How do you talk about a rural blind date, how do you talk about many topics on a rural blind date?

Seeing this friend's experience, I can't help but sigh, it's not easy to go on a blind date, in fact, the more I watch, the more chaotic and bottomless my heart becomes, the more irritable I become, and even want to escape! In the traditional blind date, the matchmaker does not consider whether the conditions of the two parties match at all, but thinks that you will meet without marrying her or not, such a success rate is quite low, like looking for a needle in a haystack, if you just meet someone you like, it is really lucky! In fact, I personally think that there is a selective way to meet, or to have a preliminary understanding of each other before meeting, QQ is the best way, if it is not suitable, you don't need to meet directly, otherwise everyone will see, it is really costly and laborious!

Secondly, the first impression of a blind date is often very important:

First, pay attention to dressing, match reasonably, conform to your age, and don't be too rustic.

Second, after the two parties meet, be sincere, words and deeds are very important, especially the details of things, and they must be cultivated.

Thirdly, the topic of discussion should be appropriate, not too abrupt, pay attention to the surrounding environment and atmosphere, and never open your mouth to come.

Finally, good luck and finding your own fate!

Blind date is very simple, just show your true side, pretending to make people look uncomfortable and fake, giving people a feeling of unsteady, even if you see it, it is also deceived to pass, you can pretend that you can't pretend for a lifetime, and wait until the other party sees through it in the future, but it's not good, if you get married, you still divorce, maybe you are in the show and are not satisfied, marriage is the most important choice in life, you must face it truthfully so as not to leave regrets in the future.

Yes, you should be your true self again. As long as it's not restrained and generous, and it feels comfortable, it's fine.

Can't speak five sentences? What did you say in those five sentences?

What is a blind date for rural people? There are a lot of topics to be discussed, do you say what kind of topics should be talked about? That is, to talk about your hometown, what kind of good things are you born in, and what is the living environment? Posture is missing.

1. When you meet for the first time on a blind date, you should introduce yourself generously and say hello to each other, and the content of introducing yourself should not be too short or too long. The introduction time is too short, and the other party has not yet reflected it, and you have already finished speaking. The introduction takes too long, and it will make the other person think you are verbose.

Therefore, the time for self-introduction should be controlled to 2-3 minutes.

2. After simply saying hello to each other, you can talk about some relatively simple topics, such as today's weather, traffic, hot searches, etc. In the process of chatting and dismantling, it is not a blind question, but should be delayed to interact with the other party, if the other party is not interested in this topic, you can try to change the topic to chat. If you are a little embarrassed, you can also suggest ordering some drinks, snacks, etc., for a short transfer.

3. When you talk to a certain extent, you can ask about the other party's situation, such as going to work in **, what kind of work you do, etc., so that you can talk about some topics from these aspects, if you understand this industry, it will be easy to do, and you can share your views with the other party; If you don't understand, you can't pretend to understand, it's easy to make jokes, so it's better to humbly ask the other party for advice at this time.

4. When we meet for the first time, there are some topics that are still not suitable for discussion, such as too personal issues (salary, emotional experience, etc.). It's okay to talk about some superficial topics when you meet for the first time, so that it is easy to leave a good impression on the other party. Don't ask everything at once, it will make people feel very unhappy.

When you meet for the first time, both parties don't know each other very well, so it's important to talk about what topic, as long as the topic is right and arouses the interest of the other party in chatting, it will naturally add points to your impression.