Is it that if you confess that you are rejected, you won t even be able to be friends? 20

Why did you tell her to give up so quickly?

The first time I confessed to her it may be that she was not mentally prepared!

If you confess to her, she will immediately promise you, will it make people feel that she is very casual, and there is still a chance!

Saying that her mother didn't let that was just an excuse, do you really want to tell her that her mother can't do it, even if it is discovered by her parents, her mother won't do anything to her, (because I have experienced it, and it happened to be the high school entrance examination at that time) The most I can do is to tell her that she is still young, study well, and talk about this kind of thing later, and the parents will calm down and say it.

Be patient and give her a little time.

Everything will be fine.

No, you can be friends.

But it's going to be a little awkward anyway.

I could have hugged and kissed, but after becoming friends, I couldn't.

It just feels weird.

You're white-toothed. Nonsense.

There will always be a little bit of a hurdle in my heart.

Unless both are more open-minded.

Otherwise, this situation is quite normal.

Let's just say you don't know her.

If you feel that the other party is worth dating and can bring you growth, you should not give up easily, you can still continue to be friends, if the other party makes you miserable and makes it difficult for you to sleep, then you can consider giving up contact.

When we confess to our beloved with great anticipation, there are generally only two ends, if we succeed, we will become a sweet lover, and if we fail, we will become the most familiar stranger. But many also believe that confession is a clarion call for victory, not a gamble. It does make sense, only when you know enough about yourself and the other party, or when both parties are silently maintaining this ambiguous relationship, the confession can be successful!

But the reality is that there are many people who have a crush on each other without the other party's knowledge, and they are afraid that they will lose each other, so they will always take a certain risk to try to confess in the old age. Needless to say, the odds of such a confession winning are almost small. Not only will you not get the approval of the other party, but you will also lose a precious friendship because of this.

After the confession fails, it is difficult to take the initiative to contact the other party, first, you will feel that you are interfering with the other party's life, and second, you will feel that you are licking a dog, which is undignified. There is nothing wrong with this feeling, but what we have to be clear about is that it is a question of whether we can be friends after a failed confession, not whether we can be friends after a breakup! The two are not the same, and it is easier to continue each other's friendship than to confess defeat than to break up.

Don't let this friendship come to an end because of your wrong feelings of lack of dignity or so on. Before the confession, the two sides have endless topics, but after the confession fails, there will be an inexplicable estrangement between the two parties, and the key to whether you can continue to be friends is to see how you deal with this estrangement.

In my opinion, I think a friendship worth cherishing is more important than the so-called face, a person worthy of your confession will definitely have something for you to appreciate, such a stupid friend should not be easily given up. We should be rational about love and friendship, love and friendship are separated, and no love does not mean that there can be no friendship. Life is short, it is rare to meet a lover, having a friend is an important network resource, so I advise all friends who confess failure, love is gone, friendship must be firmly controlled.