Why do men choose to divorce and not leave home? What do they all think?

This is because they also need a woman to take care of the home, or they also need to maintain their image as a good man, or they don't want their children to know that they are divorced, or they have nowhere to go, etc.

In life, some couples divorce because they can't get by. However, some people will choose to divorce and not leave home after divorce. Some people don't understand why some men choose to divorce and not leave home. I think the reasons why they would do this are as follows:

Some men will set up people outside. They will set up a good husband and father. But their actual lives are a mess. Even so, they won't let outsiders know about their real lives.

If you let others know that they are divorced, their personality will collapse. Therefore, in order to maintain their good image, they will not move out of the house even if they divorce their wives.

For example, there is a couple in the name of the TV series People, he and his wife have no relationship, but he still barely lives with each other, they just want to maintain their own personality.

Some men still have feelings for their children. They know that if they let their children know that they are divorced, their children may not be able to accept it.

Some men do it for their children's schooling, or for their children's growthThey don't want their children to know that their marriage has broken down。They do this to give their children a complete home.

Some men have no place to live after a divorce, so they can only live in their original home temporarily after the divorce. They were forced to do so by reality.

Because men are more possessive, and out of responsibility, although they are divorced, they generally do not choose to leave home; They think that although they are divorced, they have lived together for many years, so they still can't let go of each other and their children for the time being.

Because they are not only for the sake of the children, but also to maintain an imaginary family atmosphere, to save trouble, not to bear the heavy responsibilities of the family as before, but also to be very free, and there are still people to cook after returning home, as if there is no difference from before.

This is because they know in their hearts that he still needs his wife to take care of the family, and they also want his wife to maintain his image as a good man, and they don't want their children to know that divorce will cause some harm to their children.

Because these men will be very lonely after leaving home, and they also want their children to have a complete family, they still love their children very much.

There are reasons for divorced women who do not leave home, first of all, she may have financial pressure, after the divorce, there is no name of husband and wife, but she still lives in a house, each is responsible for their own life, and shares some of the rental loans and various property costs, so that the pressure on both parties will be reduced, second, desire to do Chong, after the divorce, the whole world has become better, but the man is not interested, and he doesn't even think that his ex-husband is good, so he says, At some point, she still needs him more, the third is for the children, families with children, the children are awarded to the husband or wife by the court, if it is awarded to the man, the woman in order to take better care of the children, there will be a situation where the woman divorces and does not leave home, and finally, she still wants to remarry, no matter what the reason for the divorce is, but after the divorce calm down and think about it, it seems that it is really wrong, or I feel that I have feelings for each other, I am reluctant to leave, I really want to get back together, I feel that there is still a chance to rekindle the old feelings, Therefore, choosing to divorce and not leaving home gives the other party some time and opportunities.

It is possible that they have nowhere else to go, or they may want to eat and drink in this home for nothing, and do not want to be responsible, if two people are divorced, it is best to choose to live separately, if they do not live separately, there will still be many conflicts.

There are two possibilities, the first is to want to treat you as a free laborer, a free nanny. The second is that I still can't bear you, and I hope that you may get back together later. The third is for the sake of children, not wanting them to have an unhappy childhood.

It may be that they are not fulfilling their obligations, so that they can also evade some responsibilities.

Nowadays, many people divorce because of emotional discord, and many men do not leave home after divorce, this kind of man is extremely selfish, because after he divorces and leaves this home, they have a place to go.

Because they also need women to take care of the home, to maintain their image as good men, and they don't want their children to know that they are divorced, or that they have nowhere to go at all.

Because they feel that if they leave home, there will be no one to take care of them. They treat girls like babysitters. They are very selfish.

Sue.

If the act of cohabitation without leaving home in a divorce is legally recognized as an illegal cohabitation relationship, the people's courts hearing cases of illegal cohabitation should resolve the cases involving the maintenance of children born out of wedlock and the division of property. When dividing property specifically, the rights and interests of women and children should be taken into account, and the actual situation of the property and the degree of fault of both parties should be taken into account, and the division should be properly divided.

According to the relevant laws of our country, if the relationship has indeed broken down and the mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

From the moment many men choose to betray their wives, they actually have mixed feelings in their hearts. They may love the beauty outside, but it is difficult for them to learn to let go of their wives at home. Some men are so greedy that both sides want to please and want to get.

For men. Even if he betrayed his married life.

Their first instinct was to conceal the report. As long as the women outside do not force themselves to divorce, most men are reluctant to divorce. They prefer to keep things going on inside and out.

Even if a man changes his mind, he will still be indecisive, and he will still worry about hurting his family, and I don't want my wife and children to cause bad thoughts about me. Even if there is no emotion, men are reluctant to pierce the truth, but this is the stupidest thing to do. Eating the bowl and staring at the pot, you can't even eat the bowl sooner or later.

Men will not divorce at will after empathy, and divorce is a great loss for men. Even if they don't like it, many men won't refuse.

For men who betray their families, wives do have a purpose. At least the wife doesn't have to pay for it herself, and no one will refuse a free lover. What's more, if his wife Zhen Leak doesn't know that she has changed her mind, she will still take care of herself and her family wholeheartedly, and a man feels that this state is the best.

Therefore, many men will also live with their wives after empathy, they hide their betrayal, and then take it for granted that their wives give themselves for the family and efforts.

In the eyes of a man who no longer loves his wife, his wife is a household nanny who does not have to spend money. For a family nanny, it is of course best for a man to think that he can do a good job without spending money.

If a man who has changed his mind still lives with his wife, he must have certain intentions. Even if his wife didn't know, then he simply concealed the blame.

Maybe it's because I'm used to my wife's dedication, after all, my wife can wash and cook for herself, and she can also accompany the elderly and children. Therefore, even if a man does not have a wife in his heart, he will still live with his wife because his wife can devote himself to himself. This is actually a really scummy idea and practice, but there are still many women who will unknowingly fall into the pit of men.

Maybe men just think that divorce is because two people can't live together, but it doesn't affect living under the same roof together

Such a man is a special scumbag, who not leaves home to let himself have a place to live, but also does not have to be subjected to his wife's rotten beams and pipes, and can do whatever he wants outside.

These men may just want to continue to enjoy the good of girls and have the opportunity to take care of their children without having to take on other responsibilities.

When dealing with a man in this situation, the first thing to consider is the feelings of his ex-wife, if the relationship between them is still better, then you should respect the feelings between them, do not meddle in the matter between them, and at the same time be clear about your position between them, so as not to cause them unnecessary trouble. In addition, you should also consider his psychological state after the divorce to see if he is ready to start a new life again. Finally, you also have to consider your own feelings, whether you can really accept his family situation, and if you feel that you can't accept it, then don't force yourself to socialize.

The first and most important thing I think is that I am divorced, I am free, and with the divorce certificate in hand, I will have the right to find other women in the future, you don't care, you can't care.

The second is that as long as I don't leave home, then a radish and a pit, you will never be allowed to bring other men back, that is to say, you will always be my woman. And in fact, it is true that the vast majority of women who are divorced and do not leave home think that they are not divorced yet, and men do not leave home, that is, they want you to think so.

The third is a more common phenomenon, as far as this man divorces, he often gives you the house, gives you the money, and gives you the children, he goes out of the house by himself, it seems to be very generous, and he gives you the responsibility of this struggle for half his life, he calculates like this, as long as I don't leave home, then I can still live in this house for free, then what about this meal, you still have to make it for me to eat, then what about this child, you still have to raise it. As for me, as long as I don't leave home, one day I really have financial difficulties, and I believe that you, a woman, will still help me. So, this is another of her shack pies.

Fourth, she thinks that as long as I mix well, I won't come back, but if I don't mix well one day, then this woman will be my last pick-up after all. In other words, men regard this woman as the last retreat that really can't be done, the biggest spare tire.

The fifth filial piety, I think the last one is actually for the children, most men are no matter how selfish they are, no matter how selfish they are, they will still feel sorry to protect their children, and he is not satisfied with his marriage, after all, he still tries to keep a complete home for his children, even if it is only a formal integrity. After all, you said that if you are divorced, the woman resents him and hates him, he actually doesn't care, but his children hate him and hate him, and in this life, it is difficult for a man to bear the failure and psychological pain.

This man-aged chain man is afraid that others will laugh at him, and he is also afraid that he will not be able to live a good life after he leaves home, so He Bi will ask for a divorce and not leave home.

Such a person is very scum, he wants to divorce, get out of the control of women, he can mess with women outside, and he can let himself have a place to live.

If you want to save this marriage, you are very responsible for the family, and you don't want to end it like this, for fear of causing psychological damage to the children.