What is it like to suddenly find out that the person you like has a child?

First of all, I was surprised, I didn't expect it. The people I like have children. And then there's the loss.

Lost herself, she no longer has the qualifications to love her. Then came the blessing. I wish her a happy life.

I'm really happy for her. Finally, there is emotion. I feel that time flies too fast.

I feel that the time I loved her in the past has become a thing of the past. There are mixed tastes in my heart, and I have all the tastes.

Maybe it's also a kind of happiness to watch the people you like happy.

Finding out that someone you like has children can feel lost, confused, and upset because it means that you need to think about more things before entering into any relationship, such as the relationship with the child, the child's needs and responsibilities, and so on.

If you already have feelings for this person, this loss may be even stronger. You may be confused and wonder if you should continue to pursue the relationship or if you should give up because you don't want your child to be hurt or burdened unnecessarily.

In addition, you may feel uneasy because you don't know how to get along with the person's child and how to deal with relationships and responsibilities with the child. It may take some time and effort to get used to it to ensure that the relationship with the person does not suffer.

In conclusion, it can be confusing and unsettling to find out that the person you like has children, but if you really like the person, you can try to explore with them how to deal with the relationship and how to find balance in the relationship with your child.

It's a feeling that the sky is falling, I don't want to be a third party, and leave decisively, otherwise I will be hurt.

It depends on who the child is, if it is your child, of course it is excited and happy, if it is someone else, it is frustrated and sad.

The key is that the person you like, just have children, or have a family. If it's the former, ask about his past so much, and think about it, whether you want to like it or not. Anyway, you have to love yourself in everything, and then like others, and put yourself first.

If it's the latter, then please stop immediately. Don't have any ideas. Don't let yourself get stuck in the sludge.

If you're receptive to acceptance, just let it be. If you can't accept this fact, you have to find another way.

It depends on whether you can accept this fact in your heart, if you are mentally prepared to accept all this, then be brave to pursue it, if you can't accept it in your heart, it is recommended that you stay calm.

It depends on what your opinion is on the child, because it is an unchangeable fact that the other party has children, if you want to combine with the other party, then you have to accept the reality that the other party already has children, if you can't accept this reality, then choose to break up, there is nothing to hesitate, breaking up now is much simpler than divorce in the future, and there will be no sequelae!

You have to make sure if the other party has a family, if not, you can face it bravely, if there is, it is best to keep a clear head and not to destroy.

Either you love the house and Wu, and raise him and her children with her, or you don't really like it.

First of all, you have to find out if he has a wife now, and if he is divorced with children, you can think about the next question. If he has a wife and children, then you have to stay away from him and break off the relationship. Because if you continue to persevere, there will only be pain, and you will not be happy.

Personally, I think that others can't help you in this matter, but you still have to respect your own heart, if you can't let go, it's true love, then accept this child. However, I advise you that it is not easy to be a stepmother, and you also have to consider the feelings of your parents.

If the other party is still married, it is best not to get involved. If you are unmarried, I think you can boldly show your love, and having children does not mean anything.

If you or your family are very concerned, then don't continue to get along, and if you don't think the child is a problem, you can raise it together.

I should congratulate him. This is a very good thing, and you can worry less about dim sum .