Ask for an explanation of your boyfriend s approach. 10

Then you don't pay attention to him, rest assured of your thoughts, he will take the initiative to find you if he loves you, and if he doesn't love, he will not advance, he is retreating, you can also, stupid.

Do you care about him very much? If you can let go of this relationship now, I suggest you let go of this relationship, the personalities of the two of you are not compatible, you can think about it, a temporary retreat allows you to do it, but a lifetime of retreat allows you to do it? And backing down will make him even worse, and then there will only be more contradictions.

I think you should come out, make friends and adapt to life without him, if he comes back to chase you again, think about it again, otherwise it will be a breakup, sometimes the more you pester him, he thinks that you are his anyway, he can come back to you when he wants to come back after an affair with others, I personally estimate that he is very cautious, and it is not ruled out that he deliberately punished you like this, very naïve approach.

He's not that old. Don't get in touch. Why should irresponsible men care?

This kind of man quickly breaks it clean and clean, he doesn't even believe in his girlfriend, why do you want to make such a mess of your life, you don't want to be carefree every day, do whatever you want?

In fact, like this, he doesn't love you, and he doesn't take you seriously. Because I love you, like your words, I will consider your feelings, your thoughts, your face, your everything.

I don't think you need to ruin your friendship with others for him.

Hehe... He doesn't care about you ... If you really care. It's not going to be like that.

It's true that I won't be able to like it anymore.

After reading your little story, let's talk about it.

In fact; You can put yourself in his shoes and think about it, for example; Are you close relatives?

His family has restrictions on him finding a girlfriend from out of town or something, etc....

I think 1 is a bit impossible, 2 is it! Maybe it's a little bit possible.

One more point; His uncle asked you to go to his company to play, which means that his uncle likes you and wants you to see him more.

In other words, his uncle created an opportunity for you to meet. I think his uncle already knows about your affair.

It's just that I don't want to expose you so presumptuously directly, and his uncle has a reason for doing this.

After all; Adults are all from the past! They have seen your actions, and they are not invisible.

So; I suggest you talk to him about it face to face, and we don't know what kind of person you are.

And; You talk to him about it in person, and you can know the answer from his eyes.

As the saying goes; "Eyes are the window to the soul! This statement is not without reason.

It's not a bad thing to contact every day! At least 100 times stronger than without ** and information.

If you want your direct relationship to be more fixed, stable and close, remember to have a good relationship with him and his family, which is the first thing.

Haha, it's all to persuade you to give up. However, I am going to talk about the same problem. Give it up.

However, you should talk about it before you give up.

According to my understanding, maybe your impression of his family team is not very good. Either that, his family has already chosen a partner for him. His behavior is incomprehensible. Moreover, it seems that he is very strict in his family...

Both are 24 years old. Go out to play and make it up... It's so unfree.

This problem is very serious, not the parties, it's really hard to persuade you. My opinion is that a showdown with him will either make our relationship public with the outside world, or we will part ways. Don't waste each other's time.

I think there are several reasons why my boyfriend is in this situation:

1. The company generally does not like to fall in love with its own internal employees, and some companies have clear regulations that the two parties must not be internal employees who are in love, and will dissuade one party. (It's not clear what kind of company your boyfriend's company is, and whether there are such regulations.)

2. Men make excuses for themselves and have their own unspeakable secrets. For example, the door is right.

3. Test the elders and see their reactions before making a decision on whether to meet formally or not. Usually they have no confidence in front of their elders, or they blindly obey and have no right to speak.

Spread out the explanation, covering up is not a long-term thing, and it is recommended to solve it as soon as possible. Both sides speak up honestly.

To love me is to tell me and identify with me.

Tell him tactfully, but also make your embarrassing position clear and proceed calmly.

If the other party is a spineless person, it is advisable to move on, this kind of man is like a weed.

Of course, I don't understand, and it's not a third party or something, so why can't it be made public, right? You believe in him, but he doesn't handle it well, how do you trust him?

And they're all 24 years old, so what's there to worry about?

I advise you to break up with him, such a man is too unreliable, how can you feel safe with him!

If it's not suitable, a man should be responsible, and even talk about his girlfriend to cover it up, forget it.

Your boyfriend does have a problem! is 24 years old It's normal to be in love, why hide it, it means that he hasn't accepted you in his heart or that he doesn't want others to know before the time is ripe, and it's possible. He might want to find a suitable opportunity to say it.

Be careful to be played, you take him as a boyfriend. What is he doing to you?

Be careful.

What is there about you that makes him feel like he can't see the light? Or maybe he doesn't approve of you psychologically.

Such a boyfriend, don't do it

Why do you seem to be in love with a student? Divide it.

Not suitable Don't take men's word for it.

Ask him how long he wants to do this, and beware of being fooled.

Hello! As a bystander and a passer-by, I have the following observations:1

You said that the classmate had the intention of chasing you, and you also said that you had a boyfriend, and it was very abnormal for him to talk to you so close for so many days, and it was very wrong. 2.Your boyfriend does do it because he cares about you, although possessiveness is not ruled out.

However, scolding is a very unreasonable choice, and it will make others think that your boyfriend is very bad. But you have to judge for yourself, if it is really Hula's love for you, communicate well with him. 4.

It's also problematic that you have a boyfriend who is still so close to the man who is going to chase you. Hope, thank you!

1. The first two times you went out, it was obvious that you talked more to others than to your boyfriend, and he naturally wondered if he was boring, whether you were bored with him, or too familiar with the conjecture that had reached the bottleneck. Your heart will be shaken, and you will be confused.

2. He wanted to make some amends with the help of the meeting in the future, or to be able to communicate happily with you on the next date, but this is because you said that you can't see each other for a month, and the sense of loss can be imagined. At the same time, he cares about you very much, so you can only stand on an objective standpoint and say that it is better to go out and relax.

3. Your boyfriend should be more sensitive in his heart and care more about you. Although I have doubts and doubts, I still hope that you can be happy, and always care about you, and hope that you can keep in touch even if you are out of town.

Stingy and jealous.

Because you covered up your relationship with him in front of everyone, I thought that you snubbed him and didn't care much about him, and now I am a little depressed. If you love him, just say "I'm sorry yesterday" and it will disappear.

It's nothing. He's just a little jealous. But why don't you travel with him? It's been too long for a month, I'm afraid that the conflict between the two of you is not resolved now, and you will become strange when you come back.

You're so anxious that you can see that you're going to dump him later.

What I want to say is that there is no absolute right or wrong, only suitable and unsuitable. Every couple has their own way of getting along and values, and you and your boyfriend are no exception. So, you don't have to feel too selfish and doubt his love.

You just need to communicate and understand each other's thoughts and feelings.

I will analyze this problem from the following aspects:

1.Why did he make a budget table?

There could be many reasons for him to make this decision, such as:

He was a rational and frugal man who liked to keep a clear record of his income and expenses to avoid waste and indebtedness.

He has some financial pressures or difficulties, such as unstable work, low income, family burdens, etc., so he hopes to be able to save some expenses.

He doesn't have much planning and confidence in your future, so he doesn't want to invest too much emotion and money.

Of course, these are just some of the possibilities and not necessarily the facts. You need to communicate openly with him and understand his real thoughts and motivations.

2.Why are you so uncomfortable after reading it?

My guess is that you may have the following psychological reactions:

You feel that he is doing this in a small way, and does not show love and trust in you.

You feel that by doing this, he is implying that there is distance and estrangement between you, and that he is not treating you as a real partner.

You feel that by doing so, he is restricting your freedom and choices, without respecting your wishes and preferences.

You feel that he is testing your loyalty and dedication by doing so, and does not give you enough security and security.

3.How to solve this problem?

Here are a few steps I suggest you can take:

First of all, calm down and don't act impulsively or hurtfully because of a momentary emotion. Try to empathize and understand his position and considerations.

Second, find a suitable time and place and sit down with him to have a good conversation. Tell him how you feel and think after seeing the budget sheet, and also listen to his explanations and opinions. Try to be calm and honest and avoid accusations or blame.

Again, look for a compromise or compromise. For example, some common expenses can be shared according to the proportion of the old stove's income, and some personal expenses can also be retained. Or you can do some off-budget surprises or rewards on a regular basis to add some fun and romance.

Or you can set up a joint savings account to plan and prepare for the future.

Finally, strengthen trust and communication with each other. Budget tables are not the whole or determining factor of feelings. As long as you love and believe in each other, you can overcome any difficulties and challenges.

I hope mine can help you. I wish you all happiness!

"Is it normal for my boyfriend to ask me to please his mother and have a good relationship with my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and his mother is home alone, so he has to go home to accompany her?" The issue is itemized and examples are given:

Regarding the boyfriend's desire for you to please his mother and have a good relationship with his mother-in-law, and when he wants your mother to be considerate of him when he is home alone, we can analyze it from the following aspects:

1.Respect for elders: Honoring elders is part of traditional Chinese culture, and it is normal for a boyfriend to ask you to respect and respect his mom.

2.Relationship: Your boyfriend's expectations of you may indicate that he values his family relationship very much and wants to work with you to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere.

3.Filial piety: In Chinese culture, filial piety is seen as a very important quality. The boyfriend may think that you should do your best to care for and care for his mom, which is a sign of your care and respect for him.

4.Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship: Your boyfriend may want you to have a good relationship with his mother, as this is conducive to family harmony and stability. However, this needs to be based on mutual respect and understanding.

5.Communication: Communication between you is especially important in this situation. You should be honest about each other's expectations and needs, and work together to solve problems in order to strike a balance in the mother-in-law relationship.

6.Family values: A boyfriend's emphasis on family can lead him to be more cautious in the face of family problems. In this case, it is very important to understand his position and respect his decision.

In conclusion, in this case, the key is communication and understanding. You can share this problem with your boyfriend and seek a solution that will benefit both of you. At the same time, it is very important for Chenchang to respect elders, establish a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and maintain family harmony.