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There is a certain relationship, but it is not all, you can't say that you haven't gone to school and you won't be able to catch up with your mother-in-law with a higher education, so it's better to be reasonable, education can't decide everything, when you think your mother-in-law is not good to you, you have to think about whether you treat your mother-in-law as a mother, you don't treat him as a mother, why does he want to love you as a daughter? On the contrary, there is a reason for being a mother-in-law.
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If the mother-in-law values the diploma, it must be related, and everyone has a different way of understanding the diploma. Some people think it's a matter of face, and some people think it's connotation. Upbringing.
The problem of the height of thought. It mainly depends on what the other party thinks. It's not about academic qualifications but about ability, depending on how well the daughter-in-law handles it properly, of course, men also play a big role in the middle, and the academic qualifications only have a role when they just meet each other's parents or don't know each other very well.
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I don't think academic qualifications have much to do with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, gentle and virtuous, kind-hearted, well-informed, and empathetic, as if these are not compulsory courses in higher education, but it's a pity! On the contrary, some knowledgeable and wealthy daughters-in-law often fail to skillfully control the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, thinking that they are highly educated, knowledgeable, and rich in theory, ignoring others, so that the mother-in-law is at a loss, taking into account the overall situation, so she has to endure it silently, and over time, an inexplicable ravine is invisibly born!
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Yes, the difference is that highly educated mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law may not start a fight no matter how contradictory they are. And the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have not gone to school, you don't know what the other party will do. Of course, what means are behind the highly educated and high-IQ people is not something that people with low educational backgrounds can imagine.
After all, poverty has limited their imagination.
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It doesn't matter at all. My grandmother, who never went to school, was a rural housewife, and the things she knew every day and saw the world were at most in this county. He has been easy-going all his life, kind, generous, very hospitable, never calculates anyone, and would rather suffer his own losses when encountering things, and he gets along very well with my mother, just like his mother and daughter.
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I don't know if it has anything to do with academic qualifications, but it must be related to concepts and insights, if she has been living in the village, the concept is natural and traditional and does not understand what privacy is, because she has always grown up with a large family, everything is public, and there is no need to get your consent first, the natural contradiction is more, in her eyes, you are the one who robbed her son, she must suppress you to have status, and she will never know that it is good for you, and if you are good, his son will live well.
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It's okay, even though I'm not married. It has something to do with whether the personality is compatible or not. Mother-in-law is a relative who has no real affection.
Hehe, so, it's like we get along with other people. If you get along, things will be smooth, and if you can't get along. That can't be helped, rely on emotional intelligence.
If you don't like intrigue, create conditions to live separately.
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Look at what kind of mother-in-law you meet, if your mother-in-law is too bandit, she will suffer if she has a high degree of education, and she will not care about anything if she is generous, this kind of mother-in-law will think that you are a soft persimmon, easy to pinch. Therefore, when you meet a mother-in-law like a bandit, you must not be too polite, you must be tough. If you meet a mother-in-law who is as reasonable as you and has a similar way of thinking, then everyone will be happy and understand the wisdom of getting along with each other.
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It has nothing to do with academic qualifications, it has to do with personal quality.
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Of course there is a relationship, but this is only one reason, and there are many other reasons.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is natural, mother-in-law loves her son, and the son and daughter-in-law have a good relationship, can these two women compete for a man? It is impossible to say that there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at all. So why is the relationship between some mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law quite harmonious, while the relationship between some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very bad?
This is to be analyzed from the two aspects of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very good in both aspects, have high emotional intelligence, and are very good at being people, will the relationship between them be eased. Once one party belongs to the kind of person who loves to make trouble and find trouble, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be too good.
Of course, the role of the son in this is also very important. Some men are very good at acting as a lubricant when facing the conflict between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that their mothers are not so uncomfortable, and at the same time protect their wives. If this son does not have such wisdom, it can only escalate the contradictions between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Back to the topic you said, whether the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is related to their academic qualifications. Of course, there is still a certain relationship, and it is usually divided into these two situations. One is that the mother-in-law has little education, while the daughter-in-law has a high degree of education and knowledge.
In the face of some of her daughter-in-law's behaviors and habits, the mother-in-law will feel that she can't see it, and make all kinds of accusations against her daughter-in-law, so that the relationship between them will definitely not be good. The second is that the mother-in-law is very powerful, has education and status, and looks down on her daughter-in-law. This situation seems to be a little more serious, the daughter-in-law needs all kinds of efforts to be able to get the favor of her mother-in-law, and she needs to endure the contempt of her mother-in-law during this period, which is unbearable for ordinary people.
In short, I think the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very complicated issue, and if there are some contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it must be a contradiction caused by a combination of various reasons. It is not easy to solve this problem.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is affected by many factors, knowledge and insight is one of the aspects, the trivial things of life, their respective personalities, living habits, etc., can change the relationship between two people, so mutual tolerance and understanding are the most important.
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I think the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very complicated issue, and if there are some contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it must be a contradiction caused by a combination of various reasons. It is not easy to solve this problem.
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There is a relationship, but it has little to do with the personalities of both parties and the three-view family.
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I think there may be a relationship in this area, if you have a higher education, you are very strong in dealing with some relationships, and you will quickly resolve conflicts.
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There is a relationship, but it has little to do with it, and it mainly has a lot to do with character.
is good to you, and guards against you everywhere in your heart, after all, you are not her daughter, for fear that you will take advantage of her family.
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What I value most is mutual respect.
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