These things can ruin a person, which ones do you know?

The first is people's dreams and hopes, the second is sycophancy, touting you, inflating your vanity, making you lose yourself, and the third rejects you, isolates you, and makes you very lonely and miserable.

Mobile phones, computers, drugs, gambling, these are all things that can ruin a person, and these things are addictive, and it will be difficult to leave.

Online games will destroy a person, now many people are addicted to online games, which was originally just something to have time for entertainment, but some people regard it as life, less interpersonal communication in reality, and the feelings of the family are also ignored, and after a long time, it will really ruin a person.

Money gambling can ruin a person, because it is addictive, and a lot of money will be invested in each game, and there will be a kind of dependence for a long time, and in the end there is no way to stay away.

I saw such a sentence a few days ago, it's easy to ruin a person, as long as you give him a room, a mobile phone, a wifi, plus the ** of food delivery, plus this person's unmotivated, then this person will be ruined sooner or later.

I'm in a similar state now, I don't exercise, I don't take care of my skin, I don't read, I don't study, I don't reflect, and I become more and more decadent, and I look negative.

Why did that man become like this? Because online brushing ** can be done without hard work, and self-discipline requires us to control ourselves and strictly regulate ourselves to do it, so who doesn't want to be comfortable.

So how can we change that?

1.Make a simple plan for yourself.

2.Plan and get started right away.

3.Make a plan, don't think so much, you have to get off this software, you have to push yourself under that software, the software still has time to adapt, then when will your plan start, act first, and talk about the things later.

The most direct reason for a person's destruction is that he has lost hope, lost faith, and his consciousness collapses, when a person no longer has hope for the future, he has become a soulless person, acting like a walking corpse, what is the difference between having no mind of his own and being wasted? I remember a time when I felt this very deeply.

There are unforeseen circumstances, I never thought that one day I would live so miserable, in my 20s just found a job as a salesman, I haven't been working for a few days, because of the long road I bought a battery car, ready to ride to work, but for the operation of this new battery car I am still a little unfamiliar, just about to drive out of the community intersection, there is a straight silver van on the left side, the speed is very fast, I was scared, subconsciously shook the handlebar, the result of the car suddenly rushed forward, I touched the accelerator, the result can be imagined, the silver van dodged and came to me a close contact, electric donkey vs small bread, I flew out on the spot, the first car accident in my life.

I was sent to the hospital by 120 in a daze, and later the diagnosis was a fracture of my left leg, a ruptured ligament, a meniscus injury, and two surgeries were needed, at that time the news was like a bolt from the blue, I didn't know how to think about it all of a sudden, and then I said to the doctor, what are the chances of me successfully standing up, the doctor said that it is okay to stand up, but it takes a long time to recover, and there may be a little sequelae, I imagined in my mind that I was limping with a cane. At that time, my worldview collapsed, was I going to be lame at such a young age? I haven't married a daughter-in-law yet.

Later, I stayed in the hospital for half a year, and I was depressed for half a year, I couldn't see any hope, maybe I was too pessimistic, but I really felt that my future was ruined, a good leg became disabled, and someone asked me what happened, and then I got better, and I could trot and jump, which proved that my depression at that time was purely mediocre and self-disturbing.

The most direct reason is the person's own character, which may be the so-called masochistic type, and he has ruined himself.

It should be said that this person has a deep hatred for himself, otherwise he would not want to destroy this person so much, which is also a kind of revenge.

The parents hit him directly with words. Let him lose confidence in himself. Or just raise him lazy and make him unable to do anything.

I think the most direct reason for ruining a person is laziness, which is to become less motivated and unwilling to fight for the desired results.