The girlfriend is married, has children, and is not divorced yet

Since she is not divorced, then her marriage with her husband is protected by law, it is recommended that if she plans to divorce, you can wait if she plans to marry you again, if she does not plan to divorce, then you better die and waste your time and youth.

If the girlfriend you are talking about now is married, and she has children and has not been divorced, then he is actually still married, which means that you are a third party in disguise.

I think for such a girlfriend, I should quickly evaluate whether it is necessary to exist with my girlfriend, well, in addition, if the girlfriend really clarifies the relationship with your girlfriend, will she divorce you? Or who will raise their children in the future, this is actually what they have to face every day after they really get married in the future, which is also part of daily life, and they must think about whether to continue, if they continue, they should let their girlfriend quickly clarify his attitude towards you.

If she divorces, you get married later! Will you be nice to her? Is such a woman who abandons her family and children the woman you look forward to in your life?

I don't think you're going to spend your life looking for a woman like that, are you? If you like her, don't destroy other people's families, if there is a problem with her marriage, then wait for 2 years after her divorce, you really love each other and talk about the future, but the important thing is whether you want to marry this woman!

What to do depends on you. If you can accept her and her children, then you will be reconciled. But it's still cautious, after all, there is someone else's child.

Girlfriend is divorced and has children, if you really love her and feel sorry for her, you should accept all of her, if you can't accept it, you can choose to break up.

At the same time, it also depends on the process of the other person getting along with you:

If the other party informs you, then you can continue to get along, and it is normal to tell the privacy for about a month of dating, which is understandable that girls are difficult to talk about.

If the other party deliberately conceals it, you need to consider it carefully, and this is a matter of conduct. It's not just the lack of self-love when you were young, but the selfish, malicious deception.

If she had said it at the beginning, she might not even have a chance to show herself, and her approach was not so unforgivable, she did it because she liked it. But it should be very difficult for you to accept this reality, can you accept her, can your family accept it? How will she get along with her children in the future?

You need to think about these questions.

If you really love this person, she is divorced, and having children is unstoppable, if you really love her, you should marry her, love her well, I think you can live a happy life.

Because you didn't have a marriage certificate in the first place, you are not a husband and wife, so naturally it is not a bigamy relationship.

Legal basis: According to article 258 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, whoever has a spouse and marries him, or marries another person knowing that he has a spouse, is sentenced to up to two years imprisonment or short-term detention.

Summary. Dear, if you like your girlfriend very much, and she really wants to be with you, you don't have to care too much about whether she has been divorced.

My girlfriend is divorced and has children, what should I do?

Dear, if you like your girlfriend very much, and she really wants to be with you, you don't have to care too much about whether she has been divorced.

You won't be able to accept it for a while, and it's also because the traditional thinking is that divorced women are not good, and you have to find an unmarried one to get married. But have you ever thought that girls who have not been married are not necessarily noisy because they really want to be with you, and they must be very pure if they have not been married.

Now it's just more tangled.

I can understand your feelings, a little embarrassed and lacking a match, I really like each other, in fact, you may be able to accept her conditions, it should be too concerned about the feelings of her family and the friends around Liangna, and care about his opinion.

There are also problems in this area.

Dear, I don't know what your previous relationship experience was, have you ever dated a girl, what is the most important thing for two people to fall in love.

If she is not sincere, even if she is very good and young, no one can guarantee that the relationship will last for a long time, and she will live happily.

Dear, if I were you, I would have some concerns about this, it might be okay to fall in love, but if you say you get married, you must be worried that your parents will not agree.

However, you have to understand that the days after marriage are two of you, and only you and the people closest to you can experience each other. Don't care what they say, as long as you know that being happy and happy together is better than anything else, what outsiders see is just a spike of cavity.

Dear, I suggest that you have a good talk, whether she has confidence in the relationship between the two of you, confirm whether she will be willing to be with you no matter what, whether she has any concerns if the conditions are different, if they are all sincere, there are concerns and obstacles, you can find a way to solve them together and encourage each other. At the same time, you should also listen to your parents' opinions, tell them what you think, enlist your parents' support, and do their work. From this perspective, I believe you can handle this situation very well to solve this problem.

The child is an unplanned birth and is subject to social maintenance fees. She could also face bigamy.

In fact, according to the experience of judicial practice, there are mainly the following types of bigamy:

1. Registered marriage with spouse and regalia with another person and bigamy, that is, bigamy of two legal marriages. There are cases where a person with a spouse registers his marriage with another person, there are cases where a bigamist deceives the marriage registration office to obtain a marriage certificate, and there are also cases where a bigamist colludes with the staff of the registration office to cheat on each other to obtain a marriage certificate.

2. Registering a marriage with the original spouse, and living together as a husband and wife without registering with another person and bigamy, this is a de facto marriage type after a legal marriage.

3. Bigamy with neither the spouse nor the other person who has not registered the marriage, but the cohabitation with the spouse and the other person in succession or at the same time as husband and wife is bigamy, that is, the bigamy of two de facto marriages.

4. Living together as husband and wife without registering with the original spouse, and then marrying another person and bigamy, this is the legal marriage type after the de facto marriage.

Hurry up and get a divorce, otherwise it will be illegal.