Relationships in the lab are too difficult to get along with

Keep up the work and work on your social skills. The intrigue is wonderful.

I was a chemical engineering student. So doing experiments in the lab every day is my daily routine. Because I was more interested in organic experiments, I organized a project with my teacher and did experiments together, and then this group included not only me, but also some senior sisters.

At first, I didn't know my senior sister very well, so I was very polite when I did the experiment. But I always feel that those seniors think that they are older, and they have a sense of calling for those of us who are one year younger than them. For example, every time the experiment is done, those seniors don't clean the instruments, and everything is left to us to clean!

And when it comes to cleaning the laboratory, the seniors almost don't participate in the cleaning, but if you think about it, it's true, after all, we have less qualifications than them. But when we first started the experiment, those of us who had just joined the group didn't know much, and when we asked them questions, they seemed impatient.

It is very common to break glass instruments in the laboratory. But once my senior sister broke a separating funnel, she didn't tell the teacher, but took another separating funnel from the next laboratory, and then I had a very bad impression of my senior sister.

Also, sometimes when the teacher is very busy and is away, he specially tells the senior sister to let the senior sister take us to do experiments, and teach us if there is something we don't understand. But after the teacher left, these seniors did their own experiments, didn't say anything, and then asked the method and principle, they were all vague. So at first, I really didn't want to do experiments with the seniors.

At that time, I kept thinking about when these seniors would leave the laboratory? When will we become someone else's senior sister, and when we become someone else's senior sister, we will definitely not treat our younger brothers and sisters like this. So at that time, I was polite with the seniors, and even a little too polite!

But later, as everyone spent a long time doing experiments together, and the teacher would often organize everyone to have dinners, and then everyone's relationship gradually became familiar, and the seniors were not as cold as before. And everyone will make jokes from time to time.

It wasn't until that time that I would have a tacit understanding with the seniors doing experiments, and this tacit understanding was not there before. Later, for a while, I spent a few hours in the laboratory almost every day, and sometimes I needed to stay in the laboratory at night while sleeping, because some reactions had a time limit.

And at that time, I didn't dare to sleep in the laboratory alone, because at night the whole laboratory building was empty, and there was almost no one, and then the senior sister would say that she came to sleep with me. Sometimes I will have a family conversation with my senior sister, or say something else interesting. Everyone gets along like friends.

In fact, this is very simple, let's not think about things too complicated, it's just good for the teachers and sisters to say things directly, and explain clearly if there is a misunderstanding.

You tell her your feelings, your awe of her, and your long-term friendship and fate with her, you say: "Senior sister, you are the person I will always fear, but I think that because of that misunderstanding, the senior sister who made me awe stay away from me, I think it is not worth it, and I am not reconciled."