Would you fall in love with someone who is more than twenty years younger than you?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-10
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I feel like I can.,I think I like a lot of people who are younger than me.,Feelings are not a person's thing.。 If you really like a girl who is much younger than you, you can first test her opinion on the relationship with a large age difference. Look at her attitude, and then decide whether to pursue her, if you really like it, you will regret it if you don't try.

    You should still give it a try! In addition, after all, there is an age gap, and since you know this, you should take responsibility. Don't accuse her of being "immature" after being in a relationship, because it's your choice.

    Also be prepared to face her parents' obstacles and be prepared to convince her parents. In short, there are definitely difficulties, but ......What can't be overcome? After all, it's hard to find someone you really like in this world.

    It's a shame to give up without trying.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It's okay to be in my twenties, and I like to be younger than me. From a love point of view, age is not an issue. But we live in this secular society, love is not just love, it will definitely be mixed with family, friends and other factors.

    Therefore, the age problem is not the most important difficulty for two people, it is often the family of both sides that is the resistance, and this time is not how to solve it, but to see whether the love is strong and has withstood the test of the world. So, age is not a problem, the question is whether you are prepared or not! ‍‍

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think as long as you are a normal man, you like people who are younger than yourself. It's an instinctive reaction. And the continuation of the species definitely requires youthful vitality. So if you like the small ones, there must be more. It's just more than twenty years old, maybe the woman's parents aren't too willing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's often unrealistic, although there are always exceptions, and if you believe that you are the exception, you can continue, and if you don't believe it, break it off as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Age is not a problem, as long as you like it, the biggest gap between the **** now is in the 60s, so it's too normal to be in your twenties, don't you want to find someone younger than yourself now, and now people are much more open, so there are not so many worries or anything. ‍‍

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Probably, what I value most is the feeling of two people together, age is not an issue.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love has no boundaries, if the other party is really attracted to you, and you don't have a girlfriend or wife, then you will fall in love with each other, but it's hard to say whether the other party will fall in love with me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It feels like it's okay to be in your twenties.,At least I'm 10 years younger than me.,It feels good.,She's full of young energy.,And now I like the little ones there.,Maybe because of some secular vision.,Don't dare to make it public.。

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't know about you, I like small ones anyway. There are single dogs all around, and I'm not embarrassed to ask them, you are like the big one is too old, and the small one is upright and young, full of vitality. I can still consider being younger than me, but even if I am in my 20s, I can't play together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's a big deal, from ancient times to the present, men like to be smaller than themselves. And now it's just normalized. You're like my classmate, and your daughter-in-law is 24 years younger than him! ‍‍

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, this problem, I don't like small ones too much, but I like a lot of small ones around me, I like big ones, small ones are boring to play, and big ones can make me comfortable. At the very least, you can grow old together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, I have always believed that real feelings are never age-specific, as long as two people are willing to do so, age or anything is never a problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like someone who is 20 years younger than you, then you have too many factors to consider. You have to understand that this is not the person you should love, and you have to learn to control your emotions, you can divert your attention, find out if there is someone in your age who is suitable for you, or calm down and go back to think about whether you love him or simply appreciate him.

    1. Understand that this is someone who should not be loved. The age difference between the two people is still acceptable if it is a little smaller. Too much age difference is the first to be blamed by others, which is morally unacceptable to others.

    Will he accept it when he's with you? Have you considered his feelings? All of this can only make you miserable for each other.

    2. Try to turn love into appreciation. Spiritually you can love anyone, but actions often do not allow it. And you have to know that spiritual love is also very painful, so it is better to transform this love into a kind of appreciation, maybe you can become pure friends or even confidants, which is also the most valuable wealth in life, of course, this requires a certain realm and enough luck.

    3. Find a reason why you like it. You must analyze how you like him, whether it is the other party's special treatment of you or the other party's appearance, the world's slowness or your own jealousy, etc., to find the reason to know how to solve it. Or you can get in touch with people who are the same type as him, and if you are sure that this is the type you like, then you can find the same type from your age group.

    You can have more contact with the other person, and your mind may not be on that person.

    Fourth, learn to love. True love is to try your best to give the other person freedom and happiness, if your love interferes with the other person, and you are unwilling or resentful if you don't get it, then maybe you still love yourself. Love is about letting the other person live the life he wants, and if you affect him and his life, then stop it as soon as possible and be good to each other.

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