Why do babies like to scratch their mother s hair or bite their face?

This is an intimate behavior with the mother in the eyes of the baby, and it should be guided at this time.

Because the baby is exploring the world, when the baby is grabbing the mother's hair and biting the face, he may make some expressions that make the baby very happy.

Because the baby feels interesting and curious, he is expressing his affection and intimacy with his mother, and wants to attract his mother's attention.

It's just that the simple baby prefers this action and has developed a habit. But as a parent, you should correct your baby in time.

When the baby is five or six months old, the fine motor skills of the hands begin to develop, and grasping things is a stage of development. I don't need to correct it, and when I'm a little older, I know not to scratch my mother's hair.

But no matter how much she loves beauty, once this woman gives birth to a baby, she will shift her focus, this child is what she cares about the most, and it can be said that it is more important than anything else. So here's the problem, we all know that children are very active in the growth and development stage, and they will be very interested in the people and things around them, and naturally the hair of the mother who is closest to the child will also be the goal of the children.

Mothers who cherish their hair very much have a soft spot for pulling your hair when they encounter their children, and even sometimes pull back and forth to pull you screaming in pain, how can you change it? Will you be unbearable, can't stand it, and will be fierce towards the child?

Next, let's talk about why babies like to pull their mother's hair? After understanding the reason, are you still willing to kill him?

1. The performance of the baby's love of movement during the development period.

Many mothers have reflected how their babies are always like this, always like to pick up and pull their mother's hair, at the beginning they felt that the child suddenly grabbed their hair, and even before they could react, they were pulled hard. Speaking from the heart, this is my own mother, so I endured it.

But with this going on again or twice, I just can't stand it. Sometimes I can't help but start murdering children. After saying that, the child himself has regrets, but it's not a problem to always pull his hair like this.

In fact, this is a phenomenon unique to children in the growth and development period, but some children will be more curious and have a strong interest in their mother's hair. We parents should understand in our hearts that this is the child's unique physiological and psychological performance, in addition to having good communication with the child, let the child understand that touching the mother's hair is a normal thing, and the mother also likes to let the baby touch the mother's hair.

When the child wants to reach the mother's hair, the mother can help the child's little hands to touch their hair in time without headaches.

Second, I like to play with my mother in this way.

For some babies, mothers may find that the baby knows that the mother does not like him to touch his hair, but the child does not understand why. But every time the mother refuses to touch the baby's hair, the baby is very excited, happy, and enjoys the feeling of it. It's like mom playing a fun game with herself.

Children love the feeling of playing, and there are indeed cases where children take pulling their mother's hair as a fun game, and children are happy to play with their mothers like this. When this situation occurs, the mother still has to remain relatively calm, and the children do not have any malicious intentions, but just like their mother and like to play.

When the mother is in a difficult situation, she can tell the child very clearly that the mother's hair hurts and can no longer let him do this. When the baby sees the mother's very painful appearance and very resolute tone, he will let go of the mentality of playing, and will slowly pay attention to what the mother said and what it means.

Children will only pull someone's hair when they are willing to be close to an adult and when they are held by someone they like. Parents will pay attention to the observation and find that the baby is very happy when he grabs other people's hair and clothes, and he feels that it is close to adults, as if playing games. It is an affectionate expression of the baby to the parents.

There is a mother in the group who said that her 15-month-old son likes to pull his hair recently. A few friends came to the house on the weekend, and the baby happily rushed over to hug him, and then went up to grab his girlfriend's hair, and what was even more annoying was to tear off people's necklaces. The mother said that she was very embarrassed at the time and wanted to beat her son.

Her own necklaces and earrings have long been cleaned. Because he was afraid that his son would reach out and drag anything, he didn't dare to bring anything. Babies not only like to pull other people's hair, but even pick their eyes and ears.

In fact, this is a normal physiological phenomenon in the growth process of babies, because they enter the sensitive period of hand movements. As your baby's limbs grow and develop, they can only hold things at first, and then they can slowly pick them up and throw them out. At this stage, babies are full of curiosity about all new things, and they want to explore by doing it themselves, including pulling other people's hair with their hands, and buttoning adults' noses and eyes, etc., in which babies can discover the mysteries of things.

This kind of hands-on behavior of the child can not only exercise the coordination and flexibility of the baby's hand, but also improve his imagination and hands-on ability, and effectively promote the rapid development of the child's brain function.

Children find it especially interesting to grab other people's hair, earrings, necklaces, etc. It was all within his reach. The baby wants to attract the attention of adults through this way of grabbing.

It is to make parents pay attention to him, in order to meet his psychological needs not to be ignored. You see, the baby is smart!

Through observation, the child will gradually be able to begin to function with his or her own hand. Parents should carry out a variety of training for the baby, of course, do not force him to do anything, the child in the gradual process, naturally exert the energy of his hands, so as to guide more effectively. Correctly guide your baby to pull his hair at this stage, and he will grow in a healthy direction.

Mother came to talk in the early morning: a mother of two children who started to create in the early morning, I wrote my heart by hand, and every bit of it was my parenting experience with children. Hopefully my parenting experience will help you a little.

First of all, when holding the baby or playing with the baby, tie the hair into a ball, or tie it more neatly, because most of the babies do not pull their hair is wrong, this meaning, try not to loosen the hair, let the baby's hands catch it.

The baby likes to grab the mother's hair, because the baby is practicing the grasp ability of the hand, if the mother does not want the baby to scratch, you can cut the hair short, or tie it up so that the baby can not reach.

For mothers, since having a baby, the favorite thing should be with the baby. Smell the milk smell on the baby's body; Look at his lovely face and little hands; Listen to him ......These are the happiest things for our mothers. However, the happiness of mothers was quickly shattered by the baby's action of "grabbing hair".

Why does the baby always grab the mother's hair It is recommended that the baby practice the little magic weapon to grasp the mother's mother knows that when the baby reaches a certain age, the baby will not help but reach out to scratch after touching the mother's hair, which is really painful for mothers to scream. Sometimes our mothers can't bear it anymore and will hit their children. However, mothers, in fact, you should know that this behavior of your baby is a kind of growth exercise and needs to be encouraged rather than stopped.

Parents can get the effect of exercise by guiding the baby to grasp other objects, and the mother's hair "alarm" can also be dismissed. The development of hand exploration movements is an important aspect of the baby's development. He is constantly looking for and grasping the objects around him.

For example, a 4-5-month-old child will grab his clothes and pull them on his face; 6-7-month-old babies will grasp toys more accurately; 8 to 9-month-old babies have learned to grasp and pinch objects with their fingers, but because the extensor muscles are not fully developed, they will not let go of objects at will once they grasp them. When his mother hugged him, his hands were just within reach of his mother's hair and collar, which were slender objects that were just right for his hand grip. So he grabbed it, and the more he let go, the tighter he grasped it, and dragged it around.

As a necessary stage of growth, the baby's love of grasping is an ability, which needs the guidance and education of parents in order to continue to develop towards more refined movements. The assistance of some small items can allow the baby to grasp the tricks more quickly and control hand movements accurately and freely.

Snacks with the ability to contact grasp, it is estimated that mothers will first think of star puffs, indeed, the shape of the little star puffs in line with the characteristics of the baby's fingers, and melt in the mouth, more suitable for babies to practice grasping. But this snack ** is not cheap, mothers want to be more economical, you can try to use the baby's teething biscuits, the long shape is suitable for babies over 6 months old, and by the way, it also meets the needs of the baby's teeth, killing two birds with one stone. Rattle is a toy that we use more, according to the characteristics of the baby's hand design handshake, so that the baby can easily hold in the hand, with the sound of shaking the rattle, the baby will like it more, and hold it tightly in the hand.

When the baby can crawl, you can also prepare some brightly colored balls for the baby, such as table tennis balls, so that the baby can reach out to grasp and exercise the grasp ability of the hand.

Yes, this is really showing love to the mother, this is a way for the baby to express his feelings.

The baby will always be raised, and the mother will always grab the mother's hand, grab the mother's hair, and beat the mother with her little fist, which may be showing love to the mother.

When you are sad, he will hug you and not let go, and in normal times he will grab your hair and want you to play with him, which is also to express his love and sit obediently in your arms.