What if you miss someone but can t help but go to him?

If you miss someone too much, find a place of your own to hide, pour out all your thoughts about him, and pour out all the joys, sorrows, and sorrows you have together, all the good memories, all to yourself ......If you really can't forget something, don't force yourself, just give it to time, it will dilute all the pain, and it will also let you find someone who really belongs to you, there will be a lot of passers-by in life, so you have experienced, laughed, cried, and that's enough, there will be someone in the future, and you won't leave again.

I miss someone especially but can't go to him helplessly, I can control my actions and not disturb him, but I can't control my heart not to miss him. Then I will keep him in my heart and bless him silently, and missing it is also a blessing! You don't have to get it if you like someone, you don't have to bother if you can't forget someone, and you don't have to let the other person know if you miss someone. ‍‍

Love is distressing. Love is longing. Love is afraid of the wind and rain in your life, and I can't bear it for you, I can't control my strong thoughts, I drove thousands of miles, secretly went to see her twice, the first time, sat in the car far away, looked at her back, held the hand of the mobile phone, never raised, when I turned back, I slapped myself hard, for my own cowardice and pumping.

The last time I saw her walk into the office, I hit the ** in her office and told her that after thinking about it for a month, I said goodbye completely! Suddenly I felt relaxed, and the mixed tastes that had accumulated in my heart poured out in an instant with a man's irrepressible tears! I turned the stereo in the car to the loudest and sang the songs we both loved, reminiscing about the old vows and swearing on the highway.

Knowing that she was fine, my heart was completely relieved, and I told myself that after tonight I would be completely out of the storm. ‍‍

What life needs is courage, dare to try, dare to face, dare to be yourself to meet a person, when you miss her very much, when you want to see her, then you go to see her, don't be afraid of embarrassment when you meet, don't be afraid to meet without anything to say, don't be afraid to eat behind closed doors. Because you want to see her, it is what you want to see, it is what you desire, it is that you haven't let go yet, maybe you will let go when you see her, maybe you have to have him in the future, and her future has you. ‍‍

In the past, I would have advised you to be brave, not to leave regrets, and to rush to her side, but then I thought about it, so what? If you're sure she misses you too much then I suggest you go to her, if it's just that you miss her, then please turn this miss into motivation to move forward, try to make yourself better, just to simply ask how you are doing in the next encounter, and go to a nearby café to sit down. ‍‍

People sometimes need to control themselves, and if there is no ending, then not disturbing is the best way. Some love doesn't have to be had, and some love doesn't necessarily make it to the end. A person who can be with you for a long time is not necessarily your favorite in this life, and the favorite is often unobtainable, this is fate, and people can't fight with fate. ‍‍

Then do the current thing well, make yourself better, and let him come close to you.

I miss him and can't go to him, not everyone who loves each other can be together. Letting go is also a blessing. Let love slowly release in your heart.

If it were me, then I would bury it silently in my heart! Because only in this way can I continue to live my life, of course, I have to slowly let go of him and slowly find my own life.

This is the time to cash out one's self-control.

First of all, let's be clear, why can't you bother him? If it was a relationship before, and after the breakup, he now has a partner or has no possibility of continuing to be together, then don't bother the other party in this case. Because you have broken up and have your own lives again, the best love after a breakup is:

Don't bother. If you can't see the person you want to see, it's often painful at this time. Therefore, we can enrich our lives and enrich ourselves more in our daily life, we can learn some things that we usually don't have time to learn, or increase our hobbies; Or go out with friends more often and make your spare time sufficient, so that you don't have so much time to miss him.

Believe me, no one can't live without the other, it's just a matter of time. So, let the time figure it all out.