If you have a daughter at home, what shortcomings should not be forcibly corrected, and the child

Nowadays, many parents will look forward to having a daughter in their family, but the intimate little padded jacket of the daughter may feel that the daughter is cute and well-behaved, and sensible and obedient, therefore, many families want a second child in order to have a daughter, indeed, many daughters will grow up to be very sensible to their parents, will often go home to visit their parents, so that parents are also exempted from the pain of missing. A child is different, in the growth of the child, it is inevitable to show some personality and characteristics, for the daughter's strengths, parents to encourage, for the daughter's defects, parents to timely and correct guidance, sometimes even to assist the child to correct, this will make the child more excellent. However, if the daughter in the family shows these two "defects" when she is young, the parents do not have to force the daughter to correct, and the correct guidance is carried out moderately, and the child's future life will be happier and happier.

1. Naughty and noisy.

Many parents feel that girls should be elegant and skillful, love to be naughty, and noisy should be the personality of boys, if their daughters are naughty and noisy, it is a defect of the child. Girls, like boys, are a little naughty and like to move, and this kind of child is usually very good, on the contrary, if the child does not like to move very much, and sits there all day long, it will become very bad for bone development. Moreover, the daughter is naughty, which also shows that she has a strong desire to explore and loves to explore, and her daughter's ideas are still growing and learning in the exploration again and again.

In view of a child who learned well in childhood and has a lively and cheerful personality, there will be more opportunities and some long-term development after he grows up in society, and he will be better in the future, and his life will be happier and happier, which will not worry his parents.

2. Love beauty. Many daughters are usually very fond of beauty when they are children, and they like beautiful clothes, accessories and so on. Although the pursuit of beauty is not a child's defect, it should also be scientifically and reasonably guided, especially in junior high school, the daughter should focus on her learning, and the external beauty is clean and tidy, and it is effective.

On this basis, parents effectively and correctly guide, in addition to not delaying learning, parents must let their daughters understand the appearance of the brand image is also very important, because beautiful and generous children will always get a lot of sought after.

Girls' personalities are generally more subtle, but there are some girls whose personalities will be more open, so more open girls, such shortcomings cannot be regarded as disadvantages, but this is also beneficial, such as being good at communicating with others, so it is better to let children develop freely as a disadvantage, and there are some particularly unique interests and hobbies, which can also allow them to develop.

They always have endless topics, special nagging, always sticking to you, will ask about other people's things, we don't want to correct these shortcomings, which will lead us to be happier and happier.

The child's personality is boyish; Children love beauty when they are young; Children have their own little tempers.

Some girls often wear their mother's high heels since they were young, or wear their mother's lipstick, and even shout at their mother to buy beautiful floral dresses to wear all day long. Some mothers feel that their daughters are still young and should not have such a stinky and beautiful act, so they will hurry to stop her. In fact, it is a girl's nature to pursue beauty, and her mother prevents her from being beautiful, which kills her nature and causes her to have low self-esteem.

And girls maintain a good self-image, not only can give a good impression to others, but also make the other party more confident, and it is easier to be productive in the future. Therefore, mothers must not blindly follow the trend to stop girls' "stinky and beautiful behaviors".

Why don't moms usually read more children's dressing skills and buy some beautiful fashion fashion children's clothes for their children. Naturally, don't forget to dress with the necessary decorations, such as children's shoulder bags, which can not only enhance the overall sense of sophistication of children, but also contain some snacks and toys that they usually eat, and it is more convenient to go out and have fun.

In most cognitions, I feel that girls should follow the rules, be smart and keep to themselves, and not have some naughty and disobedient behaviors. Therefore, some mothers will deliberately stop their daughter when they see her daughter playing a little crazy. In fact, a girl's naughty disobedience does not mean that she is really ignorant, in fact, it shows that their thinking is more active, and it is also a way for them to explore the universe, so mom should stop worrying about the problem that girls are naughty and not good.

As long as the baby is safe, healthy, happy and happy, everything will be fine!

Some mothers will deliberately stop their daughters when they see that they are addicted to reading and worry that they will become scholars in the future. In fact, mothers don't need to worry, it's a good thing that children like to read, they can enrich their thinking, gain a lot of great truths, and the most important thing is to improve their personal temperament. Therefore, mothers should support such good habits as their daughters.

However, the child's eyesight is very fragile, and the mother must prepare an eye-protecting table lamp for him to help relieve visual fatigue and prevent myopia.

In fact, the above 3 personal behaviors are not considered defects of girls, so mothers do not need to be overly nervous and busy correcting, and girls will thank you in the future.

Daughters often have a particularly short temper, indulge in reading, are particularly naughty, like to dismantle toys, when daughters have these shortcomings, mothers don't rush to discipline their daughters and call their daughters happier in the future.

Children always like to play with toys, like to read very much, always naughty and mischievous, love stinky beauty, these shortcomings prove that their children are more lively, and will be smart and clever in the future.

If the daughter is very spoiled, and she likes to dress up a lot, how to match her own clothes, knows how to manage her body, and also likes to study very much, then the child will be very happy in the future.

There are always some children in the news who make their parents feel painful, and while others curse the children for "no conscience" and "ruined son", they forget to ask how the parents raised the children when they were young. If parents do not observe their children's behavior and do not pay attention to correcting their children's bad habits when they are young, the children will not only disappoint their parents when they grow up, but may also implicate the whole family and let the family be dragged down by him.

Therefore, as a mother and a father, you can't ignore some of your children's shortcomings, and help your children correct them while they are still young.

One or three minutes of heat.

There is a song that sings: Three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work.

You see, in addition to talent, people's hard work and persistence are more important. So, if you find that your child does things on the spur of the moment, but quickly gives up and can't stick to anything, then pay attention, such children often grow up with no interest at all, because they have developed a bad habit of getting by and giving up halfway.

For this kind of inert child, parents are bound to make some hard efforts to help the child correct it as soon as possible, and be careful that no matter how smart the child is, he will stumble on it.

Second, the eye is high and the hand is low.

The so-called eye master is low, that is, he thinks very well, and there is no motivation to operate.

This kind of child is also quite a headache, they may have high ambitions, but they just can't concentrate on breaking through their bad habit of rhetoric, and none of the short-term goals they set can be achieved. This kind of child belongs to the people who have low eyes and low hands. They never understand what it means to "travel a thousand miles begins with a single step".

Parents have to be warned that such children have a greater chance of being deceived in the future, and many such people are hollowed out of their families in the idea of face and unearned gain.

3. Refusal to learn.

You must know that the speed of social change is so fast that we may not be able to keep up with learning, and those who are not good at learning and refuse to learn will not talk about the future.

Especially in our current life, we may have lived a relatively comfortable life with the efforts of our ancestors, but if the child lives a "stable" life without seeking change under the guidance of his parents, the child is likely to be eliminated in minutes in the future.

After all, the times require each of us, if you don't progress, you will regress, and even if you progress, it is impossible to catch up with the train of the times.

Therefore, it is important for children to fall in love with the thirst for knowledge and cultivate their learning ability. It is so important for children to be able to overcome difficulties through what they have learned.

In short, the growth of a child is like a small tree, from a sapling to a big tree, in order for our children to become pillars, not a burden on the social family, when parents want to correct their children's fatal shortcomings at all times, just like a gardener repairing the extra branches of a small tree.

The first is lying, the second is stealing, and the third is scolding.

Disrespecting others, not knowing how to share, not being grateful, with these shortcomings, parents must help him correct them in time, otherwise it is easy to be too small and selfish.

The first point is often scolding, such a child is actually wrong, and should be corrected The second point, the child often makes a lot of noise, in this case, parents should also help the child to correct, the third point, that is, the child is particularly emotionally unstable, often irritable, this time should help the child to correct.

When the child makes a mistake. He should be corrected in time. It's not forced. Rather, let him accept it slowly. Let's use words to convince him.

When the child appears to be naughty, and then he is always in a daze when he looks at some things, and loves to smell and beauty, should he force the child to change it.

1. Love to dress up and love beauty. Explain that the child has a cognition of beauty, clothing, etc., and parents should guide them from the front; 2. Love to be naughty and mischievous. To a certain extent, it shows that children love to use their brains and have a lively personality, and parents can pay attention to their strengths and guide them to the good side; 3. Study like a nerd.

Children should be encouraged to read good books and study in beneficial areas, and pay attention to the combination of work and rest.

Yes. If parents force their children to get rid of these shortcomings, it will affect their children's interest in learning, which is not good for their children's development.

In fact, what is an excellent child, in the eyes of our adults, those who have good academic performance, always get the first place in exams, and are versatile? You must know that to be able to do this, there are too many hardships and tears that need to be paid behind the child.

Let's talk about the little girl in my neighbor's house, she is what everyone calls someone else's child. Every morning at five or six o'clock in the morning, I was called by my mother to memorize English, from the third grade to the sixth grade now, there has been no interruption for two years, and all kinds of tutoring books in the house are piled up on the shelves.

Of course, there is also time to play, go to the park for a walk, and be tested by my mother from time to time. The little girl's biggest dream is to have a puppy, but it has never been realized.

When Saturday and Sunday are on vacation, the children are even more busy to death. Piano classes, dance classes, and various study classes are really varied, and they are even more tiring than classes.

In this way, the child is really good at learning, but there is a big lack of personality, she doesn't like to talk, and she doesn't have many friends. How can a child be happy if he lives as his parents want to be, but loses his own happiness and innocence.

In fact, excellent children are also under a lot of pressure, they have to learn a lot of things every day, in addition to studying, they also have to learn a variety of specialty classes in their spare time, which is still very good in the eyes of others, but he also longs for the happiness of childhood in his heart.

Excellent children are not as innocent and happy as we see on the surface because they are under too much pressure. It takes a lot of effort to be excellent. In order to cultivate excellent children, many parents have enrolled their children in various interest tutoring classes since they were young, and some even completely ignore whether their children dare to be interested or not, and whether they can bear all kinds of knowledge.

There is a saying called "someone else's child". Good children live under everyone's expectations and are under pressure that is not their age. In order to keep yourself excellent and not disappoint your parents and everyone, you must continue to work hard and not relax in the slightest, how can such a child feel happy.

Excellent children often do not have much leisure and entertainment time, watching anime, playing games, playing with children, etc. are not allowed, such children are less innocent and fun. Parents expect too much from their children to increase the pressure on their children, too strict education is not conducive to the healthy growth of children's body and mind, too many interest classes may be seedlings to grow, and these excellent children in such a living environment will be less happy.