Do people who quarrel badly have to be very good in life and work?

Updated on educate 2024-08-10
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    People who quarrel a lot are not necessarily very powerful in life and work, because although these people are sharp-tongued, they are not necessarily very capable of doing things, because these people only know how to speak with their tongues.

    Because in my opinion, life and work actually need a positive attitude, and an optimistic spirit to face, so that it can produce good results, but people who quarrel badly, I think in addition to the power of the tongue, the most important point is that her eloquence is good, but it is not necessarily that he is in life and work, and he is really as powerful as he said, because the person who said it may not necessarily do it. People who do not necessarily say that they can speak well may not be able to express everything they can say in their work.

    So I personally think that the people who are really powerful in work and life must be those who are optimistic, full of positive energy, and know how to put themselves in the shoes of others, rather than those who only know how to show their quarrels through their own eloquence and the power of their tongues. After all, many times for this kind of person, she dares to quarrel with others, which means that there will be more or less flaws in moral character, so it is not a real manifestation of arguing badly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Thank you for the invitation, why are there always quarrels between colleagues, this round burning ruler is not absolute, but relative. Not everyone, only a quarrel can solve the problem, and other peaceful ways of communication can also achieve the goal.

    There are so many living beings in this world that there cannot be a world where only one person exists. It is normal for people to have more ideas, and it is normal for them to have different opinions, which is in line with the laws of human survival in nature. It is impossible to make everyone else subordinate to one person, to be centered on one person, to shift with the will of this center.

    This can never be done, nor is it in keeping with the laws of human development.

    Living in this world, people must correct their own thoughts and find their own place. Be strict with yourself in everything, stand in the perspective of your own interests, and empathize. Be open-minded, not impatient, impartial, and have the ability to form a buffer area in the face of contradictions.

    Always think more about others, and don't get confused about small things. For problems that you can't bear and can't figure out ideologically, you must learn to think backwards, learn to let go, don't drill the horns, people are right-minded, and troubles will not provoke you.

    Getting along with colleagues, as long as it is not a matter of principle, it doesn't matter if you look at it a little bit or a little bit down. As the saying goes, it is not a loss to make people three, and it is a villain to be careful. Don't compare the merits of a trivial matter because of disagreement, fight with each other, and engage in filial piety to the death, how boring it is.

    Torture yourself innocently with the villain's crimes, this is self and self-inflicted, and he has become a villain. Always remember that to forgive others is to be kind to yourself, and to respect others is to defend your own dignity. Living all your life, tolerating each other, understanding each other, and being kind to yourself is the most important thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    People who quarrel a lot are generally people who react quickly, think flexibly, have strong language skills, and are also very eloquent. But this kind of person is not necessarily very good in life and work.

    To be honest, sometimes when I need to argue and be bullied and need to reason with others, I always feel that I can't react fast enough, and I am particularly aggrieved. I will always think about it carefully after the incident, and then regret that I shouldn't have said that in the first place, how I should have scolded them, I will hate myself for not quarreling, and envy those who can quarrel.

    Actually, it's only an occasional envy, but I don't like people who like to quarrel and are good at arguing. I have a classmate who is like this, I think she quarreled so much because she quarreled so much. She gives me the impression that she is the kind of person who is particularly sharp, calculating, and difficult to reach.

    Her interpersonal relationships are not very good, and she has had head-on conflicts with many of her classmates. So I don't think this kind of person is suitable for getting along with people, let alone any outstanding achievements in life and work.

    Of course, it is not excluded that some people who quarrel very well are also very good in life and work. It is because such people tend to advocate justice, act competently, and respond sensitively. They quarrel not because they are calculating, but just a means of upholding justice or protecting themselves from harm.

    Naturally responsive and eloquent. Therefore, this kind of person is often outspoken, but not rejected. They will also maintain their original ability and sharpness in their daily life and work, so they may also be very powerful in life and work.

    Nothing is absolute, just like people who quarrel are not necessarily very powerful in life and work, and in the same way, many people who don't quarrel and are more gentle and lovely may not be terrible in life and work.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Although modern society advocates civility and allows everyone to communicate with others as civilly as possible, quarrels will often occur around us. In fact, I think that people who quarrel a lot are not necessarily very good in life and work, maybe they become very cowardly when they encounter some things? What he shows people when they quarrel is that they are more flexible in this regard.

    According to the person next to me, I think that the quarrel is very strong, which only shows that at that time she had a more flexible brain and was able to export dirty, and forget about the rest. After all, we still have to be civilized people, don't swear in ordinary life, coexist peacefully with others, and don't always quarrel to solve problems. To change the bad habit of quarrelling, after all, in life we should strengthen other aspects and not develop rapidly in bad aspects.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Not necessarily, people who quarrel a lot are stronger and more impatient, and it is easy to offend others at work, and the relationship with colleagues will not be very harmonious. And the impatient personality is also prone to frizziness at work, so the work will also be poor.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not necessarily, a bad quarrel may be due to unreasonableness, but it doesn't work in work and life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My classmate's mother was the one who had a lot of quarrels, but she was always lazy at work and changed jobs a lot.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Sometimes quarreling is also a kind of mediation, if two people are together and never quarrel, it is too dull, and the relationship will become weaker. Both people care about each other, so there will be friction and quarrels. But don't quarrel too often, otherwise, no matter how good the relationship is, it will be broken due to quarrels!

    Because you have not yet learned true love. Tolerance. Maybe you can't accept some of each other's things at first.

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