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This is normal, I have worked so hard to raise my daughter so much, it is impossible to give it to the other party for nothing! Asking for a little bride price money is also to ensure the daughter's life.

Although parents want their daughters to live well, it is really inappropriate to ask for a sky-high bride price, is such a high bride price really for the happiness of their daughters.

This kind of parents generally don't think about their daughter's future life, and now you can take the opportunity to extort, and the bitter fruits of marriage can only be tasted by your daughter.

Parents hope that the man can cherish his daughter

If you want a high bride price, will your daughter be happy in the future? Only a good upbringing and culture of hard work and earning money on your own are the most down-to-earth.

It's normal. The daughter whose parents have worked hard for decades is going to marry a woman, and all the requirements are reasonable.

I think it's like selling my daughter, and when my daughter grows up, she has to sell her, which is not good.

I don't agree, the two sides should be on an equal footing, and asking for too much dowry will have a feeling of selling a daughter, so that the in-laws won't care about her.

Although it looks quite incomprehensible, parents naturally have their reasons for doing this.

I think it's right for parents to do this, because this will make each other feel how precious their daughter is, and they will cherish it!

I'm not in favor of this practice, although a certain bride price is necessary, but if it is too high, it is very similar to selling a daughter.

It is understandable that parents always like to plan ahead, afraid that their daughter will suffer, and just ask for peace of mind.

It's not necessarily bad, maybe it's just a simple test of whether the man really loves his child.

I think this kind of behavior is very shameful, and its essence is the same as extortion.

Forget about such a family, the value is different, there is no need to be an in-laws, I will clarify my concept with the child.

If there is a bride price to the other party's parents, of course, there must be a dowry to the man, unless the bride price is given to the daughter and brought back to the man. Or the man does not need to provide for the woman's parents to care for the elderly and see a doctor in the future. Of course, if the economy does not allow it, say otherwise.

Even if the bride price is given to the woman and the man is brought back, and the woman's parents have no financial ability, the woman herself has to buy herself a little dowry before marriage.

Anyway, when my sister got married, her family was poor and had no money to marry, my brother-in-law's family was poor, and my mother didn't ask for a bride price, and because my sister gave the money she earned before she got married to the family, my mother gave my sister the gold ring that my grandmother gave her as a dowry.

When I got married, my parents had suffered a lot for my brother and me to study, my health was not good, and I was old, my mother gave me all the bride price, let me watch and buy some things by myself, and when I got married, I also gave a change of mouth fee and a pressure box. Before the big gift, I used my own savings to buy a new energy vehicle of more than 70,000 yuan. I also have more deposits than the bride price.

And because my mother didn't ask for the bride price, I said that in the future, my parents and I will support them like my brother, and my in-laws also particularly agreed, saying that they would be willing to take my parents to live at home.

The bride price looks at the man's attitude towards the woman, and the dowry looks at the woman's attitude towards the man.

If each other begins to use their brains on the wedding bride price and dowry, whether the woman calculates the man's bride price, or the man calculates the woman's dowry, they will only be busy in the end. Of course, if you start to prevent the risk of divorce loss before you get married, then I recommend not getting married yet, because even if you are reluctantly married, it will not last long.

Nowadays many people land before one of the most important reasons that hinder young people from getting married. **bride price and hate,Think that some women's parents accept **bride price** is equivalent to selling their daughters,Although this view is a little too extreme,But I personally think there is a certain truth。

Although some parents charge the bride price from the man on the issue of their daughter's marriage, the original intention is not to say how much money they can get, but to let their daughter's future life have a certain material security, or because of the face factor fear that the bride price will be less, and they can't hold their heads up in front of other relatives in the family, but they don't realize that such a practice is likely to cause their daughters and their future sons-in-law to encounter great obstacles and difficulties in their relationships. Even this practice is a typical stick beating mandarin ducks, I personally think that as a rock rotten woman, parents should still be more open-minded, as long as it is their daughter looking for a marriage partner, is a real good character, self-motivated boy, then they should actively support, should not let the sky-high bride price become a stumbling block that hinders two young people from falling in love.

Of course, for those parents of families with many children, the reason why they have to receive a bride price when their daughters get married is because when their sons get married, they also have to give other women's families a high bride price, otherwise their sons will not be able to get married, but even so, they should not ignore their daughters for the happiness of their sons and the major events of marriage, after all, the palms and backs of their hands are meat, and parents should still try their best to achieve a bowl of water.

Of course, in order to solve such a problem, it is fundamentally necessary to let more female parents realize that it is very wrong to receive a bride price, and compared with the bride price, the happiness of the daughter is always the first.

The bride price is only an appearance, and the essence is to represent the man's attitude.

1. It has been a custom since ancient times for the man to hire and the woman to accept the lottery. It is said that when the man wants to marry the woman as his wife, he needs to give the woman a gift (goods and money), which is commonly known as the bride price, 2. The meaning of the bride price is that the man treats the woman as a treasure and sincerely asks for marriage, and it is also a thank you salute to the father-in-law and mother-in-law for raising a good daughter.

3. You must know that the woman wants a bride price, not a daughter, most women will return the money plus their dowry to the man, in case there is a change in life in the future, you can have the money at the bottom of the box as an emergency, and your life is more secure.

4. As for how much the bride price is given, this is also in accordance with the local situation or other factors, the reason why everyone now mentions the bride price is different, it is nothing more than that the modern sky-high price of the bride price has made the form of the lottery has been endowed with too much material meaning, and some also have a heavy burden, losing the original intention of the bride price. If you don't raise the bride price, you have to admit that marriage is a happy event, and it is normal for the woman's family to ask for a lottery.