How to be friends with someone whose confession has been rejected?

Be generous, treat him as a buddy first, so that he can chat with you and like to talk to you, and then after getting acquainted, gradually show your woman's side in front of him, as well as your unique personality, attract him!

1.Find your common thread. Learn more about this and make him feel that you have a topic and that you are an expert in it.

2.The charm of language. You become more generous and cheerful, first of all you have to be able not to be embarrassed! Be humorous, generously say "I appreciate you so much, it's your blessing to be friends with me" and then be chic.

3.Hot and cold attack. No matter who hears others confess to themselves, no matter who hears others, there will be some joy and darkness. So he must be paying attention to you too, so after treating him for a while, he suddenly makes him cold, maybe he won't be able to leave you!

4. Enrich yourself, make yourself busy, have goals, have courage, let yourself live happily, don't love someone to the point of no soul. Let yourself be excellent in your field and circle, so that he can see it.

5. Good luck!

No matter how uncomfortable you feel in your heart Don't show it in front of him It's still the same as before If you really want to be together Continue to be nice to him Do your best to be good to him One day you will move him Even if you can't be moved He will have you in his heart If you don't want to be together Then ignore him He has nothing to do with you After a long time, you will slowly forget If you want to be an ordinary friend, treat him as a friend.

But I think that when he takes the initiative to talk to you, he should have you in his heart, and there may be some external factors, or the time is not right, and they can't be together.

Be patient, I've been waiting for someone I like for 3 years, and then we're finally together.

First of all, be clear about who he is, if he is the kind of casual person who likes to be ambiguous.

Maybe he's bored.

But if it's neither, he'll naturally be with you.

It's normal, you're thinking too much.

Hello, I think it's okay to be friends if you are rejected after confessing. After all, I liked it so much before, and then suddenly became a stranger, it must be uncomfortable for both of them. If I was a friend before, I would suggest getting over it in a joking way.

The most important thing is to be honest with each other, but also to understand each other. So I think it's okay. And everyone knows each other so well and knows each other's preferences, and then it's a pity that there is one less friend like this.

I've heard a saying before that there is no pure friendship between people of the opposite sex. But maybe it's just that sometimes I can't give the other person such a feeling! So I don't think I should worry too much about it in the future.

But after the breakup, you shouldn't be able to be friends. You think that if you are the one who rejects him, you can also take the initiative and tell him that it is okay.

It is difficult to be friends after refusing to confess, and most people will feel that when they are rejected, they are denied by the other party.

I once rejected the confession of a boy who was the brother of my good friend's boyfriend, and we usually played together. I never expected the other party to confess to me, so when he confessed to me, I was very surprised, because I never thought that he would have such feelings for me, and I would wonder if I had done something to make him misunderstood.

After rejecting his confession, everyone will feel very embarrassed, so we never play together again, only occasionally meet on occasions with some mutual friends, and we will also feel very embarrassed. Of course, it may be because both of us were relatively young at the time, so we were not particularly mature when dealing with this matter, but I think it should be more ambiguous to still be friends after refusing to confess!

So most people will arrange the relationship after refusing to confess, clearly and clearly, and will never put each other in the position of friends, if we are still friends in the future, I think many people are polite words, if you really really like this person, it is difficult to get along with her as an ordinary friend.

In fact, after refusing to confess to friends of the opposite sex, if you really like it very much, it is not suitable to be friends. Because if the other party really likes him very, very much, and has rejected him to be friends, in fact, there is no refusal in disguise, and the best way to refuse is to never contact again, which is responsible for the other party and for himself, otherwise it will waste his time, waste his feelings, and he will also have a bad reputation, just like the words used on the Internet, such as Aquaman or some unpleasant words, so it's better not to do this.

If you have loved you very much, it will be difficult to be friends again, because that heart is very difficult to change. In fact, a person falling in love with a person is one-sided, only when the other party is also in love with themselves, can both parties be together, and then pay for the feelings, and then together, if the other party does not have that love for themselves, there will be no love, that is to say, it is very inappropriate to be together when friends meet or contact every day, because it is impossible to love a person who does not love it, and it is possible to love more and more, so it is still necessary to avoid it appropriately.

Personally, I don't think it's okay, because many people are silently loving someone as friends. So if you continue to be friends with him, it will only make his liking for you perpetuate, which is not good for him. Of course, this is just my own opinion.

But if you really want to be good for him, you should separate, calm down for a while, and then consider whether to be friends, maybe then you will have the answer.

No, you can continue to be friends when you don't confess, refuse his confession, but still want to be friends with him, it shouldn't be, emotional things, let him down, and want to be friends with him, your feelings for him will not change, he may not be able to control his feelings.

When you know what he thinks, don't you feel awkward, don't you feel embarrassed? In the future, some of his actions are likely to be over-interpreted by you.,It's quite difficult for friends to get along.。。。 Anyway, it's the kind of gentleman's friendship that is as light as water, anyway, I don't think it can go back to the past.

No, because there will be a gap in your heart after confession, even if you don't feel anything in your own heart, the person who is confessed will feel embarrassed, and if the friends around you also know, they will make some jokes, the scene is too embarrassing, so if you want to confess or think clearly, or first observe whether he has a good impression of you, you can also let his friends test it.

In fact, from your expression, especially the sentence "don't consider other factors", it can be seen that you yourself are hesitant and you really want to be friends with him.

In fact, from my point of view, you can continue to be friends, and you can even treat him like a relative or a brother, because he is a very good friend, although he can't be a lover, but he can be a friend like a relative.

I have such a friend, and there is nothing embarrassing about being friends again, as long as I don't deliberately avoid chatting, I will still chat with him during holidays or when I want to chat.

After refusing, you should also become a good friend, I think this is a normal interpersonal relationship, two people do not have to be married, becoming friends is also a very good choice, I hope everyone can understand this truth, work hard.

If you turn the other person down, then the chances of still wanting to be friends are slim. Because it will feel awkward after meeting you for the first time; Second, if you care occasionally, it will make him misunderstand you and have him, and will make him continue to pursue you. It's not good for him.

Whether you can continue to be friends is up to him, you reject the other party's confession and then be a friend will not have any psychological fluctuations, at this time it depends on whether he can still be friends with you.

As a girl, let it be, the key is to see if he can get out of the shadows! If he takes the initiative to re-contact, he may be delusional!

After refusing to confess, it is actually difficult to give me friends again, because it hurts the feelings of the other party, so I should keep a certain distance. Don't hurt him even if you're not together.

There is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, they all have their own little Jiujiu, so if the confession fails, you can be blacked, and it is best not to meet, which can easily affect your mood.

If you both want to, then of course you can.

You can be a normal friend, but you won't get along as well as you used to.

Yes, just get along in a different way

It's a little embarrassing, just let it be!

When you decide to confess to the girl or boy you like, you may be rejected by others, but at this time, you don't think that this is the case between you, in fact, you can start slowly from friends, but what should you do after the confession fails? Let's take a look at how to be friends after a failed confession and chat skills after a failed confession.

1. How to be a friend after a failed confession.

1. Don't be embarrassed after failure.

If you still want to continue to be friends, don't feel embarrassed after being rejected, even if you are embarrassed, you have to pretend to have a very natural expression, the more pure and natural you are, the more the other party can continue to treat you as a friend.

2. Don't contact them right away

After a failed confession, you will go through a period of awkwardness, so instead of talking awkwardly, it is better not to talk at this time and give each other a little time to calm down. After a while, you can comment on TA's circle of friends and chat with TA as friends naturally.

3. Constantly improve yourself.

Don't be sluggish after being rejected, and actively improve yourself! When you become a better version of yourself, they will feel that you are a very motivated person and may change their opinion of you. Even if you can't impress their hearts, it's a good thing that you can attract the attention of excellent people if you are excellent.

4. Don't overdo it.

There must be some mutual friends between you, so don't go around complaining to people after your confession is rejected. It's normal for the other party to reject you, don't say bad things about the other party, and don't post your very depressed mood on various social platforms, otherwise, if the other party knows, your relationship will be difficult to end.

5. Keep your feelings in your heart.

Maybe you're not dead yet, but you know that the other party can't accept you. Then hide this feeling in your heart, because you have already confessed, and confessing again will only drive the other party away.

2. Chat skills after confession failure.

1.Joke.

After many people fail to confess, they will have no contact with each other, or even no longer contact with each other, but some people will continue to chat with each other and continue to be friends through some very clever ways after they fail to confess.

2.Divert attention.

If the other party doesn't accept himself, he is also very sad. No matter how sad it is, whether it is work or life, you need to continue, so you can divert your attention, and you can devote yourself to some movies or TV series, or even some of your own work and study, these ways are ways to temporarily forget the boredom after the refusal of the table to do the inspection.

In fact, if the boy fails to confess, don't be discouraged, think from your own point of view, why the other party doesn't accept you, and what you are doing is wrong, if the other girl doesn't feel anything about herself, the boy can feel it himself.

It's the same as if it didn't happen, forget the past, and don't dwell on yourself.

1. Bring yourself out of your sadness.

Confession failure is not the same as the degree of pain of falling out of love, confession failure is when two people have not started a relationship and have no common memories and feelings. It's just that the small fire that has just ignited in my heart has been extinguished. If the other person points out their shortcomings, try to correct them.

If it's just inappropriate, then don't be overly sad, maybe they have a heart.

2. Smile indifferently.

Confession rejection, whether it is a lot of onlookers or just the two of you, is a very embarrassing thing. But no matter what, your "confession" continues, doesn't it? You can't do anything from beginning to end.

If the other party rejects you, you don't get annoyed and ashamed, let alone show sadness, because you will feel uncomfortable when you think about it.

It's better to smile at the other party and make a very mysterious smile, and then when the other party is a little confused, you can turn away, or you can keep the original relationship with the other party and talk like that, in short, let the other party feel that your confession just now is like a dream.

3. Tell the other party that it's okay.

The confession was rejected, both parties were embarrassed, and the two people who had a good relationship suddenly became speechless, at this time you have to ease the atmosphere and not make it difficult for the other party, there must be a reason why the other party has rejected himself now.

It may be that you still don't love it, or you are not good enough, or because you don't like your own temperament, so you have to be considerate, tell him that it doesn't matter, ease the relationship between the two, let the other party continue to maintain the original relationship with you, and work hard for the future.

4. Don't feel humble.

I may feel very shameless after being rejected, and I am afraid that my friends around me will laugh at me. In fact, how good you are, or how bad you are, is not up to others, even boyfriend and girlfriend, how you think of yourself is the most important, if you don't accept me to prove that we are really not suitable, then there must be a suitable fate waiting for you, don't feel very humble.

5. Understand yourself in his eyes.

You can ask him to talk about what he thinks of Clan and Ji in his eyes, and see if there are any shortcomings and temperaments that he doesn't like, so that we can change ourselves in a targeted manner.

For example, if he doesn't like the other party to play games, then you can change it, quit the game for the person you love, for example, if he doesn't like a man's small temperament, then change his own small temperament, so that he will slowly become a good man in his eyes, and the probability of success in confessing again in the future will be higher.

6. Don't take the initiative to contact in the short term.

At least in the next 2 months, I won't take the initiative to contact her, don't text her, don't **, don't talk about QQ.?Unless she takes the initiative to find you online, resolutely ignore it. Even if she takes the initiative to find you, every chat and conversation, you must, remember that it must be the canopy that you take the initiative to find an excuse to leave, tell her that you are busy, have something, and talk later.