After a boy is hurt, will he become indifferent to love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-28
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    That's right, because boys can't stand the blow!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone's reaction to experiencing an emotional hurt is different and cannot be summed up as absolute 100%. After an injury, a guy may be somewhat wary of the next relationship, as he may be worried about getting hurt again or having difficulty trusting others. He may need more time to heal and regain his confidence.

    However, there are also guys who are able to reopen themselves after an injury and devote themselves wholeheartedly to their next relationship. It depends on the individual's state of mind, past experiences, and the level of trust in the new relationship. Some people may learn from their injuries and grow to face new feelings with a more mature and rational attitude.

    It is important to give yourself and the other person enough time and space to build a healthy foundation of communication and mutual understanding. At the same time, respect the individual's feelings and needs, and don't force or urge a person to make emotional decisions. Everyone approaches feelings in their own way and with the time they lack and re-engages them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because the boy doesn't want to take the initiative, it will make him feel guilty, and the cold violence can be perfectly solved together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because doing so will give you a little face, so that there will be no showdown, and everyone will not be able to save face.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because he doesn't want to say that he doesn't love anymore, and he doesn't want to admit that it's his fault, he can only be cold and violent.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because he was embarrassed to say it, he used such cold violence to make the other party say that he broke up, so that he would have a lot of face.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Boys generally avoid problems when they encounter them, and their way of thinking determines them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think it's like to end a relationship with cold violence after a boy has no love. This is determined by the character of the person. Some men just like to escape from reality. So, it's seen as cold violence.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Many people like to end their relationship with cold violence, and they feel that this can make the girl retreat.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let you retreat, he doesn't take the initiative to break up because he doesn't want you to say that he is a scumbag.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because I want to save face, I want the other party to bring it up first.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A vigorous love, since there is no love, you should choose to break up rationally and decisively, rather than choose to treat it with cold violence.

    In fact, some boys choose to do this coldly and violently, just to show their sense of existence in this wordless ending and finally maintain their poor male self-esteem.

    Generous letting go and breaking up peacefully can be let go, which is also a manifestation of male dignity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is undoubtedly a hurt for lovers who are not so emotional. What kind of cold violence girls will use in love, does it have anything to do with the girl's own sense of security?

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