55 year old Qu Jiarui revealed the reasons for not getting married, what aspects made you feel emoti

Maybe everyone is not familiar with Qu Jiarui, she is an unmarried person who has spent most of her life alone. However, in an interview, Qu Jiarui also pointed out that he had been in love 6 times in college, but later broke up for various reasons. Qu Jiarui is now looking forward to the arrival of 60 years old, because she wants to prove that women don't need to rely on men to live very well when they are old.

So, 55-year-old Qu Jiarui revealed the reasons for not getting married, what aspects make you feel emotional? First, she values women's financial independence too much. Secondly, she attaches too much importance to women's workplace ability.

1. Too much emphasis on women's financial independence

In the course of the interview, when Qu Jiarui talked about the reason why he was not married, he said from the side that his mother had to grovel when she asked her father for money, and she was very unaccustomed to this. It is clear from her words that she believes that women must be financially independent at all times in order to live with dignity. However, what I want to say is that the property in the marriage is originally owned by both parties, and when her mother went to ask her father for money, her attitude showed grovel, in fact, it was just out of respect for the other party.

In this regard, I personally think that Qu Jiarui's views are a bit radical and inappropriate.

Second, too much emphasis is placed on women's workplace ability

Qu Jiarui also pointed out that she was very emotional that many women were originally more capable of working than men, but because their children finally gave up their careers, she felt that it was not worth it, and wanted to prove that women's work ability can also be strong. In fact, for women, husband and child education is also a manifestation of ability. A woman can manage the family properly and educate her children very well and excellently, is such a woman not capable?

They only show their work ability in different aspects, and it is not only in the company that they can reflect their work ability.

Therefore, I don't want to say anything more about Qu Jiarui's marriage, after all, it is up to me to decide whether to marry or not. However, such a reason not to marry is a pity, isn't it?

For example, the matter of inclusion makes me very emotional, if a person doesn't like this kind of thing in his heart. Then her marriage can be said to be a torture for two people. So in that case, it's better not to get married.

A woman is financially independent and has strong workplace ability, then her expectations for the other half are very high, and she is not willing to compromise, then she will not get married, and marriage is actually people's own choice.

She has always adhered to the doctrine of non-marriage, but the doubts and pressure from the outside world are the biggest harm to her, in fact, whether a person gets married or not, it is her own choice, and bystanders have no right to point fingers.

You have to endure a lot of cynicism and worldly eyes in life, because these will bring a lot of negative emotions to life.

A person's life is free. A person can do whatever he wants, without the concern of his family, and can live for his ideals.

A person's life is very cool, you can do whatever you want, you are not bound by anyone, and you are very relaxed.

It's very cool, you don't have to pay family responsibilities, there are no contradictions in life, there are no quarrels, a person is free and can be willful.

Of course, it is very comfortable, there are not too many family troubles, and there is no need to raise children, you can enjoy your love life happily, and be romantic from time to time.

A person's life can be decided by themselves, and there will not be a lot of unnecessary troubles because of the run-in between two people.