

I'll come: There is a big difference between people who read books a lot and people who don't, people who read books a lot can be knowledgeable in dealing with problems, and they are extremely rich in language and social skills in the world. Because people who read books often have rich knowledge and are longer than ordinary people in terms of language communication, people who read books often have rich words in dealing with problems, analyze things more carefully, and deal with problems very comprehensively.

People who don't read books have weaker language skills, slightly worse ability to deal with problems, and weaker ability to deal with problems. Therefore, if you want to enrich your knowledge level, you must first read books often and enrich your knowledge and experience, so that you can handle things better! More perfect.

Done, thank you for your question, hope, thank you!

People who often read books have a different temperament in both speech and behavior, that is, the aura is different, people who often read books have richer hearts and more full spiritual worlds, and most people who don't read books are impetuous in their hearts and are more one-sided and easy to be emotional.

People who often read books, their knowledge is generally broader, because a lot of things can be found from books, especially some of the more classic**, such as Jin Yong's**, you have portrayed a lot of classic characters, and you may find such a shadow in real life, maybe it will be easier to deal with some problems.

The difference between people who read books often and people who don't read books often is that people who read books often are supportive, well-informed, and talking, and they are the way, while people who don't read books often sometimes lack rationality in doing things.

People who often read books are reasonable, reasonable, temperamental, and have chapters.

People who don't read books have slightly poor expression and lack communication.

In this era of fast information, Weibo hot searches change every few hours, and no matter how big the news is, it can only hang for two or three days at most. People's attention is quickly drawn to new events, but the consequence is that they are constantly picking up sesame seeds, losing sesame seeds and picking up sesame seeds (not even watermelons). I don't believe you swiped Weibo for two or three hours with relish today, and the next day you take the initiative to talk about what big events you have seen, you may not think about it.

Only when others mention it, they can say a word, oh, I also see this. It doesn't lead to a deeper conversation. If you want to have real talking points, you still need to calm down and read more.

2.People who read books often can better understand the truth behind the incident.

It's not that people who don't read don't understand the truth, but those who read books have more ability to summarize and professionalize and professionalize. For example, in recent years, shoe speculation parties have emerged in an endless stream, and some people may not think of why a pair of shoes can sell for tens of thousands. In addition to its own IP effect, it is actually a very simple economic principle:

**Subject to supply and demand. Maybe people who don't read can vaguely get the truth in it, and the theory that things are scarce and expensive, and that there are more monks and less porridge can also be explained. But the more scientific truth clearly belongs to the realm of economics, even psychology.

3.People who read books a lot are able to seek common ground while reserving differences.

In addition to increasing one's own knowledge, reading books is actually to understand the world from the author's point of view. Reading is more like a deep collision of opinions, and over time, people who read books often become more tolerant of different voices. It's a lot easier to speak online now, and there are a lot of trolls on the Internet.

When some people see someone who has a different view from their own, it is especially easy to go online and say that other people's views are not correct, or simply spray it. For this kind of person, I have only one sentence, I recommend that you use less Internet and read more books.