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A person may have a lot of friends, but there must not be many real confidants, confidants are people who can communicate with each other in their hearts, can understand each other and admire each other, and confidants are people who can understand each other, be happy with each other, and accompany each other with their hearts. True confidants don't have to be husband and wife, or people who can stay with each other all day, they may be close to each other or they may be far away. They don't necessarily tell each other when they miss each other.
But I must always worry about it in my heart.
They can read each other's every look. Understand the meaning of each other person's words. They don't need to be rhetorical. It is not necessary to get along day and night, but it will definitely put each other in your heart, and you can give each other a greeting when it is sunny and sunny.
They don't care about each other's looks. They don't care about the identity and status of the other party, they don't have to deliberately hide themselves, they can accommodate all the flaws of the other party, they are willing to give love to each other, and they can give up their own pleasure for each other.
When you encounter setbacks, he will send you warm words, encourage you with your heart, give you enough confidence, do the strength and backing behind you, when you are angry, he will be kind to you rational advice, when you feel confused, he can give guidance, will take the trouble to help you, when you are in a bad mood, he will not be as full of grievances as you, but will use his humor to relieve your boredom, give you a quiet sky, when you are in a good mood, he will also tell you his happiness, when you have achievements, He will send the most sincere blessings, share the joy with you, understand the bits and pieces you pay, when you feel tired, he is willing to accompany you silently on the other side, just to give you happiness so that you can release the pressure, confidants have no mutual possessiveness, confidants only silently dedicate themselves, confidants are each other's hearts, confidants are each other's hearts, confidants are lifelong friends, confidants are also spiritual attachments, life to have a confidant is a kind of happiness, and it is not a kind of silent pain
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First; Understand the importance of trust for friends, as the old saying goes, "Those who believe in others will always believe in them." It means that if you want to deal with the relationship between friends, if you want friends to trust you, you must first believe in friends, and the real "sincerity" is the foundation of getting along with friends;
Second: to be generous, especially when getting along with friends, we must be generous, as the so-called "people are not sages, who can do nothing" friends are also people, he will also make mistakes, we can not always grasp the mistakes and shortcomings of friends, to really do strict self-discipline, lenient to others, in order to really get along with friends, but also to make real good friends;
Third: in the midst of adversity, we can see the truth, the friendship between friends is not maintained by sweet words, the real friendship is able to withstand the test of time and environment, usually only the flesh and numb touting, the friendship that is coming to the end of the catastrophe but flying separately is what we should spurn, the friend who can give us a practical support at the critical moment is the real friend, the person who pushes you to the fire pit at the critical time is a false friend, a real villain, and the person who can persuade you to rein in the precipice is a true friend, a true gentleman;
Fourth: friendship should be maintained by feelings, not by money, gifts to maintain, as the so-called "thousands of miles to send goose feathers, light friendship and friendship" can send you a simple blessing when you are happy, can give you a light greeting when you are troubled, such friends are friends! Good luck.
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They care about each other and can think of each other.
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To put it simply, it's someone who knows you well.
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The real answer is really only we know!
I have always believed that the heart is compared to the heart!
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1. That is, they are good friends, friends who can tell each other what they want to talk to, and friends who can confide in each other. It sits below the confidant, above the good friend, it is the friend who knows you and understands you; And good friends are often just friends who get along well with you and are more compatible. 2. Have quality and taste, know how to respect and understand others, do not force anyone to judge, and will not ask for any personal information about you.
During the conversation, he respects and understands and supports your views and opinions, but he will also state his own opinions and give you some necessary hints tactfully. 3. Sincerely face everyone who destroys the hall, be humble and sincere, give you a feeling of safety and relaxation, like communicating with old friends for many years, confiding in close friends, and the sadness and happiness of making changes by yourself. He is a good listener, and occasionally he will rationally communicate with you **emotion or life with you**, expressing his views and opinions on society or some things.
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People will make a lot of friends in this life, but it is very rare to make a close friend. The meaning of the existence of a bosom friend is that he will appear in front of you when you need it most. <>
A close friend is often the one who understands you bestThe two of you are attracted to each other, people who recognize each other, admire each other, supervise each other, support each other, and help each other. They are always there to help you when you need it mostEven if you are poor, they can still comfort you, be considerate of you, care for you, help you, and communicate with you with their hearts. There is a bosom friend who is someone who calls you when you need help late at night, and he will talk to you all night, and when you need help, he can be on call.
Two intimate friends will never have any selfish intentions in utilitarianism. Bosom friends are all bought with heartTalk to you when you are in trouble, have a glass of wine with you when you are lonely, share happiness with you when you are happy, and bear pain with you when you are free. <>
When you are unhappy, he can see that you have something in your heart, come to comfort you, and help you relieve the troubles in your heart. When you have a little secret in your heart, the person you can't help but want to talk about is the person you trust the most, and that person is also your bosom friend. A true bosom friend will not deliberately get close to you when you are brilliant, and will not abandon you when you fail, this is a real bosom friend.
It is very difficult to have a close friend, in our life, it is very rare to make a close friend, we must work hard to maintain the relationship with friends, and do not let your last close friend leave you.
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Life is short, you can meet a confidant, there are no regrets in this life! We meet different people every day, and we will make countless friends in our lives, but it is really difficult to meet a confidant.
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I think the meaning of the existence of a true friend is that when you encounter difficulties, someone will be there to comfort you and encourage you.
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As a bosom friend, you can rely on it when you are sad, you can share it when you are happy, and you can still have a common topic even if you don't contact you for a long time.
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The existence of a bosom friend means to pull you when you are in trouble and confused, and to guide you in the dark.
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If you can give yourself some advice or comfort when you are in trouble, treat each other with sincerity.
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A friend is the object that can be confided in when you are sad, a friend is a companion who wants to share happiness, a friend is a punching bag when you are angry, a friend is a person who you never want to get rid of, a friend is a mirror, you can always reflect the most real you, a friend is a life-saving straw, always appear when you need it most, a friend is a post station on the journey of life, for you to rest, a friend is a harbor that can be anchored, let you anchor, a friend is a resource that you have and I have and everyone has, and at the same time, in a sense, friends are non-renewable resources, cherish friends, friendship lasts forever
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When you are unhappy, you can take a fancy to your heart, and will help you to relieve your heart; When you have some little secrets, you feel that you can't help but want to talk to him, and you are sure or believe that he will keep it a secret; When you do something wrong, he will not support you or condone you, but tell you something that can make you understand that you are wrong, or he is not afraid to annoy you and reprimand you loudly; When you are in trouble, he will do everything to help you, of course, if he feels that you need his help, he will definitely do his best to help you; And if you can do the same to him, then you can say that you are bosom friends!
Of course, in fact, to judge whether a person is your bosom friend or not, it is not only these things, but also like-minded people!
Know that a true friend will not come to you when you are in your glory, nor will they abandon you when you are in decline.
If you find a true friend that belongs to you, you must cherish it, happy girls** must know how to exchange hearts with each other, and tolerate each other with their own broad minds.
When you pick up a handful of sand in your hand, it will give you some natural beauty; But when you squeeze your hand hard, the sand will slide between your fingers. I hope you can understand the connotation of this sentence, grasp your bosom friends, and know how to cherish it!
May your tree of friendship bloom forever!
There are bosom friends, but they must be exchanged for sincerity, real bosom friends are willing to listen to your every confession, and will be the first to think of you when you want to talk! ~
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