I can t drink, how to lose face at the wine table, thank you

Drinking alcohol in excess is definitely harmful to the body. In fact, whether to drink or not, the subjective reason is greater than the objective, as long as you really don't want to drink, you don't have to drink after all, of course, the feelings between people, lies in the heart and not in the wine, if it is really the wine to maintain the feelings, then this feeling is not much meaning. It's not a good way to say that you can't drink, and others don't believe it, and there are often acquaintances who know that you can drink, and there will always be people who expose it, and if you see you drinking on other occasions in the future, others will have an opinion, thinking that you are dishonest and unpleasant and not worth intersecting.

It's not good to secretly pour wine under the table, not to mention wasting food, and if someone finds out, it will cause dissatisfaction and double the punishment. Needless to say, no one asks about it, and it will always be very clever to come up with all kinds of reasons why you can't drink. Men are usually pitiful, and if they pretend to be a little pitiful, they generally allow you to replace wine with water, and if you really can't do it, you can pull a shield to prove that your recent physical condition is indeed not good.

It's better to say that a woman bites her ears and keeps her smiling at you and letting it go, it's really better to be a woman than a man. The first glass of wine is the key, as long as the first toast is over, the people who come behind will not force you to toast you.

I told you, anyway, it's all about learning and insight, and I won't copy it to you, since I see your problem, I'll help you, and if you go to the input table, you can go and see it yourself.

It is true that there are often many occasions in our lives when we are required to drink, but if we really can't drink or we don't want to drink ourselves (think it's bad for our health or we're quitting drinking), how can we politely refuse to drink?

First of all, let's talk about the respondent, although the respondent can usually drink a little, but the amount of alcohol is very small, and it is easy to get on the face when you drink a little, and if you drink a little more, your body will be red, red, and have slight alcohol allergy symptoms. Therefore, on many occasions, the respondent does not drink, and the respondent will refuse to drink at the wine table in his own way, and I would like to share some of my experiences and practices with you, hoping to provide you with reference.

1. Enthusiasm

Some people may not know what this enthusiasm means, and the enthusiasm mentioned by the respondent actually means that although we do not drink at the wine table, we cannot behave very coldly, and the performance is incompatible with the wine table, which is very disappointing and easy to offend others. Even if we don't drink, we should be more enthusiastic at the wine table, chatting and joking with our acquaintances or friends. I want to show that I still like everyone and like this dinner.

In fact, whether we drink or not, we should not be the one who spoils the fun at the wine table.

Second, a resolute attitude

This is the most important point to note in the respondent's refusal to drink. If you squirm when you refuse to drink, you always make others think that you can drink a little, but you just don't want to drink today, they will also feel that they can't hold their faces, and pushing around will make the scene very embarrassing, so you should be resolute when refusing to drink. For example, the respondent may say, "I'm allergic to alcohol, I can't drink" and then behave very firmly, and I will not waver no matter how much others joke or pretend to slander me.

In this way, others will generally be able to accept and understand.

3. Find a suitable reason

If you're going by car, then you have one of the best reasons for that, and that's that you can't drink while driving, and I don't think anyone would force you to drink in this situation. (If others say to find a substitute driver, you can say that you are not at ease with the substitute driver, or more repulsive) can also be like the answer, say that you are allergic to alcohol, if you are telling a lie, then you have to pay attention to whether there is someone on the wine table who knows the truth, whether they will poke you out, so that you are more ugly. Or, you can say that you are taking medicine and need to avoid alcohol.

Or maybe you say you have some gastrointestinal problems and are quitting drinking. As long as you can find a suitable reason, and then insist on it with a resolute attitude, I think everyone will not embarrass you.

In the end, the answerer said that at the dinner, it is just for fun, and not drinking it will not particularly affect the atmosphere, so don't be reckless.

China's wine culture can be said to be broad and profound, many places have their own drinking culture, the host's ability to persuade wine is also one of the criteria for entertaining guests whether they are enthusiastic, so once you go to the wine field, the host must hope that all the guests will drink to the fullest, so that the host also has face; But not all people like to drink or can drink, so how to properly refuse to drink at the wine table is also a skill.

The first is to find a valid reason to refuse. If you go to a certain liquor store, you don't want to drink but you have to. Just drive there by yourself, because now the country's drunk driving investigation is very strict, once an accident occurs, it is criminal responsibility.

Also, as a ** staff, you are not allowed to drink alcohol during work, so if it is lunch, you can use this reason, you can't lose your job because of drinking, these are all legitimate reasons from the legal point of view, but the legitimate reasons are far more than these.

The second is to say that you are not feeling well; This is mainly for middle-aged and elderly people. Nowadays, middle-aged and elderly people pay more attention to health, and often have physical examinations, and there will always be problems of one kind or another during physical examinations. Doctors generally recommend quitting smoking and drinking.

As a middle-aged and elderly person, this reason is also very sufficient, because you can't put your life on the line because of drinking, and generally those who can sit at the wine table are friends, and no friend wants to get sick by themselves.

In short, when we attend the wine table, we generally do what we can, don't drink violently, the wine is refreshing, and our lives are gone. Drink for friendship, not to destroy it.