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A man really loves a woman, no matter how many times he says divorce, he always has a woman in his heart. Even if a man explicitly asks for a divorce, there are some reasons, maybe he has a problem with himself, maybe you did something to make him unhappy, or a third party intervenes in your marriage, etc. However, if your man and you explicitly ask for a divorce, but he doesn't want to leave, it's a sign that he's not fully committed.
In other words, he didn't really want a divorce. The purpose of saying this is to remind you that there may be problems between couples.
Maybe you're not good enough in some way, or you're always bore-uping him, so at critical moments.
He asks you to get a divorce. As a wife, when your man asks for a divorce, he will never leave. So instead of adding fuel to the fire, think about what you're doing wrong.
If it's your fault, correct it. If it is his problem, be sure to understand, then pay more attention and comfort more. Only in this way can we come down in harmony and happiness and take happiness into our own hands.
If you don't solve it, you can't get the happiness you want.
Why do men ask for a divorce but don't do it? A person who truly loves you is likely to explicitly ask you for a divorce for some reason, but if he is still actively communicating with you, it shows that the person does not really want to divorce you, but at some point he has no choice but to make a decision. If he contacts you, you're always in his head.
The more he tries to contact you, the more he loves you. When a man divorces you, he still actively communicates with you, which shows that you are still the only one in his heart. Communicating with you positively means he can't let you go.
If this happens to you, if you are still in love with him, give them a chance to get back together. A loved one will find many reasons to stay with you. If a man files for divorce from you, but also tells you that everyone is good friends and he just wants the opportunity to stay with you, he doesn't really want to divorce you, he stays with you in order to get into your heart in the right situation.
If your man is divorced from you but still wants to be friends with you, you can understand that you still exist in his heart and he tells you that divorce is just an angry word. It is not easy for a husband and wife to get to know each other, understand each other, love each other, and finally enter into marriage. If you divorce just because of a contradiction, a word of anger, or a marital problem, it will be difficult to find true happiness.
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If a man proposes a divorce but does not take action, it is likely that he has not made up his mind yet, but just has this idea, or he is waiting for the other party to correct it, and then he will change his mind.
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He's weighing the pros and cons. Although he no longer loves you, he has taken into account many factors, so he can't fully make up his mind and file for divorce.
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I think he may regret it, don't want to divorce anymore, maybe there is a new way, I suggest you ask him.
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It may mean that the man regrets what he said, and he doesn't want to divorce you at all, just talking.
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A man may mention divorce to scare you, not really want to divorce, but just want the woman to know the man's attitude and make the woman a little afraid.
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Because he wants to threaten the other party with divorce, he doesn't really want to divorce, and sometimes he will unconsciously say the word divorce after a quarrel.
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There may be several reasons why a man mentions divorce and then does not mention it:
1.Inner conflicts, confused thoughts, complex emotions that cannot be expressed.
2.I don't know how to express my true thoughts, I feel that my emotions are not easy to control, I am afraid of verbal harm, and I am unwilling to hurt each other.
3.Unable to accept the outcome of the divorce, his mind is confused, and he is afraid that his decision will bring pain to the other party, so he is reluctant to express his Jane Lu feelings.
4.I still love you and don't want to get divorced, but I don't want to hurt you without a stool, so I don't mention it.
5.If something goes wrong with the relationship, there may be no love, so the man doesn't want to divorce anymore.
6.He hasn't thought about it yet, and he doesn't want to get a divorce, so he doesn't mention divorce.
7.He may feel that you still love him and he doesn't want to give up on you, so he doesn't mention divorce.
In conclusion, divorce is a complex matter that involves many factors. If a man mentions divorce and then doesn't mention it, then he may be in one of the above reasons, and the specific reasons need to be further communicated and understood.
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Summary. Since the divorce is well thought out, both sides of the husband and wife say divorce, even if they don't divorce, both parties are unwilling to tolerate each other, and they are actually hurt.
What kind of psychology is a man who mentions divorce and doesn't mention it, and doesn't speak.
Since the divorce is well thought out, both sides of the husband and wife contradict each other and say that they will divorce, even if they do not divorce, both parties are unwilling to tolerate each other, in fact, they are hurt.
The woman agreed, but he didn't mention it again, and he didn't speak...Here's why.
He's dragging it out, and it's no good.
What's dragging. Husband and wife are affectionate together no matter what, do you have children.
Mu You, a foolish and filial man, didn't dare to have sex with him.
That's right. Not for a few days.
That's it. What does it mean?
Dear, since it is foolishness, you can also see that he has filed for divorce for you, you should agree to it, and you can handle it.
No children is the same as no worries.
I agreed, but he didn't mention it, and he didn't speak for more than a month.
You can tell him it's not fun to drag.
It's good for everyone to leave.
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On the way to marriage, sometimes a man has to file for divorce for some reason. However, if a man still has feelings for his wife, sometimes although he has talked about divorce, but in fact he still does not want to separate in his heart, at this time, what will the man not want to divorce?
1. Clearly proposed to file for divorce, but never left.
A man really loves a woman, no matter how many times he says divorce, but he has always had a woman in his heart. Even if a man has explicitly asked for divorce, there are still some reasons, maybe he has encountered some trouble, maybe you have done something to make him unhappy, or a third party has intervened in your marriage, etc.
However, if your man has clearly proposed a divorce from you, but he has not been willing to leave, it means that he has not made up his mind completely, in other words, he does not really want a divorce, and the purpose of saying such things is to remind you that there are likely to be some problems between husband and wife.
It may be that you have not been good enough on some levels, or you have always annoyed him, so in a moment of excitement, he has clearly proposed a divorce to you.
Only then can everyone walk down in harmony and happiness, and take happiness into your own hands, if you don't solve it yourself, then you are unlikely to get the happiness you want.
2. Clearly propose to file for divorce and actively communicate with you.
A person who truly loves you, he is likely to divorce you for some reason, but if he still actively communicates with you, it shows that this man does not really want to divorce you, but only has no choice but to make a decision under certain circumstances. If he contacts you, it shows that you are always in his heart. The more often he contacts you, the more he loves you.
After your man files for divorce from you, he is still actively communicating with you, which shows that in his heart, you are still his only one. Actively communicating with you means that he can't let go of you, and if you encounter such a situation, if you still love him, give them a chance, and the two will get back together.
3. Clearly propose to file for divorce, and also say that he will treat you as a good friend.
A person who loves you deeply will find many reasons to stay by your side. If a man clearly divorces you, but still tells you that everyone is still good friends, his approach is just to win the opportunity for himself to stay with you, not really want to divorce you, his purpose to stay by your side is to enter your heart under the right circumstances.
If your man files for divorce with you, but wants to be friends with you, you will be able to understand that you still exist in his heart, and the divorce he tells you is just a casual remark.
It is not easy for husband and wife to meet, know each other, love each other in the vast sea of people, and finally walk into the marriage hall together.
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The man said divorce but I don't want to, how can I get it back? It is necessary to find out the reason, and in making the right way to save her husband, let's take a look at these methods.
1. Women should learn to keep their marriage fresh.
Many reasons why a husband leaves the family are that marriage makes him unhappy. Of course, love is the foundation of marriage, so only by keeping love can two people go on which Lu, so women can keep surprising men and increasing their attractiveness, so that men will come back to you.
2. Empathize and think from the other party's point of view.
If the relationship between husband and wife is separated, it means that something has gone wrong in your relationship. It's normal for two people to live together for so long. If you want to win back your husband's heart, a wise woman is facing such an environment, I suggest you think from another perspective and think about this from another angle.
This will help you better understand each other's thoughts and understand each other's psychology...When your husband has just filed for divorce, don't be so irrational and noisy. At this moment, you'd better deal with this matter calmly, calm yourself down, and think about what he would think if you were your husband now, maybe he doesn't necessarily love you.
Now, the breakdown of many marriages is not without emotion, it is likely to be a verbal impulse.
3. Adjust your bad mood.
There are many ways on the Internet, as long as you search, I think you can know a lot of methods and tricks to save love and marriage, but why in this era of Internet development, there are still so many female friends who don't do anything to save their husbands. I think there are a lot of reasons for this, and one of the key factors is that your emotions are too complicated! Some people are so panicked that they can't speak and get restless, so they can't communicate well with the counselor when they state their problems.
If you can't calm down and describe your marital status well, you won't be able to solve your emotional problems faster and better. That's why if you want to save your husband, you need to adjust your emotions first.
4. Understand the other person's thoughts.
When the other person tells you that he has no feelings for you, there are usually two scenarios. First, it's too distant between you, and second, he's having people out there. So, you have to learn to think backwards, why did he divorce you, and whether he had a better choice after your divorce.
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You can communicate with your husband, and then both parties will speak their minds, face each other sincerely, and find a way to solve the problem.
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I think you should talk to your husband about it, and if you really can't, you should divorce, because the twisted melon is not sweet.
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