Why do men always miss their exes? Psychology tells you what several reasons there are

He doesn't cherish you enough, in fact, in great cases, it means that he thinks you are not as good as your ex. In other words, if he loves you enough and regards your status high enough, even if he still remembers the existence of his ex, it is not in conflict with cherishing the present you.

But on the contrary, he doesn't care about your going, and he doesn't care about the relationship, so that you are wronged, as if "I'm like this, if I can't stand it, I'll leave", which proves that your departure is painless.

The ex is generally the beauty of youth, and generally men will miss their ex, but it is not love, and they will miss it after they lose, which is a common problem of men.

Because a man's current love life is not satisfactory, he will miss his ex's kindness to him. Men will compare the two, their love life is unsatisfactory now, what they lose is the best, they have nostalgia, they will deliberately beautify their ex, etc.

In fact, in life, if we fall in love by ourselves, we will also encounter such a situation. It's very normal for a man to actually miss his ex. If we talk about a boyfriend ourselves, and such a boyfriend is obsessed with his ex, we should not be too hasty.

Will miss his ex.

Even after the two of them break up, their boyfriends will definitely think of their exes inadvertently. This can only show that his boyfriend is an emotional person and cannot be beaten to death with a stick. When we meet such a boyfriend, we should actually treat it objectively.

Because after all, for such a boyfriend, they themselves are very emotional. If we can treat them well, they will love us very much. <>

This is also a very normal thing.

We can't guarantee that every boyfriend we talk about is the first love, so we can only make some of our boyfriends miss us through some of our own practices, and this can also promote the relationship between two people. And for his boyfriend, he is obsessed with his ex, which means that these two people must have experienced something that cannot be forgotten. Then after such things become memories, they will also live in their minds indefinitely, and they can only be sealed.

And there are many people who are usually very harsh on their boyfriends when they are in love. Even if there is a girl in their boyfriend list, they will feel very unbearable. Such a way of dying will only make your boyfriend feel very bored.

After all, for every girl, the biggest charm is that she can live an independent life and have her own life circle.

I think if a man is obsessed with his ex, he should not have eliminated the other party from his heart and still have feelings for him. Two people who are in love, unless one party has done something sorry for the other party, if there is no just no love or no love due to the epidemic, this situation will occur.

As long as it is a breakup, the lovers who exist in the past seem to be the best and most suitable one. The reason for missing your ex has nothing to do with the outcome of the breakup, most likely because of guilt in your heart. After all, it's someone I've seriously liked before.

Guys will, but mature men won't. Mature men know how to weigh and cherish what they have at the moment, even if the ex is very deep and unforgettable, they will silently close it in the corner of their hearts, and will not take the initiative to mention or even affect the current mood.

Men are more inclined to maintain a positive relationship with their ex, because many men will subconsciously think that their ex is still their woman within a year of breaking up, so whether it is from the perspective of nostalgia or the evolutionary system, they will miss their ex more than women.

I can't forget my ex, unless I say that my current relationship is not very smooth, and then I keep thinking about my ex's good, I think my lover is very good, and I regret separating, so he will always miss it.

Of course there will be such a man, she must still love her ex, miss her, she can't let go of her, and still like her. I still can't find a better girl than him.

In general, people who break up passively will definitely have a crush on their ex. But once a new relationship begins, all the past is in smoke. He will cherish your present even more.

The reason why I can't forget my ex is because I still love him, and it is better for a man to have such a behavior than to show it with practical actions and turn his ex into a current one.

Well, if the current relationship makes him feel dissatisfied, then occasionally he may remember that his ex was good to her, but the average person cherishes the present more.

Maybe, but this kind of obsession comes from him, and he is still not dead to him, and he still hasn't come out of his last relationship.

It is true that a man will miss his ex because he always thinks about the good of his ex and always compares his ex to his current one.

Absolutely. If the man's ex is particularly good, or if he has done a lot of things for this man, then he will definitely miss it.

Most men don't miss their ex, because they have to cherish the person in front of them. There may be some nostalgia for the words of the ex.

Yes, the ex is a hurdle in the boy's heart, he may be his white moonlight, but the size cannot be erased.

If you don't forget it, you will definitely not say it, he will only let himself know about this kind of thing, and outsiders will not know about it.

If this man loves his ex very much, he will definitely miss her, this is deep love, and it is difficult to extricate himself.

Of course not. Because if a man finds his beloved wife, he will not think of his ex at all.

There is a word in psychology called thinking rumination, which means that some thoughts in the mind are constantly thinking about some things that everyone has experienced. After a breakup, it is very easy for people to get immersed in negative emotions and environments, and they like to feel these painful situations, impressions and experiences over and over again, and I think this is due to rumination. For example, after a breakup, people will keep thinking:

If I had ...... in the first placeIt's fine" "It's not that I didn't say that to her, and we wouldn't have broken up" "If I had looked for her in the first place, would we have been able to get back together." Maybe you don't have a strong affection for her, but the constant reminiscence and constant talk make you feel that all this is so regrettable, and you are very concerned about this loss, which in turn magnifies the pain of your broken love. It even makes you feel that you and your ex are not completely finished.

How can I get rid of this kind of mentality?

Shift your focus and be able to do things that occupy your mind, mobile games or crafts that you have to focus on, so that you don't have much time to think about them. If you really can't forget, you don't need to intentionally make yourself forget, forcing yourself to forget may make it harder for you to forget. There is a white bear effect in psychology, that is, the more you suppress a certain thought, the more you think about it.

When we deliberately forget something, we will subconsciously focus our attention on it, and finally cause a thought that cannot be shaken off.

Everyone has "nostalgia", which is a normal psychological feeling that refers to personal memories and thoughts about the past. Men can't forget their exes, and part of it is caused by the "nostalgia" in our hearts. Nostalgia is an evasion of reality, and an expectation of what cannot be done.

When men quarrel with their jobs, the main manifestations are more significant.

The obvious comparison between the ex and the incumbent makes the man feel that he has lost an excellent woman, and the more he thinks about it, the more unwilling he feels. In fact, after a breakup, when a man thinks of his ex, it is through decoration, and the human brain automatically ignores the defects and becomes a big advantage. It's quite possible that when you're really together, the relationship isn't really that good.

To deal with this situation, men need to ensure that it is best not to have any contact with their ex, including mobile phones, mobile phone WeChat, WeChat likes and comments, to give girlfriends enough security, and when you actively leave the relationship, women are certainly not easy to quarrel with you.

Women don't talk about their ex inexplicably, let alone compare themselves with their boyfriend's ex, even if you are already together, your ex is just in the past, be yourself and manage your emotions. In the case that everyone finds out that the target is secretly paying attention to the ex, don't be so strict, after all, the ex can't be avoided, it is possible that he does not mean it, but just cares about it. An old relationship is a matter of two people, and it is not something that can be carried out by just one person.

The first is that this man is not very mature, he always pins his feelings on others, he does not cherish when he has it, and regrets it after losing it, and second, it may also be that Ki Kai's ex is his first love, which left him with a lot of good memories of Sun Na, so he always remembers the third, the man is obsessed with his ex, and it is likely that the current is similar to the ex in many points.

Men will miss their exes, and they will be nostalgic in our hearts; It's best if you can't get it, after all, you really love it, so it's hard to forget it easily. Therefore, even if the first and the others break up, they will inevitably touch the scene and hurt the scenes when they encounter the scenes they have experienced together.

This is because for men, they have learned a lot from their predecessors, and their predecessors are very trusting, understanding, respectful, tolerant of him, and will understand that he considers problems from his point of view.

Because what you can't get is always in the commotion of the land bridge, the two broke up stupidly, but the man always felt that the other party was very good to him, and after the breakup, he forgot about the shortcomings of his ex, remembering that they were all the advantages of his ex, and he always felt that the feelings at that time were very beautiful.

Because Li pretends to be a man is emotional, the more people he likes, the more he will miss them, even if he has someone he likes, he will not forget the people he once liked to bring joy.

It's not that the ex is unforgettable, it's that the current one is not powerful, if the current one is not too bad, how can people evoke the thoughts of the ex, so do your duty, how can there be so many complex and complex emotional relationships.

Thinking of the good memories of the two people at that time, I feel that the other party is very simple, unlike many girls who are special material now, and I also think that the other party and myself didn't want anything at that time, only this simple love. Or maybe it's to make a big impression on yourself.

The reason why many men always miss their ex is because there is a unique charm in the ex, which deeply attracts him.

Maybe this girl is particularly important to this boy, at that time this boy gave all his feelings, and he will feel very sorry for this girl if he didn't get it in the end.