Should you accept a relationship for the sake of marriage?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I can't meet what you like because you have a misunderstanding in your thinking...

    Look at yourself and what you have (and not just material), look at what you have, and then compare what you want ... If you're just an ordinary young man in the crowd, but your goal is the daughter of the British Crown Prince, that's obviously not practical...

    After facing yourself, look back at your own needs, what is your her? What temperament? The so-called feeling of liking, if you dig into the roots, you will definitely be able to summarize a general outline. You just look for this silhouette to find it...

    Finally, I would like to give you a piece of advice, love at first sight is usually not long-lasting... I think the next time you meet the girl in your heart with 60 points, just dating, maybe after a long time, you will add points, and then you will call.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Feelings are to be cultivated in everyday life.

    Rather than saying it once you see it"Nope"

    It's because of your rejection. The love of a lifetime that you will miss.

    The kind of love at first sight you want. Very few.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is based on good feelings, feelings are sublimated into love, you can't meet the person you like because your life circle is too small, and now you should expand your social circle.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you think about it, you'll love it! Instead of being irresponsible, it is better to get back the heart that you can love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think they're completely emotionless, they don't have feelings. I won't keep going of it. They just had some cold spells in their marriage.

    Most couples have a stable relationship for a few years after marriage. Due to social pressures and the family's need for a high quality of life, both spouses are opposed to family pressures caused by some personal needs, or long-term absence from each other after marriage. Targets or deficiencies can also create gaps.

    It is necessary for both husband and wife to put aside their own interests and truly communicate with each other.

    Family members make plans for the family, which is the overall plan for the family. Both sides know that family structures must be separated from joint efforts. I believe that the difference between the two and their equal treatment will strengthen the sense of trust, and no matter what obstacles disappear, the marriage will become very happy.

    Everyone has their own unique way of getting along. Based on the same sentiments, they seek other changes in their lives. Please find a quiet place to drink tea and read a book.

    Sometimes we sit together in the park and bask in the afternoon sun, sometimes we drive on weekends.

    There are many ways to do this, but there's always one that works for you. Why are you working so hard for this family and each other. Please make some time together, not too long.

    During this time, we only have each other, enjoying momentary happiness together. In fact, all marriages are basically the same, love is always short-lived, and marriage is a small thing in life. Romantic love dilutes the long-term hope, the responsibilities and obligations of marriage, including understanding you and tolerating each other.

    Then the previous love is the cornerstone of marriage.

    Without love, does family marriage still exist? Marriage requires joint efforts, but you also need to maintain each other if one of you is far away. This kind of marriage is tantamount to hypocrisy, and managing the marriage with heart is the top priority in life.

    Don't divorce easily, it may also be a sense of responsibility to each other. Before getting married, both parties must have an emotional foundation and will not enter the palace of marriage. Each family has a different family environment, cultural education and different living habits.

    In the face of each other's strengths and weaknesses, we need to respect each other and their habits. Please take your time and take a normal journey through life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since marriage is a relationship, you will only get married when you reach a certain foundation, if there is a conflict after a person who loves each other gets married, it is also a communication problem.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, if marriage is to live together and be together, even if there are sometimes conflicts or quarrels, you will remind yourself of the original intention of marriage, as long as it is not a matter of principle, you will learn to tolerate each other and not divorce.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After getting married, of course, you will not divorce for the sake of your relationship. After getting married, the relationship should be more harmonious. If there is no harmony and divorce, it means that there is no feeling anymore.

    After getting married, in general. Nothing goes beyond the bottom line. There will be no divorce.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Many people will be like this, although there are contradictions between two people after marriage, but for the sake of feelings, they resolutely do not divorce, there are contradictions that can be overcome, and it is not necessary to divorce, as long as there are feelings, they can be together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course not. If the relationship between the two people is particularly bad after getting married, I will definitely choose to divorce at this time, because there is no point in going on.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It will not be because marriage is the grave of love, so it is very difficult to say that after getting married, it is very difficult to be emotional, so it is said that there is not only love, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt, so we must get along slowly, and it does not mean that we have to divorce without feelings.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If two people can get married, they must have feelings, and if they have feelings, they are reluctant to separate, and they will not divorce, they will only want to live happily together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In the future, I will definitely not divorce for the sake of feelings, after all, a relationship is really not easy, and it is really irresponsible to say that divorce is easy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that after getting married, two people should communicate diligently, and if there is a problem with the relationship, the two people will find their own shortcomings and correct them, so that the life will be more stable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think if I really get married, I will not divorce for the sake of feelings, I think because it is not easy for two people to walk together, I think that there should be a responsibility for something, and there should be some single amount.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't divorce for the sake of feelings, there is no relationship between two people, and I feel very sad to get divorced, and I will divorce decisively.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This situation mainly depends on the relationship and whether the other party makes you sad. Choosing a divorce against the basis of marriage.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course, after getting married, they will choose not to divorce for the sake of their feelings, and the relationship between two people is true love, how can they choose to divorce?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After getting married, will you not divorce for the sake of your relationship If you still have feelings for each other after marriage, you can continue to maintain them If you don't have feelings, you need to divorce.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think it is necessary to get married. Because marriage is not necessarily able to make people feel forgiving and strong, the ultimate direction of two people's relationship is not a cover that is constrained by a piece of paper. No one can control those who want to disperse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's better to get married, because only if 2 people get married, the 2 of you will be a little more secure, otherwise if something happens then, you will regret it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you have to get married, and if you don't get married, it's very irresponsible to the other person, and it will also make the other person hate you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Recently, a man posted a warm reminder in the marriage certificate he found, which attracted everyone's attention and also caused a discussion about Xiangzhi Guan. What is the meaning of a marriage certificate, for two people who have a good relationship, whether it is okay to have a marriage certificate, for these problems, a comprehensive analysis is required. Specifically, it includes three aspects: feelings alone cannot fundamentally maintain the marriage, the marriage certificate can provide legal protection for the marriage, and the relationship cannot replace the marriage certificate.

    1. If a marriage is only emotional, it is impossible to last for a long time.

    For lovers, the bond that binds them together is affection. When both parties have feelings, they can come together and fall in love with each other. ......However, for marriage, both parties need to bear the corresponding responsibilities, which makes the marriage must have corresponding norms to last for a long time, and a marriage with only feelings cannot last.

    2. A marriage certificate can provide legal protection for both parties to the marriage.

    In the case of marriage, both parties to the marriage need to bear the corresponding responsibilities and enjoy the corresponding rights. These factors cannot be maintained by emotions and must be protected within the corresponding rules. And the marriage certificate is a condition for such protection.

    The existence of a marriage certificate provides legal protection for both parties to the marriage, which is necessary to keep the marriage going for a long time.

    3. Affection is not a substitute for a marriage certificate. A marriage that has both feelings and a marriage certificate can be happy and long-lasting.

    For marriage, the emotional factor is of course very important, but if you rely solely on feelings to maintain a marriage, then the foundation of the marriage will be destroyed and become very unstable. Once you encounter various influencing factors, the relationship has changed, which will directly affect the outcome of the marriage. ......Therefore, only when there is both affection and a marriage certificate, the marriage can be guaranteed to the greatest extent, so as to achieve the ultimate goal of happiness and longevity.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1.Marriage is generally the product of emotional maturity. Marriages with feelings are generally getting happier and happier, whether it is a common topic, a common hobby, mutual understanding, or encouragement, etc., it will be sublimated on the basis of feelings.

    2.The relationship before marriage is not obvious, but if you can slowly cultivate the feelings between each other after marriage, especially for the sake of family, career, etc., and the relationship development is further up, then it is okay.

    3.If there is no affection but reluctantly marry to achieve a certain goal, it is not repaired in time after marriage. Such a life is bound to be boring.

    No matter what, the combination of the two is the beginning of your efforts, and the relationship can be re-cultivated, as long as both parties can work hard, I believe that they will run a family well.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love may be just a luxury, just like a ghost, I've just heard of it and haven't seen it, if her character is okay in all aspects, you can take it, at most only one out of a thousand people has love. Besides, she's still young, she has a lot of personality, she is immature in all aspects, and she still has a long life. It can be changed.

    In fact, you can ask how many people are in love with the elders around you. To add that happiness is not really about love, only about character.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What the hell is this, this woman is very rubbish, you have a big record of getting married and getting married for the second time, it's better not to get married, ask her for money, don't sue her first, and give her a bad hat.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, if two people don't have love, how can they go on the long road of life? Love is to please each other, appreciate each other, can you live comfortably without pleasing each other?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First of all, you must be happy with each other, so that you can continue to walk......

    I hate each other and look awkward, I can't live this day.

    A woman who owes you money, she doesn't want to pay you back, and wants to use marriage to pay off the arrears, this thing is a bit fantastical!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, you can't. But there must be money.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The development of emotions is that two people know each other better, understand better, the feelings of two people become deeper and deeper, and two people become closer and closer, becoming good friends; Also, two people reach the goal of knowing each other, meet to go through their lives together, and finally get married and start a family. Therefore, the best result of emotional development is to get married, and some are to become good friends or girlfriends.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    For our traditional Chinese family, the ultimate destination of emotional development is marriage and childbirth. But the development of emotions is not always like this, for example, with a deeper understanding, it feels inappropriate, and they break up while walking, and some people are single, only together but not married.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The result of emotional development is to get married, to live together, to have children.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The development of emotions is for marriage, because two people have emotions for each other, in order to come together, to enter the palace of marriage, to be able to persist in being together until old age, emotion is very important, if there is no emotion, there is no marriage.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There are not necessarily many people who are unmarried, and they will have a very good emotional life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Emotional development is not necessarily for marriage, female girlfriends who talk about everything, and male girlfriends are also very good friends.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The development of emotions is for the purpose of getting married, but sometimes confidantes are also a good memory, people should have emotions, life is motivated, and it is also good to leave a good memory.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The development of emotions, I think, is for marriage, because two people are together. When the relationship arrives, in the end, they all go for the sake of marriage. Love each other, and being together is also married because of feelings.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Yes, the ultimate destination of emotions is to be with each other, have children, spend the rest of their lives together, and never be separated.

    This is the process of human evolution, in order to ensure the continuation of life, this consciousness is automatically preserved in our genes, thus ensuring the inheritance of society from generation to generation.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You are too vague in your words, and the emotions are between comrades, between friends, between brothers and sisters, and between male and female couples. If you are referring to a relationship, it is certain that the emotions that need to be developed in order to get married. If it is an ordinary friend of the opposite sex and other relationships, there is also an emotional connotation, but the purpose is completely different.

    Of course, there are people who are not doing it, doing things that are not in the way, asking willows in order to find flowers, learning that set of foreign things in order to catch up with fashion, what lovers, sexual openness, etc., are not normal for Chinese, only they regard this matter as a pleasure hunt. All people who are moral and responsible will not take this kind of relationship as a child's play, and they will develop their feelings for the purpose of marriage.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Not necessarily, although the final outcome of most emotions is marriage, but there are also many people who love each other and have not come to the step of getting married, just like people who love each other should have children after marriage, but some people choose not to have children, whether to get married or not to have children, this is not certain, if the two of you are still talking about friends, then spend this time seriously, do not think about whether they will get married in the future, the two people are suitable and run in well, Naturally, the idea of marriage is on the agenda.

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