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Nowadays, there are more and more divorces without leaving home, mainly due to the following reasons:
Clause. 1. Both husband and wife want to give their children a complete home, love face, worry about their parents' worries, and worry about colleagues gossiping.
Many families do not choose to leave home because of their children, but the relationship between the two people cannot continue to be maintained, and they have no expectations and extravagances for each other, so they choose to divorce secretly. But for the sake of the healthy growth of the children, in order for the parents of both parties not to be sad, they chose to divorce but did not leave home, on the surface, the two people are still living together, but their hearts are no longer together. Coupled with the pressure of work now, colleagues talk behind their backs, in order not to affect face and income, many couples will choose not to leave home, on the surface it is still a couple, but in fact there is no way to be together.
Clause. Second, the housing price is too high, it is difficult to buy a house again, or there is a difference in property distribution, and you need to live under the same roof.
The cost of marriage is high nowadays, and the cost of divorce is also high. If there is a disagreement between the parties on the division of property, especially the division of real estate, and there is only one house, even if there is a divorce, one party may not have a place to live. In addition, the housing prices in the city are high and the cost of renting is high, so it is not necessarily realistic to sell the house to divide the property even if you are divorced.
Therefore, many couples will choose to divorce and not leave home, and will live together when they have not found the next suitable partner for the time being.
Clause. 3. One or both parties still have some feelings for each other, but they are just waiting for the other party to bow their heads, and there is a possibility of reuniting.
Divorce is sometimes a spur of the moment, and after a long time together, you have become accustomed to living with each other. Two people get along every day, even if they have a lot of opinions about each other, but if they really want to leave life, they will not get used to it. In fact, there is still a relationship foundation, but divorce may hope that the other party can cherish this relationship, hope that the other party can regret what they did wrong, and hope to be together.
Therefore, getting along in an environment where divorce does not leave home, two people can still live in the same environment, which provides some help for future reunion. When there is no new partner, divorce without leaving home also meets the physiological needs, which is more affordable and familiar than finding someone else to solve.
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Young people are under increasing pressure at work, it is difficult to buy a house outside, although the husband and wife are divorced, but they still need to raise their children together, it is inconvenient to separate, another reason is that after the divorce, two people still love each other, and they still need each other by their side.
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Because of psychological factors, social factors, and family factors, there are more and more divorces that do not leave home, because of the fetters of having children.
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Financial pressure, busy work, etc. The financial pressure is high, and after the divorce, one of the couples cannot afford to buy a house, so they can only live together temporarily; Work is busy, and one party can't take time out to take care of the children after the divorce, so they will live together to take care of the children.
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It may be because the child, or two people have an emotional foundation, or they may want to adjust the emotional state of both parties, or they are insecure, or they may want to redeem each other, so this situation will occur.
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Why do people who divorce and don't leave home? Can this state really last? Many people have the impression that if a couple divorces, then he will go to their respective residences, and then the two have nothing to do with each other.
But in real life, there are actually many divorced couples, and these people are getting marriage certificates.
Since then, I have been living together in Huiye. The couple has divorced and continues to live together, which is incomprehensible to most people and confusing to many people.
1. Many people leave their homes.
of couples, probably for their children.
Many couples conceive children after marriage, but the relationship between husband and wife does not exist to end the marriage, and the children never fade. Therefore, many divorced couples, in order to be able to have two children, in order to give their children a complete home, in order to let their children grow up in a good family atmosphere. After the divorce, such couples will also choose to live under the same roof and raise children together.
If the child is older, it may also be that it will affect the child's college entrance examination, and some may have to wait until the child takes the college entrance examination before deciding to move out.
Second, many couples who leave the house may still have feelings for each other.
Many couples end their marriages not because they have no affection for each other, but perhaps because of some other reason that makes them divorced. There are still many couples who only impulsively divorce, in fact, they are not ready to divorce in the first place. As a result, many couples have an intimate relationship even after they are divorced.
So after the divorce, this kind of couple with this affectionate friendship will live with them.
3. Married life of a man and a woman.
It is complicated to leak good shouting in itself.
In fact, married life and emotions are all relatively complicated, and we cannot look at such complex feelings from a one-sided perspective. No matter what kind of certainty is made for people who are in married life, or people who have long since divorced from the stockings, it is their life choice.
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People who are divorced and do not leave home may be because they have children in the family, or they take care of the face of the elderly, and do not want to hurt the people they care about because of the breakdown of the marriage; There is no way to maintain such a state for a long time, and good Wu Wang will always be discovered by the people around him, and the orange change will also make the relationship between the two people worse and worse.
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Because Shen Lao imitates Kuanxian, these people feel that they have no way to live after leaving home, so there will be such a situation with silver; I don't think this situation can last, since two people are divorced and have no relationship, there is no way for such a relationship to last.
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If you can't leave home because of your children or financial reasons, this situation will not last, and once you get annoyed one day, you will be completely separated.
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It is nothing more than that the other party has no place to live, so he can only live temporarily at home, and there is also a bureau shirt that may be co-raising children; It can also be sustained, and people who have Ming tomato are also because of economic conditions, and they want to give each other a chance and want to give their children a home.
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It is caused by the child, and the child may have a lot of pressure on the divorce of his parents, affecting his study and life, so the parents choose to divorce and not leave home, and give the child father's love and mother's love.
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It is because people nowadays are afraid that divorce will affect the two families and the normal life of their children, so they will divorce and not leave home.
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There are more and more reasons for the phenomenon of divorce without leaving home. This is because many families nowadays are mostly only children.
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Because of the lack of economic strength, there is no way to live separately, and I am not willing to continue to maintain the marriage, so this is the only way.
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In fact, the main reason is that the two people still have feelings, and they don't want this family to fall apart, so they still give each other another chance, and I hope that all such families can be regrouped together.
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The main reason is that because they have children and don't want their children to grow up in a single-parent family, they will divorce and never leave home.
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Because now some people will not maintain their married life, nor will they deal with trivial problems in life, and if two people do not get along after marriage, it will lead to divorce.
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I think the main reason is to be able to give the child a complete family or there is affection between two people, so I live in this way.
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Nowadays, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, but many people are still living together after divorce.
In the name of the people in the TV series, Gao Yuliang and his wife are divorced, and the two of them still live under the same roof for so many years, and they still take care of each other, pretending to love each other, when the truth is revealed in the TV series, I am still quite emotional, why would they do this? It's nothing more than profit.
In the past, people were divorced, and they basically had to fight, but now they can be divorced and have no feelings, so they will leave, but for the sake of interests, they can also pretend to be together lovingly, speaking of which, it is also quite powerful.
Therefore, many people divorce and do not leave home, and the reason why they are ranked first is because of interests, because the two parties still have to use each other's relationship, and both parties may have to maintain a marriage for the outside world to see.
The second biggest reason may be because of children. In the process of children's growth, the love of father and mother is indispensable, and the husband and wife choose to divorce without love, but for the sake of the children, they choose not to leave home, and wait for the children to grow up, and then deal with it. Many children accidentally find out that their parents have divorced in the process of growing up, and this child is quite a big blow.
The third reason is to reduce the cost of living and be able to stay warm, that is, to find a food partner for life. They are no longer husband and wife, but more like roommates, living together, eating together, living together, and being able to take care of each other. This situation is quite contradictory.
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All human behavioral choices are to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and the essence of divorce without leaving home is the same. The consideration of couples is nothing more than the minimization of the impact or damage caused to their reputation, assets, children, etc.
The first is to minimize the impact on one's reputation and assets. In the minds of the older generation in China, divorce is a very shameful thing for the family. For the poor, divorce can lead to a family that will not be able to hold their heads up for the rest of their lives.
For the wealthy, divorce can lead to a decline in their reputation and the cutting of their assets. Therefore, even if you are divorced, you should not let the outside world know, but show the illusion of getting along with each other to minimize the losses caused by the divorce to both parties.
The second is to minimize harm to the child. Many parents use the banner that I am for the good of their children, and they want to live together after divorce, and try to create a better living environment for their children to avoid the harm caused by divorce to their children. But in fact, in the end, the damage caused to the child is often greater, because love cannot be faked.
The third possibility is a shift in social attitudesFor some open-minded people, it really doesn't matter to them that they can't leave home. If you are divorced, you can still live your own life under one roof, as long as it does not affect them to live their own life. The house was just a physical place for them to live.
In the end, it is a decision made by both husband and wife to minimize their losses after considering many factors.
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Why more and more women choose to divorce and not leave home I see, I understand it all!
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