Why are people becoming more and more realistic?

Because reality makes people more and more realistic! When you were a child, you thought that your parents were the most powerful in the world and could always protect you, and in the end you found that they could only give you a good childhood in their own way; When you are a student, you think that studying can change your life, but in the end, you find that those children who originally had poor grades studied abroad because of their wealthy families; After entering the society, he thought that he could create a better future with his own ability, but he lost at the hands of the children of a certain leader and relative; Finally, I met a person who really loves each other and finally has to return to the problem of buying a house to get married, how to make people not more and more realistic? Everyone is born innocent, full of naïve fantasies, thinking that the world is fair and everyone is equal, and finally discovers the cruelty of reality, so you have to remind yourself to be realistic and not to be too stupid and naïve.

As people grow, they encounter more and more setbacks. Gradually, I was defeated by difficulties again and again, and the original ideals and things I wanted to hold on to were long gone. People realize that they can't just live in their dreams, they should live in the moment, and they become more and more realistic.

There is a psychology of comparison in the modern social atmosphere, and it is no longer just staying in the previous stage of food and clothing, the living conditions are getting better and better, and the basic needs are satisfied, and there will be a higher pursuit. Car slaves and house slaves have created a lot of pressure in life, and people have to choose the most beneficial way to deal with problems, and it will become more and more realistic.

Everyone lives a realistic life, but it does make people live very tired, let each of us tell the pressure of life, and let us feel the grievance and sadness of not having money. It is forced by life to do it, and every bit of real life makes you feel very tired, so that everyone has to live in real life, and it makes each of us live more and more realistically. There is no need to blame others, including yourself, you can't live at all if you are unrealistic, but you can't be too realistic, and if you are too realistic, you will lose not only friends, but also relatives and affection. ‍‍

It is not the reality that we live, but the reality of life has to make us live. At least the flour and vegetables eaten in the rural hometown are grown by themselves, and there is no need to pay for them. We who live in the city, every bit of life is money, water arrears give you water outages, electricity arrears give you power outages, natural gas arrears give you gas outages, you can't use anything if you don't pay the money.

From childhood to adulthood, people's minds will only become more and more mature. There will be more and more things to experience, sad, cheated, bullied, sad, and facing these problems, so it will become more and more realistic.

It may be forced by life, no one wants to become a reality by themselves, but the reality is like this, you may not even be able to afford to eat if you are unrealistic, and you may have to live a hard life if you are not material, but at the same time as reality, you must also keep the bottom line, and you can't have no conscience.

First of all, your question is too broad, and under certain conditions, how people's behavior changes under changing the environment or specific events to define whether what you are saying becomes more and more realistic. There will always be young people who are not yet unrealistic and young people who are stepping into reality step by step, and it is not easy to survive, and it is not easy to be realistic and not endanger the interests of others.

As the saying goes! To be a man, we must face the reality and not be ambitious. Reality comes quickly, reality is more real, but not everything has to be realistic! To be a human being, you must also have certain fantasies, and you must also have a goal to strive for, that is, the pursuit of life, etc. ‍‍

Because the distance between people's hearts has increased, people have become strangers to each other, which makes people more and more lonely and selfish, and even so realistic that some people treat their biological brothers and parents very clearly.

I believe that there are many people who are born in the countryside, so you should be able to clearly feel the simplicity and enthusiasm of the people of a village. Here, because there are not many people in a village, even if there are good and bad people in this collective, everyone knows each other and understands each other after hundreds of years of bloodline, so the sense of security is very strong, and every time I return to the village, I have an inexplicable feeling of reaching my own territory, and my heart is full of self-confidence.

But what if it's about people from other villages? I'm sure many people feel the same way as me, that is, they pay attention in their hearts in advance, because they don't know so much, and they seem to be harmonious on the surface. As long as it's not a matter of principle and money, that's fine.

Yes, I think that's where reality comes from. In this way, with the migration of time and the construction of urbanization, more and more people are entering the big cities, and more and more people are leaving their hometowns, and the villages are there, but the people are empty.

Therefore, the current mutual understanding has gradually evolved into self-understanding. Then they are their own village, others, are people from other villages, will keep their eyes, even if they are friends, or even lovers, if there is no contact for many years in a row, I believe that no one will just be stupid to pay, people are becoming more and more cautious, talking and doing things more and more, even if they return to their hometown, because almost all young people are used to working hard outside, it seems that even a little understanding of childhood is gone, and the probability of gradually becoming a friend of wine and meat increases.

People are becoming more and more realistic and not largely due to their own subjective reasons, I think it is the general trend, the distance between people's hearts and hearts. And what about people? It's just a verbal complaint, but it's actually fun. Because this may be a way to get closer to fairness.

How to say it, the things that were originally in the way of face now dare to refuse, and the things that are good for you are seized everywhere, and the things that are harmful to yourself are avoided early, just like a Pixiu, only in and out. But, that's really not good. If a person becomes more and more realistic, then he must become more and more lonely, and he must become more and more lonely.

One day, he will think of those happy days of drinking and chatting with friends, yes, by this time he is tired of living in such a realistic way.

That's because if people are not realistic, they can easily be deceived, and it will hurt them even more.

Because the economy is constantly changing, nothing can be done without money, so it will make people more and more realistic.

Now the social pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and the requirements for the economy are getting higher and higher, so the talents now will be more and more realistic.

One thing reminds me of a question I asked, why have people become realistic now? In fact, it is not that people have become realistic now, but that this world, this society is more realistic, so why has the world become realistic? Because the world wants to develop, the times want to progress, we have to choose reality, we have to choose the best, we have to choose the strong, in order to survive better in this environment, human beings have to be in continuous development, so there will be someone to lead the development of the times, so who will be the "leader"?

Then everyone has to choose the best and strongest comprehensive ability in all aspects of ability, conduct and other aspects to take the lead, otherwise human beings will lose their direction, so everything is the result of genetic selection in this environment. A life from birth to the end of this process can not escape the fate of choosing and being chosen, such as from the merit-based admission to school, to the merit-based admission to work, even if you get married, you have to choose the best, because the school is cultivating the best talents for the country, the enterprise must choose the best talents in order to develop and grow, for the sake of interest competition, and all aspects of the competition must also choose the best talents to maximize the value, and the family will choose the best genes to inherit to the offspring in order to develop better for their own children and future generations. Let the offspring survive well in the cruel competition, the man is not only choosing his wife, but also choosing the mother of his future child, and also choosing the partner who will accompany him in the second half of his life, and the woman is not only choosing her husband, but also choosing the father of the future child, and also choosing her partner in the second half of her life. To put it another way, if they make the wrong choice, not only themselves, but also their children's lives will be greatly affected, so they are never ambiguous about the big things, and they don't settle for ......

Because the person who speaks wants to say it, just because the person who says it doesn't mean that it's the way it is.

As a realistic person to tell you, in fact, reality is not good at all, and I also envy people who have dreams, but dreams can't be eaten as food, can they?

The reason why the rich are rich is because they have all kinds of resources and have a pioneering and innovative mind.

The poor are poor because they have little contact, few resources, and they like to be old-fashioned, even if they have the resources in hand, they don't know how to develop.

The rich are rich because they know how to realize what they have in their hands, and the poor are poor because they only know how to sit and eat.

When the rich are conservative and the poor are aggressive, it is not surprising that the identities of the two parties are reversed.

Rich people will use bridges to delay their brains, and they will spend money to make money.

Poor people only think about how to save money.

Both the poor and the rich have the opportunity to get rich, both have the way to start a business, and the poor can withstand suffering better than the rich, but why are the poor poor? Because he couldn't believe that such and such a repentance would be learned, and he lost the opportunity to turn over in vain. Why don't you dare to believe it, because today's TV, 315 every day, and quality reports are telling the increasingly serious behavior of social dishonesty.

The capital of the poor is very low, and for the sake of the upbringing of future generations, they can only live cautiously, for fear that the business will get into the fake and find no place to seek justice. So the poorer the poorer. Everyone says that there is no traitor and no business.

But is that really the case? Are those companies with a reputation all cheated? Otherwise, enterprises that can be passed down from generation to generation all adhere to the principle of one word, that is, "faith".

The most important point is to dare to believe in others, a person who dares to believe in others, in order to make people feel trustworthy, this is a beginning of their own trust, with communication, you can have the opportunity to promise, only to have the opportunity to fulfill the promise, in order to make your credit like "Ji Bu" like "a promise of gold".

Reform and opening up, capitalism, money first.

To say that the poor are getting poorer is to say that the poor are getting poorer and that they are not capable and who are broken and broken.

It happens from time to time that the poor become rich, and it is all through the efforts of others and a certain amount of luck.

Nowadays, people live in an era of materialism, no longer have feelings as in the past, everyone is afraid of love, afraid of being hurt, and has become selfish, for money, everyone works hard to make money, life day after day, it is the same repetitive work, so it is more and more like a robot. With the development of science and technology, robots are endowed with more and more attributes like people, so robots are becoming more and more like people

Therefore, in a materialistic society, men and women are very realistic.

If there is no relationship of interest, then it is a friendship or love that is true, good, and beautiful.

When a person grows up, there is a change in the way they think about things, and this is due to a variety of reasons.

First, as people get older, they are exposed to more experiences and knowledge. Through learning and hands-on experience, people gradually accumulate more information and insights, which leads to a deeper understanding of things. This new knowledge and experience will affect our way of thinking and opinions, and change our perception of things.

Secondly, people also experience physical and mental development and cognitive enhancements as they grow up. With the development of the brain and the enhancement of thinking ability, we are able to think and analyze problems more rationally, and have a more comprehensive and in-depth understanding of things. This increase in cognitive abilities can also lead to a change in the way we perceive things.

In addition, the social environment and cultural background can also have an impact on people's perceptions. As people live and grow up in society, they are exposed to a variety of values, perspectives, and cultural traditions. These social and cultural factors shape our thoughts and opinions, making us look at things differently.

Finally, personal growth and maturity are also one of the reasons for the change in perception. As people grow older, they experience various challenges and difficulties from which they learn to reflect and grow. These personal growth experiences will change our perception by giving us a deeper knowledge and understanding of things.

In summary, people's perception of things will change when they grow up, which is due to a combination of factors, including experience accumulation, cognitive improvement, social environment, and personal growth. This shift in perception is a natural process of human growth and development.