Do you think a person can be ruined by loneliness?

When I was surrounded by likes and comments on Weibo in my circle of friends, when I couldn't finish my conversation list after two strokes, I felt so lonely. When I close the circle of friends, when I haven't updated anything for four months, when I can quietly open the window to watch the scenery and read and listen to **; When I can stay up late translating** and go to the interview with high heels; When I no longer wait for someone else to prove my presence over and over again. I don't feel lonely anymore.

That's when I realized that my true and full existence was not for the approval of others, not for my own vanity. I especially like to get out into the crowd and be heard when I don't have anything. When my efforts pay off a little bit, I just want to listen to others in silence.

Loneliness is full, and loneliness is emptiness. Loneliness will destroy people, and loneliness will only make people. Added to note, loneliness is that no one cares about you, you are lonely; Loneliness is that you are unwilling to deal with others, you are lonely.

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Yesterday, Brother Lu Zhai also said that I am only in my twenties, and it is a good thing that I am playing better and better with myself, but from a secular point of view, I am more worried. In the past six months, I have collected the circle again and again, except for a few fellow teachers and friends who can talk a few words, or some ** about art, other personnel are a little colder, and they gradually stop caring.

The reason for this is nothing more than wanting to build a small Greek temple to worship his own heart. There are a lot of half-written words in the mobile phone, and the reasons for not completing them are that some of them cannot be maintained by energy, and some are disturbed by miscellaneous matters. People's thoughts are like vines swaying in the wind, some of them spread and grow, and they naturally prove that they are fruitful and have some perfection, while some of them are broken and broken, and they disappear with the wind, which is really helpless.

Therefore, the spirit of the self must be diligent in cleaning up, and only by cleaning up the spirit can it be the master of itself. And the key to cleaning up, one is cohesion, and the other is abandonment. Only by throwing away useless and complicated trivial matters can we pour our thoughts into one point.

In the eyes of outsiders, this kind of cleaning is probably "loneliness" in the secular sense. Shen Kuo's "Dream Creek Brush Talk" remembers such an incident, the Northern Song Dynasty painter Song Di taught his students to paint, and asked them to hang a white silk on a dilapidated wall, and then stared at it silently. This is the method of visualization in Chinese painting, and the way of visualization is nothing more than the three words "meditation".

Therefore, for those who are sincere and faithful, loneliness is a rare blessing. People who believe in family no longer mess with their friends after they get married, and they are lonely to outsiders and self-sufficient to themselves. People who focus on their careers refuse to be invited to eat boringly, and they are lonely in the eyes of outsiders, but who is more lonely?

And why are many people afraid of loneliness? It's nothing more than nothing more than a pastime outside of work, and a person who has no heart in human affection. Is it the fault of loneliness?

It's clearly because of emptiness. He once made a fan for the Xinghua brothers, and the title of the brother was "Lang Moonlight, shining on all things, mountains, rivers and plants, cool and pure, wriggling and sinking, reunion and joy." This is Master Hongyi's sentence.

The moon is not clear enough to illuminate all things, and people's hearts are not sincere and cannot be reunited and happy. Looking at the word "loneliness" again, there are three points of coolness.

No, loneliness is loneliness, what can he destroy, the world of loneliness is small, and loneliness is easy to become depressed.

No, you can keep in touch with good friends and communicate more with relatives who can get closer, but you must make your own decisions about how to deal with things.

It won't be ruined by loneliness, but it will be ruined by hatred.

Loneliness will not destroy a person, what destroys you is that you don't know moderation, don't know how to cherish your body, don't know how to cherish your emotions, and don't know how to cherish your family when you're lonely.

Reasons for loneliness:

1. It is easy to offend others and be isolated when you speak by yourself.

2. Usually do things, and do not consider the world, making others unhappy and isolated.

3. I am too good, causing others to isolate myself.

4. Mentality, feeling abandoned by the world, becoming a lonely person in the world, and then becoming extreme, irrational, and even doing things that hurt yourself and others.

5. Alcoholism, many people will continue to be depressed because of lovelorn, divorce, and frustration, and then alcoholism, which can not only destroy your body, but also destroy your spirit. This loneliness completely insulates you from all the good things in society.

Loneliness does not destroy a person, on the contrary, it can make a personNowadays, many people are very sensitive when they encounter something, and they feel abandoned by the whole world; The world is so likely to leave you out of it. Calm down, stick to yourself, and keep improving to achieve success.

Everyone felt confused and confused, especially college students. Because you don't have what you can hold onto, because you don't dare to stick to what you think is right, because you don't have faith and people and things that are always with you.

What's missing? What is really missing is that you never treat your beliefs and pursuits as a part of you, like a friend, your significant other.

Feeling that a lonely life will not give you any guidance, and even if you have nothing in your life, you cannot allow yourself to be alone, because there is always something that should be a part of you.

Loneliness destroys a person, but loneliness also makes a person. There are so many things that can ruin a person, ignorance, laziness, loneliness, poverty, and low self-esteem can all ruin a person.

If loneliness will sink people and become disconnected from society, then this is a minority after all, so many people have experienced loneliness and have not seen many people collapse, which does not reflect the change of words, and it is loneliness's challenge to personal will that makes people stronger.

In Liu Tong's words: Your loneliness is still glorious despite defeat.

Loneliness doesn't ruin a person, inner closure can ruin a person.

There comes a time when we want to escape to a strange place, without family, without friends, without anyone.

We don't want to contact anyone we know, we just want to live quietly by ourselves.

If we can't reach such a place, we will still choose to escape, choose a person, don't want to see what everyone is talking about in the circle of friends, don't want to answer any **, don't want to contact anyone, can't say that we are very irritable in our hearts, we just want to be quiet alone, and enjoy meeting the most real self in the loneliest days.

I think loneliness can not only destroy a person, but also make a person, and some people can come out of loneliness, that is a piece of light; There are also people who can't extricate themselves in loneliness and are forever immersed in darkness, and that is destruction. Either way, it has to do with your own state of mind. Hope it helps!

It varies from person to person, and some people's loneliness instead stimulates his talent

Loneliness is inevitable, but if you are in a state of loneliness for a long time, you will often not be able to bear the torture of loneliness and be prone to depression and other mental diseases.

All bad psychology can ruin a person's!

You have enough space to think about your own business, you won't let your friends bother you and you can't do your own thing, and you don't have to worry about socializing.

However, if you have few friends, you will be lonely, and if you lack interpersonal relationships, you will have to rely on yourself for most of the work, and you will have a much less chance of success.

Loneliness can make or break a person, depending on how you treat it.

If you can tolerate loneliness and can study or do what you love when you are lonely, then you will have unexpected gains; If you are cranky and even degenerate yourself when you are lonely, the results can be imagined. So everything is two-sided.

Sometimes loneliness doesn't ruin a person, it often makes a person. The road to success is often lonely. Because it allows you to calm down and do everything well. No one interferes with you.

However, sometimes loneliness is not good, long-term loneliness and long-term loneliness without contact with others may lead to autism.

No, I'm lonely, but I cherish my life, no one cares about me, but I like to eat good food, I also like to listen to **, I like to sleep while I feel my breath, I also read books to study, even if the books I read are not so high-end, and then I will cranky myself about what I feel when I am alone as I see in the books. Everyone has their own 'little things'. Loneliness is not eternal.