What should I do when I find out that my boyfriend of two years is married?

Updated on healthy 2024-08-13
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Then you should break up with the man decisively, the man's behavior has hurt himself, and if he is obsessed with it, it will bring more harm to himself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I think of course you should break up with him right away and ask him to give you a sum of money for compensation and damages.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    At this point, you should be decisive in parting with him, because there is no point.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    One reader said:

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year, and we have always loved each other, but his friends always tell me that he is married, and I quarreled about it at the beginning, and said that I wanted to break up, and now I will quarrel about it.

    I hang up his QQ every day, and I just heard what his friends on QQ said, and a few days ago, in order to confirm this thing, I called**to his house,**The people over there said, yes, he is married.

    And a friend told me that he got married at 06, his wife didn't go to work, what is her name, why don't you go to work, she is **, height and temper have told me, but when we met yesterday, he said that the number is actually not his family, on the day I called** to ask, he knew that I had called**, in fact, that number I stole from his mobile phone.

    He was going to go to work on Changxing Island, but he didn't go (I heard that her wife was from Changxing Island).

    He also said that I chatted with the people on his QQ, and he knew everything he had talked about, and he also told me yesterday that I talked about something with the people on his QQ, (all of a sudden, I understood, he knew everything, why did he tell me until now).

    He has rarely gone back, at most twice a month, sometimes I will ask him, why don't you want to go back, he said that the house is not fun, boring, yesterday he said that I have never believed him, he also said, those on QQ said that he got married is what he asked his friend to say, because I have never believed him, I cried as I spoke, I cried very much, he also cried, he kept telling me not to cry, but he also cried, I really don't know what to do in the face of my tears?

    But with him, I really don't feel that he is a married person, he is also very good to me, he also said that he does not go to work in Changxing Island to be with me, he was born in 84, (Shanghainese) if he gets married in 06, he will only be 23 years old, but his friend told me, his wife's situation, how to explain it? Should I ask him, should I trust him, I'm really at a loss, emotional expert answered:

    If you are going to marry him, ask for marriage at once, and if he is looking for some so-called reason to show that what is said is all true, if you really like him, then you should believe him; If you both like each other, there's nothing you can't ask or say. Hope you are always happy and happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This is a very complex issue that needs to be seriously thought about and faced. First, you need to think carefully about your feelings and needs, as well as your relationship with your boyfriend. If you find that you have no feelings for your boyfriend anymore, or that the relationship between you is irretrievable, then you need to seriously think about how to deal with the situation.

    If you find that you still have feelings for your boyfriend, then you need to seriously think about how to handle your relationship with a married man. You can try to distance yourself from a married man or simply tell him that you have no feelings for him.

    If you find that you have lost control of your feelings, then you need to seriously think about how to deal with the situation. You can try to communicate openly with your married man and tell him about your feelings and needs, as well as your relationship.

    Finally, you need to seriously consider your own moral and ethical concepts. You need to think hard about whether your actions will cause harm to the returnees, and how to deal with the situation.

    In short, this is a very complex issue that needs to be seriously thought about and faced. You need to make your own choices based on your feelings and needs, as well as your relationship with your boyfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Summary. Hello dear. <>

    You realize that there is no future in the relationship, and you are also determined to end the relationship. It's a wise choice. You decide to end the relationship, then you need to distance yourself from this man and avoid another emotional entanglement.

    You can stop connecting with him for a while and give yourself more time to adjust your emotions and life. You can tell the married man directly what you think, indicating that you want the relationship to end. Although this is not an easy task, it is necessary to be honest with the reality to help both you and the other person to face the problem rationally and avoid further harm and misunderstandings.

    I'm in a relationship with a married man now, and we've been together for almost a year, and I knew from the beginning that this relationship was fruitless, including when I was with him from the beginning, I said that I wouldn't destroy the family, because I didn't care that he had a family, but I happened to be stupid to be separated from him, and I wanted to live alone, but I didn't know how.

    Hello dear. <>

    You realize that there is no future in the relationship, and you are also determined to end the relationship. It's a smart choice. If you decide to end the relationship, then you need to keep your distance from this man to avoid another emotional entanglement.

    You can stop connecting with him for a while and give yourself more time to adjust your emotions and life. You can tell the married man directly what you think, indicating that you want the relationship to end. Although this is not an easy task, it is necessary to be honest with the reality, which will help you and the other party to face the problem rationally and avoid further harm and misunderstanding.

    My dear, do you feel that you have any worries and doubts about breaking up with him, you can talk about it in detail, and I will help you analyze it.

    There's nothing to worry about.,I just don't want to be together.,Early pain is better than short pain.,And I had a conflict with him before.,There are almost 10 days without a joint grip.,So I'm also down-looking.,I don't want to break up with him and leave silently.,It just so happens that he's going back to his hometown to accompany his wife and children these days.,So I don't want to contact him.。

    If you don't make it clear to him, it means that you haven't made a complete end to the relationship, and he may come back to pester you.

    He won't come to pester me, I've seen him clearly, he won't come to me to contact me, he knows what I think.

    Then you just cut off contact with her and keep your distance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After dating, what should I do if my boyfriend is hungry and married?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Cohabitation is not protected by law.

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