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Laziness and forbearance. Many people who have a hard life do not know how to be enterprising and are very lazy, which leads to a bad life. will also endure a lot of suffering in life, leading to self-inflicted blame.
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Most of the women who have a hard life are due to their own reasons. They are hardworking and kind, do everything by themselves, always listen to other people's opinions without their own opinions, have no principles of their own, and are easy to forgive others.
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A woman with a miserable life is made by her own habit of facing injustice and willingly accepting her fate. There is also the fact that they dare not resist their families and dare not pursue their own happiness. Some women are afraid of other people's eyes, dare not be themselves, and like to look at other people's faces in everything.
These habits can lead to a woman's life being miserable.
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The first habit is to be good to herself, if a girl is good to herself, then she will cherish herself, and naturally she will not be miserable. The second habit is whether the other half is good to oneself, and if we are used to the other half being bad to oneself, then most of what awaits us is pain. The third habit is to enjoy life, and most happy girls will enjoy life, so they will definitely not suffer from life.
The first habit is to be good to herself, if a girl is good to herself, then she will cherish herself, and naturally she will not be miserable. The second habit is that the other half is good to us, and if we are used to the other half being bad to us, then most of us will be miserable. The third habit is to enjoy life, and most happy girls will enjoy life, so they will definitely not suffer.
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See if she will habitually rely on her other half, see if she will choose to endure alone when she encounters grievances, and see if she will always worry about renting a stool and fighting, these three habits will determine whether she has suffered a bad life.
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Whether a woman is "miserable" or not often depends on which three habits she has? 1.Will not be accustomed to relying on the other half, 2Will the collapse of the foundation endure the grievances alone, 3Will not be bad clothes or will worry about it.
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The first point depends on some habits of life is actually very important, the second point is that it depends on your own state of mind to determine your habits, and the third point is that the most important thing is that knowing the bend depends on your personal inner wildness.
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Married life, what exactly is given to a woman. At this point, each woman's perception is different, which may cause their married life to be very different. A shrewd woman knows very well that married life gives her a refuge on the premise that it also gives her more training and growth.
Even if she has someone to rely on in her married life, she will still remember to improve herself and make herself stronger.
In married life, the husband and wife can ensure that they are as good as possible, so that they can fight side by side and resist the wind and rain together. This kind of love and marriage will also be like the one depicted in Shu Ting's "To the Oak Tree": I must be a kapok near you, standing with you as the brand image of the tree.
roots, clenched underground; leaves, touching in the clouds. We share the cold snaps, the thunderstorms, and the thunderbolts; Everyone shares the mist, the flowing lan, and the hauni. It seems to be separated forever, but they remain together for life.
If a woman subconsciously relies on a man to live, and hands over all her life to a man to dominate, the older she gets, the worse her life will be.
No one's life is smooth sailing, although this is everyone's expectation, but in real life, we should also accept the accidents and challenges that arise in life. In the same way, many people in life will take the individual as the core, but to others, you are just a "other person", and sometimes it is inevitable to ignore your feelings, and seep into the knowledge makes you suffer some grievances.
Some small things in ordinary times, generally speaking, are not very careful, and they will be quietly recognized. But if you choose to tolerate others and make yourself feel wronged every time you encounter something, it is very easy for such a habit to form a habit for others, and you will naturally not consider it for you. The longer this habit is, the easier it is for others to think that you are a weak person, and even more so a person who is easy to mess with, and naturally will not take you seriously and take your feelings into account.
This kind of woman, the older she gets, the more she will naturally turn over the hardships.
In life, just by observing those people in your neighborhood, it is actually easy to find a situation. Usually these women who are not very worried about life live a leisurely life and know how to enjoy their own life. But those women who have a bad life are often a life that loves to worry, and they can't worry about their own family affairs, and they have to worry about other people's family affairs, as if the people around her are indispensable to her.
As a woman, if you want to live a happy and comfortable life, you must know how to be kind to yourself, instead of thinking about others everywhere and for others. You should know that when you worry about others, they will not necessarily appreciate you, nor will they appreciate you the opposite. If you have been giving to others, others will only accept it with peace of mind, and it is easier to feel that this is something you should do.
When you learn to let go of this kind of thing, sometimes you can just care about others, and you can get gratitude from others. If a woman can't change this habit, the older she gets, the worse her life will be.
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Women with a hard life have a bad habit, that is, they will always grovel in their relationship, and they will always agree to all the requests of others, without principles and bottom lines, blindly compromise, because in marriage they will become shrunk, often reluctant to buy themselves beautiful clothes, and unwilling to spend money, in the end they will only make their lives miserable.
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First, it will only think about others. Second, there is no heart. Third, being too honest. Fourth, it will not be flexible. Fifth, there is no courage. These are all bad habits.
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Special picking, and no assertiveness in doing things, love to be calculating, love to complain, do things without measure, and don't know how to express themselves, etc., these habits will affect women.
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Love to complain. I don't know how to be satisfied. Excessive anxiety. Talking nonsense, broken mouths. Frequent tantrums. Don't know how to respect others. Always criticize others with your own opinions.
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Often, gossiping about others without looking at the time and place, will always cause discomfort to others, and you must do your own thing and control your own mouth. Sickness comes from the mouth, and trouble comes out of the mouth.
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I'd rather be wronged than fight for interests, Xun Ban likes to take care of everything, always forgets to love himself, has no own principles, no work, and puts hope on burning others.
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It should be that I like to complain in married life, or often have a negative state, and there is a lot of resentment towards life.
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In general, these people will always complain about their fate, and they will also be very negative, and will never get out of their comfort zone.
Temper is particularly big, does not believe in love, has no sense of security, is easily moved, feels that others like them, and women who lack love will have these manifestations.
I think the characteristics of these women are that they are too good at doing everything and will do everything themselves, they have no obvious sense of boundaries, they don't know how to reject others, they are overly unconfident, and they always like to please others, which leads to their lack of refusal when faced with other people's needs.
I live more transparently, I no longer rely too much on men, I also know how to conquer men with money, I have become more active, I can speak sweet words, I can flirt with men, I am more optimistic, and I don't like to complain.
Particularly cowardly, particularly strong, and unfilial, women with these personalities are basically unhappy.
In daily life, we sometimes hear that a certain woman is really miserable, and she has not had a good life in this life, and this kind of woman is really pitiful and regretful. At this moment, some people will wonder, how can a woman's life be seen by others? Yes, it can indeed be seen how fate is, a woman who is not doing well will always be very depressed, and she will always have a sad face when she encounters things, and this kind of woman can be seen through by others at a glance. >>>More