Under what conditions did you give birth to your second child?

The conditions are very poor, just because my lover wants two children, hoping to realize the dream of a son and a daughter.

There is no mortgage, there is a car loan, Dabao is 10 years old, the annual salary of the husband and wife is more than 30 and almost 40w, 2 treasures are unexpected, since the gift from God, how much pressure has to be taken care of.

Accidents, how many second children are accidents.

Those of us who have a second child with autism really can't say it, and we can't wait to go back and tell ourselves not to have a second child.

Accidentally. Unexpected boss, unexpected dick.

Accidents, accidents, accidents, I never wanted it, my husband and their family wanted it. I went out to travel once and was pregnant with a second child, more than three months, I still sigh when I think about it, I don't dare to think about the future. At present, the house is very small, 65 square meters, and the income of the two is 200,000 yuan a year, and there is a shop that has just begun to play a role.

Fortunately, my grandparents are strong, and I have a pension when I am young, in short, if I don't want it, I must be optimistic about myself.

The fundamental reason for having a second child is probably that the two only children have had an unsolvable loneliness since they were young, and they hope that the children can have a companionship. Then there is the fact that when you are abroad, the families around you either do not have children, or most of them will have two, which seems to be more natural. Then the economic level is also good, I think it is appropriate.

Parents gave birth, and the economic conditions are good at present. My husband is a popular major, and he has already found a job, and his salary is not bad. I will look for a teaching position at a university because of my major, and the salary will be decent.

But whether I can support two babies in a first-tier city, I am not sure, and I feel a little worried. The house is a big problem, and my parents can help me, but I probably have to borrow a few million by myself.

Nothing, very poor,

The mother-in-law takes good care of the children. Nor is it patriarchal. As long as I'm not busy with work, we give our time to two children.

My husband is the biggest support, loves children as much as I do, is patient, childlike, and is very willing to listen to children, chat with them, and play with them. Don't scold, don't hit, convince people. My eldest is also looking forward to having a younger sibling.

The root cause is that I really like children. Our family has a good economy, there is no mortgage and car loan, and our parents and in-laws are in the prime of life, so we don't need to take care of them. All of them have retirement salaries, and three of them have been rehired to continue working.

Mentally and physically in good shape. My husband and I are in a second-tier city, and we are more than enough. Two houses with the same area and type have been prepared for the two children in the front and back buildings of the same community as investment and coming-of-age gifts.

The total household income is acceptable and unburdened. Then the mother-in-law repeatedly proposed to give birth while she was young and could see her. There is also the eldest is an angel baby, now three years old, rarely sick, in good health, no crying or fuss when he was a child, sleeping with his grandmother after weaning, in short, he is not too tired, so he is not afraid of raising children.

I am a teacher, I have winter and summer vacations, and I have plenty of time with my children. And most of the things with my husband belong to the state of hitting it off, and the relationship is good.

No house, no car, no car loan. Two female treasures. Dabao was born at the age of three and a month with two treasures, and his mother-in-law helped take care of the children.

I quit my job when I was four months pregnant, and now I am a stay-at-home mom and my husband is in the entrepreneurial stage. Both hometowns are rural, and now live in the provincial capital. I didn't want a second child at first, but my husband convinced me because we had a couple of elderly people living upstairs.

Since you are going to give birth, you should give birth early. Later, I watched what happened between relatives and friends, and I thought it was better to have two children at the minimum.

Because of the accident. My husband and I are not only children, because we didn't meet the policy before, and we didn't think about it. However, in the deepest part of my heart, I kind of want a second child, but because the policy does not allow it, and on the other hand, the conditions are average, so I never mentioned it.

Who knew that God played a joke on me, just a month after the two-child policy came out, I found out that I was unexpectedly pregnant. Then I thought about it and found that I wasn't under much pressure, so I gave birth.

Many mothers are likely to be like this, and they didn't think too much about it before giving birth to a second child, only to find out later that there were so many things. In fact, not all families are suitable for having a second child, and the mother should take a good look at whether the family has these standards before planning to have a second child, if not, or wait.

1.Economic strength.

When it comes to economic strength, I believe many mothers will argue that the previous families were not too poor, and the children were still raised and grown. That being said, since the child is born, the risk that parents have to take is not only to raise the child well, but to give him a happy living environment and a good education. Therefore, if the economic strength is not enough, it is better to take it slowly, otherwise even if he has a child, he will not be able to satisfy his better life.

2.Someone helped with the baby.

Taking care of children is really not something that can be tiring alone, especially when the two children are young and young in between, so it is even more troublesome. If the mother-in-law's body is more suitable and wants to help with the child, or the father wants to share the housework, in this case, it will be easier to consider having a second child. Otherwise, after giving birth to the second child, it is also a kind of pressure, and the mother comes to take care of the child again, and has to tidy up the housework, and the body really can't stand it.

3.Ask the boss for permission.

Nowadays, there are very few children in every family, especially after the birth of the first newborn, it can be said that it is a collection of the love of the whole family, and a group of adults revolves around him. If you don't ask for Dabao's permission, you will give birth to a second child, and after the birth of the younger brother or sister, more attention of relatives will be used on Erbao's body, which will inevitably cause a feeling of imbalance in the heart, and even get tired of Erbao and complain about his father and mother. Therefore, before the mother plans to have a second child, it is best to directly consult Dabao's advice.

The family is relatively wealthy, and with the permission of Dabao, someone will help you take care of the child, and you can have a second child if you have these conditions.

economic conditions; Someone helped with the baby. Ask for the boss's permission.

First of all, the economic conditions must be good, first of all, there must be the elderly to help, and first of all, it must be discussed with the lover, which will not affect the normal life of the family.

In 2019, the conditions for having a second child are that both parties are only children and have already given birth to one child; Both parties are rural residents, and one party is an only child for two or more generations, and has already given birth to one child; Both parties are ethnic minorities and have given birth to one child; Those who have given birth to one child and have been diagnosed with a non-hereditary disability by an appraisal institution for sick and disabled children at or above the city divided into districts and cannot grow into a normal labor force can have a second child if one of the 12 conditions is met.

Population and Family Planning Law of the People's Republic of China (2001).

Article 1 In order to achieve the coordinated development of the population and the economy, society, resources, and environment, promote family planning, safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of citizens, and promote family happiness (note: high-risk one-child families cannot be happy at all, this sentence is also not true, and should be removed, who said that a one-child Sun Ming family is simply not happy), national prosperity and social progress; Article 2: The State shall adopt comprehensive measures to control the number of people and improve the quality of the population.

The State relies on propaganda and education, scientific and technological progress, comprehensive services, and the establishment and improvement of the incentive and social security system to carry out population and family planning work. Article 18: The State stabilizes the current birth policy, encourages citizens to marry later and have children later, and advocates (note: not compulsory) that a couple have one child; Those who meet the requirements provided for by laws and regulations may request that arrangements be made for the birth of a second child.

The specific measures shall be formulated by the people's congresses of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government or their standing committees.

Article 19 A husband and wife who meet one of the following conditions may, upon approval, have another child:

1) Both parties are only children and have already given birth to one child;

2) Where both parties are rural residents (agricultural population, the same below) and have given birth to a girl, except where one party is an employee of an organ, group, public institution or other organization, or one party has been engaged in industry and commerce for more than one year, and both parties have established labor relations with the enterprise for more than one year;

3) Both parties are rural residents, and one party is an only child for two or more generations, and has already given birth to one child;

4) Both parties are rural residents, and the woman's parents have only one or two daughters, and the man has settled in the woman's house and supported the woman's parents, and has already given birth to one child (only applicable to one of the sisters);

5) Both parties are ethnic minorities and have given birth to one child;

6) Both parties are rural residents, and one party is an ethnic minority and has a household registration of more than two generations in the province, and has given birth to one child;

7) One party is the only child of a martyr and has already given birth to one child;

8) One party has never given birth, but the other party has already given birth to a child before remarriage;

9) One party has never given birth, and the other party is widowed before remarriage and has already given birth to two children;

10) Those who have already given birth to a child and have been diagnosed with a non-hereditary disability by an institution for the evaluation of sick and disabled children at the districted city level or above, and are unable to grow into a normal labor force;

11) One party has been engaged in underground operations in mines for more than five consecutive years, has given birth to a girl, and continues to engage in underground operations.

Article 20 The birth of one of the husband and wife as a foreigner, a compatriot from Hong Kong, Macao, and Taiwan, as well as the birth of an overseas Chinese, returned overseas Chinese, or a person studying abroad, shall be carried out in accordance with the relevant provisions of the state.