When you become strong and excellent, will someone love you?

Definitely. Financial independence, have your own colorful life to become confident, as the so-called want others to love you, you have to love yourself first.

If one day you become stronger and better, then there will definitely be more people around you to please you, and want to change themselves through you, which means that you are also very useful, so there will be people who love themselves.

I think so. Only if you are good enough can you attract the attention of others and make others love you more.

I would like to say that any excellence is not "forced" out, but should be the result of voluntary efforts after frankly believing that oneself has comprehended some social realities.

There are people in this world who are indebted, and they love to say that you can't do it or that you can't ......So in order to gag them and make them fall short, we have to win the game or the competition and win it once for them to see.

As you get older, there will be some kind of quiet change in the way you love yourself, or increase your self-confidence, or reduce your friends who drink and drink, or expand your hobbies, or reduce your meals and connections. When I was young, I often regarded beggars as "connections", and I thought that I was trying to help the poor, but then we really understood that those people were not poor, and they might be richer than us.

"Pretending to be poor" used to be a phenomenon that could be seen everywhere in China for a period of time, especially in the 90s, when many people on the train pretended to be disabled and crawled with their legs, and then made money with it, regardless of their conscience. There are also stations that start singing at one end of the carriage, and collect money one by one after singing, as if they are particularly "justifiable" and should be divided. I went through that era, so I don't think it's a glorious love for yourself, and you should do some good work to make money, even if you collect rags, isn't it better than blackmailing others like this?

Gradually, everyone got used to it, and they didn't give alms casually. Just like the later "touching porcelain", who doesn't know to hide away? If you get it, you can't afford it!

Love yourself and have a different understanding. When I was young, I liked to buy cards, but the clothes and shoes that I didn't wear once were brought home and worn by my uncles and brothers. Last year, meat was expensive, and I didn't buy meat to eat when I came back from my hometown, but my weight has dropped to 78 kg (85 before), and I began to like vegetarian dishes, and I began to cook with less salt and seasonings, which is also a positive change for me.

Love yourself, buy books are never bad money, clothes and shoes are enough to wear, not famous brands and don't want to catch up with fashion, now money is hard to earn, personal pension is a problem, what is the tide and flow?

Organize your time and try to feel that at the end of the day, you will receive this letter, you will have a conversation, you must have a conversation with yourself, and you must have something to do. If you don't finish it, don't eat or sleep, that's how I ask myself, complete all the goals set by the exam questions, and don't understand it until I finish it. It's right to force yourself at this time, otherwise you will be more and more lazy in the future, and you will be in trouble.

Loving ourselves can also help us to love others better in the future, take care of our parents, take care of our lovers and children, we must start from loving ourselves. Love is not an empty word, but should be done after saying love, which is a manifestation of love.

If you are excellent, the people who love you will actually improve, because they are afraid that they are not worthy of you. A person who truly loves you, they will not stop moving forward, but follow your footsteps to progress. This kind of love is evenly matched, tell me that if only one person works hard and only one person improves, then this relationship will break down sooner or later.

I used to think that falling in love is as long as both parties are happy, but I have never considered some practical issues, such as each other's work, house, car and other issues, before everything was considered, we hurriedly entered the palace of marriage, and after getting married, we will find that there is an obvious gap between our real married life and imaginary married life. Therefore, we must not be perfunctory in the face of feelings, nor too emotional, but learn to be rational. Whether it is a boy or a girl, you must continue to improve yourself in life and make yourself better, only in this way can you meet more excellent people.

A person who really loves you, he will continue to improve himself after you become excellent, he wants to become a person who can be worthy of you, wants to become a person recognized by parents, if you are the only one who works hard, you pay alone, only you are promoted, this boy just does not love you, he has never felt that he is not worthy of you, if you think that a person like you is just right for him, this kind of person is the kind of person who is very ordinary, but very confident. To be with such a person is actually to be sorry for yourself. <>

Boys actually want to give women the best love, he can make the woman's life better through his own efforts, for boys this is actually a kind of happiness, for girls they actually want to create a better living environment for boys, want to create a better family environment for each other, so they will continue to work hard, only two people can work together to create a very warm and very happy family. So I hope everyone starts working hard to make themselves better now.

This is true, because in a good relationship, two people pay attention to mutual achievement and encouragement, so once you become excellent, the person who loves you will naturally improve accordingly.

This sentence is very true, because like gathers like, if you yourself are particularly good, then the people you come into contact with are also relatively good, if the other party likes you, they are very good to you.

It's true, if you're particularly good, the other party will improve and make yourself better in order to be worthy of you.

If you insist on these three points, you will definitely get better and better: first, keep learning, use fragmented time, constantly enrich yourself, improve yourself, second, keep taking action, have good ideas, act immediately, learn to grow through trial and error, and third, keep exercising, because without a healthy body, you can't do anything except wait.

To make yourself strong, you have to let go of ten things.

Insist on studying, exercising, and exercising.

Because everyone has different thinking, different ways, and different understandings of accepting new things, of course, the conclusions drawn are also different, and it is impossible to be the same. Not wanting to accept new movies, new TV series, etc., or not willing to accept it, is purely a matter of personal orientation, and there is nothing wrong with it. However, I personally think that always rejecting or shielding new things will bring more or less trouble in the future study, work, and life, and there will be fewer and fewer friends, and the road will become narrower and narrower.

Therefore, give yourself some time to change slowly, make your personality more cheerful, you can try to open your heart, face it bravely, accept it bravely, and you will definitely gain something. Come on!

Sauvignon Blanc, Heart-Destroying Liver (Li Bai).

Si Youpu tells you to do this, so that you can think better and better.

1. Your excellence will make some people shy away from you.

Many people take it for granted that when a person is good and strong enough, there must be no shortage of admirers and suitors around him, but in fact this is not the case, or in fact it is the opposite. When a person is particularly good, not only will he not have too many suitors around him, but he will also become more lonely because he is too good, making many suitors around him shy away from him. This is because a person who is too good will always make people who are not as good as him have a sense of inferiority complex, and a sense of distance, so that they feel that two people are not equal people in the same world, so they dare not pursue her anymore, and naturally no one will dare to love you.

Second, being excellent and strong will not let you get out of singleness, but will only make you no longer crave love so much.

For many people who may not be so good and not so strong in their hearts, their eyes will always be full of some worldly atmosphere, and they have not yet reached an otherworldly or lofty realm, so in their eyes, love may be a necessity, love is a thing they especially want to get but have not been able to get, and this matter makes him very painful. But in the eyes of a very good and powerful person, love is only a small part of life, or even just the spice of life, a luxury of life, not a necessity. His excellence and strength do not directly bring him love, but through his continuous practice, his views on love have become indifferent, and the matter of not having an object has become less important.

Therefore, even though you become strong, being excellent does not necessarily mean that people will love you.

Conclusion: Although the above two aspects show that when a person becomes strong and good enough, there is not necessarily someone to love him, but one thing we can be sure of is that if a person is not good and strong, then no one will like him, and no one will love him. Therefore, we still need to continue to cultivate ourselves, make ourselves stronger and better, and be an excellent and powerful person, not for love, but for ourselves. In this way, even if no one else dares to love us in the end, we know how to love ourselves.

Yes, men like women who are independent and have ego, they don't like women who revolve around him every day and ask him for money every day, so only when you become strong will the other party respect you.

After the change, someone will love you, because such a change will make a person very confident, and it will naturally attract the pursuit of the opposite sex.

Sure, in this world, there is no one who doesn't like strong, excellent people, and the truth of this world is always that the strong are supreme.

If you insist on these three points, you will definitely get better and better: first, keep learning, use fragmented time, constantly enrich yourself, improve yourself, second, keep taking action, have good ideas, act immediately, learn to grow through trial and error, and third, keep exercising, because without a healthy body, you can't do anything except wait.

Excellent and strong, I'll tell you separately, excellent, nothing more than learning excellent, excellent morality, strong, it can be said that you are not bullied by others, nor do you bully others, this involves the handling of interpersonal relationships, this is very complicated, slowly realize, grades, work hard, do not move and ask more, grades can go up. Build yourself into a good and beautiful person to match a high-quality relationship. It is often said that jealousy regresses and makes people become.

It's about being better, better, and stronger than you were yesterday. I have a college classmate next to me, Huahua, and she was the same kind in college.