The experience of refusing alcohol at the wine table, how to refuse alcohol at the wine table

You must be "humble" and not show that you can drink very well. Be modest, but don't be too faceless. After all, everyone eats together, and happiness comes first. Do what you can!!

It is unrealistic to want to refuse alcohol 100% every time, sometimes, especially when the customer is present and the big leader is present, you will really lose face if you don't drink a little, and it is not easy to mix in the workplace, at this time, you can consider the following 3 points:

1. Take the initiative to show weakness.

We have to understand the truth that "the drunkard does not mean to drink", that is, when a person forcibly persuades you to drink, it is not necessary for you to drink this wine, but to show your authority, or to say that you want to gain some sense of control.

At this time, you can just follow his wishes, you don't necessarily have to drink this glass of wine, you can immediately soften, show your weakness, and reflect his tall image and identity.

For example, call him "big brother", call himself "little brother", etc., or give him face, drink a little bit, and then pretend to be very uncomfortable, saying that he really can't do it, if he doesn't toast, he won't drink it, so that he feels a certain sense of manipulation.

2. Learn to laugh at yourself.

If you don't drink at the wine party, it is easy to offend people, and if you are still aggressive at this time, it will be very annoying to use strong words.

Therefore, at this time, it is appropriate to do some self-deprecating things, one is to ease the atmosphere, and the other is to maintain everyone's feelings.

For example, make a joke "A man can't say no, but I really can't!" Or sing an out-of-tune song, etc., occasionally showing a foreign appearance, but you can make yourself a "good citizen" who is "harmless to humans and animals", and if you can't pretend to be a hero, everyone won't toast you.

3. Don't drink miscellaneous alcohol.

This is very important, since you don't want to drink at a meal, it means that you really can't drink or you are not feeling well at the time and can't drink.

However, if you can't refuse because of your feelings, you must not drink mixed wine, that is, you can't mix liquor, beer, red wine, and soft drink.

One is that it is easy to hurt the stomach and is not good for the body, and the other is that drinking it like this not only tastes bad, but also very easy to get drunk.

If you can't drink or don't want to drink for various reasons, then you must grasp the above 3 strategies, and you can mix like a fish in water without drinking, which is highly praised by everyone.

If you don't drink a little wine, you will live a happier life.

As long as you have it in your heart, tea is also wine.

Drinking too much alcohol hurts, and smoking too much hurts your lungs.

Today I was driving and I couldn't drink any alcohol.

Now that the wine table culture is becoming more and more civilized, it is okay for you to directly say that you don't drink.

I hate drinking, and the leader always calls me, these 2 points are cleverly refused.

Then don't drink, don't party.

He said he was taking medication, and the doctor said he couldn't drink alcohol.

At the beginning, if you are asked to drink, you will pretend to be bold, but you must not drink it, and after a while, you will pretend to be drunk and lie on the table, (not ashamed, because you are very bold at the beginning) others think that you are really not strong enough to drink, and you really tried your best, and they think that you are very real, so they will not persuade you.

Don't drink it from the beginning. I don't drink anything. As long as it's the beginning. You're miserable.

If you force me to drink it again, I'll spit it out in your mouth!

Place the glass face down on the table.

Hello, you can say, some reasons why you don't drink.

I was unwell, I ate cephalosporin, and I was allergic.