Why do people help each other in despair?

When a person is desperate, he feels that there is no way out, and others give him whatever he wants, and you want to try it, and if he succeeds, he will have someone to help. Therefore, it is not that people have noble people to help them in despair, but that people are more likely to trust others in despair.

The reason may be that you usually do more good things, so there will be people who help you in desperate situations, which is also the so-called good people have good rewards. Therefore, we should do more good deeds so that we can get help from others.

Because when people are particularly desperate, there must be many people who can see it, and if some people have the ability, they can help others, because sometimes everyone will encounter despair, and they all want others to help themselves, so they will make their own efforts.

I don't think it's that people have noble people to help them in despair, and it's easier for people to crave help in despair.1For example, if you usually eat and drink and have nothing to do, you can't listen to other people's suggestions and help, and you don't do things according to other people's instructions, and you don't care if others give you 500 yuan at this time.

2.When a person is desperate, he feels that there is no way out, others give him anything, come up with an idea, you want to try, success is someone to help, in despair when others give fifty yuan you are grateful to Dade, so, it is not that people in despair have noble people to help, but people in despair are more likely to believe in others.

Everyone will have their own nobles, so there will be someone to help you when you encounter difficulties, so this is fate, and it is also the good luck that you bring by helping others.

Hello, as the saying goes, there is no endless road to heaven, and you will always meet noble people to help.

If a person is in trouble, the first thing he will think of is that person helping you, because you know that person will help you, and because you know that person very well, you must be very close to that person and have a good relationship with that person.

In life, when we usually ask for someone, in order not to let ourselves touch a gray nose, so we ask for the person who will definitely help you, that is to say, the relationship is usually better, and the person you have helped him in the past, he will also help you. The so-called courtesy exchange is like this, usually willing to help people, when urgent someone helps, the so-called relationship and popularity are usually accumulated by us.

So when we have a problem, the first person we will find is the person who responds to the request, which is what we call the person with whom we have a better relationship. People who have frequent contacts.

Because this person has long been imprinted in your mind, and it is also the person you trust the most.

To sum up, the art and literature gathering once said a famous sentence, life love is priceless. I hope you will also understand this statement. Personally, it means a lot to me that I need help when I encounter difficulties.

Everyone has to face these problems. In the face of this problem, Aaron Nivens said philosophically that the most prominent chance in history is the intermittent appearance of famous and great people. However, my understanding of this sentence is insufficient, and I want to think clearly about what kind of existence it is to need help when encountering difficulties.

When difficulties and help occur, how do you need to do it, and how will it happen if you don't encounter difficulties and need help? In this case, understanding what kind of existence it is to need help in case of difficulties is the key to solving all problems. When you encounter difficulties and need help, what will happen if it happens, and what will happen if it doesn't.

Now, it's very, very important to solve problems that you need help when you're struggling. So, Dale Carnegie famously said that by admitting that you might be wrong, you can avoid arguments, and you can make the other person as magnanimous as you are, and admit that he can be wrong. This sentence is like a bosom mate in my life journey, constantly motivating me to move forward.

With these questions in mind, let's take a look at the difficulties we need help with. This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. Sun Yat-sen famously said, "A scholar is the source of the evolution of civilization."

With this in mind, we need to look more carefully at this issue: in the face of this inevitable conflict, we must resolve it. Everyone has to face these problems.

In the face of this kind of problem.

This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution. We all know that as long as it makes sense, then it has to be carefully considered.

We must unify our thinking, work in a unified way, and work hard to fundamentally solve the difficulties we encounter and need help. Song Wangzao once said that the peach blossoms are smiling out of the fence, and they seem to be the most affectionate before they open. This sentence is like a sail full of wind, cheering me on from time to time.

We have to face a very embarrassing fact, and that is that I want everyone to have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying everything, saying that he is not guilty, and that he who hears is full of caution. Well, in the face of this inevitable conflict, we must address this issue. In this case, if you need help when you encounter difficulties, how should you achieve it?

This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world.

When people are desperate, even the slightest help or other external help can be considered a miracle. For example, no one has paid attention to themselves for a long time. Suddenly I thought today.

When I went out today, someone took the initiative to communicate with me. I think this is a miracle. Actually, you just have to put your mind in balance.

Don't worry too much about that. Living is just about living better.

It is you who are in despair and who are full of faith. There will be miracles.

Because miracles don't often come right away when you need them.

That's a situation that only happens in TV dramas.。。 Don't be naïve.

That's when you're so desperate that you see a little hope and think that a miracle has come.

When I was at the most lost time in my life, I would be grateful for someone who could help me.

As the saying goes.

The grace of dripping water will be reciprocated by a spring"。

I'm a grateful person.

The kindness of others to me will be remembered forever.

Definitely, if he has something, he will definitely help.

Yes, it is easy to share wealth and wealth, but those who share hardships are more worthy of our cherishment.

Yes. When friends are in difficulty, they can help if they can, but they have to be right, helping others is not for the sake of return, who can help me when I am in trouble, and I will be grateful for a lifetime, and I know who is a real friend.

There is no easy word in the adult world, and everyone will experience setbacks and tribulations. At this time, our psychological pressure will be very high, and a lot of negative emotions will be generated. These are often the last straws that break us.

When you can't support yourself and feel like you're about to break down, you might as well do these three things. They can inspire the last strength in your heart and get you out of the rut and out of the lows of life. Psychology:

When you are desperate, do these 3 things, they will give you strength!

1. Think about those who love themselves and the people you love.

Our mental energy is made up of two parts: self-perception and social relationships. When you can barely support yourself, you will inevitably encounter great setbacks, failures, and tribulations. At this point, your self-confidence and self-esteem may have been completely lost, and you can no longer protect yourself.

The last people who can help you will be those who love you and the people you love. Think about your responsibilities, think about their love and expectations. These "love" connections will protect you and eventually get out of the trough.

2. Think about worse people and things, and you'll see that what you're going through isn't nothing.

Everyone compares to themselves. Sometimes you feel like your brain is going to crash quickly and the sky is going to crash. It may seem so to others, but uh.

At this time, don't be alone and let your cognition bind you so that you never get out of your grief and pain. Go out and see the hardships of this world. You will understand that the ordeal you are suffering now may not be nothing.

The life of an adult is not easy, who is not fighting for their own life, when you complain that you have no shoes to wear, only to find that some people have no feet. Although you shouldn't go to the bottom of others, when you are desperate, you will find that many people are simply too miserable compared to your despair, and at any time they may give themselves a little hope at any time.

3. Think about a bright future and prospects, even if you lie to yourself.

Sometimes, overthinking can be torture. Self-deception is actually a psychological protection mechanism to prevent you from encountering too much stress and problems in a short period of time. So, when the psychological pressure is too high, you might as well think about the future, think about what it will look like after success, and think about those exciting moments.

These great prospects can give you the motivation to get through when you need it most. Everyone should give themselves a dream, which can effectively protect our mental health. Many times, looking forward to the future will give you a lot of hope!

No matter what kind of despair we are going through now, it will pass, and nothing will pass it!

When a person is really desperate, for himself, if he does not have enough support beliefs, then he will definitely give up his life. For me, I feel that family, lovers, and dreams are what motivate us all along.

First: my family

If you want to say the best person for yourself in this world, it is only your own family, because it is your family that has been with you since you were born, and they have always been silently committed to their goodness, and they are selfless love. Especially their parents, they give themselves the best of everything, and they want to grow up healthy. Don't want to be rich and rich, just want to be happy forever, this is the biggest wish of parents.

When you are desperate, you must miss your parents in your heart, and you must know that it is not easy for your parents to raise you so big, so you must persevere. In the future, I will give them the best life and provide for their old age. When you think like that, then you will definitely have the courage to keep going.

Second: My love

When you grow up and slowly have a desire for love, then you will definitely meet a girl who loves you, and you love him very much, he is your lover. At this time, the two of you may form a family. Except for her parents, she is your dearest person.

He has been silently accompanying you, no matter how hard your life is, he will not complain that he only supports you silently behind your back, and hopes that you can be brave and persevere. He believes in you all the time. So your lover is your biggest pillar of support, and when you are desperate, you must know that your lover will always support you silently, so how can you make him sad?

You have to have the courage to keep going.

Third: My dreams

If who is the person in the world who should be worthy? What I will be is myself. Everyone should have dreams in order to be motivated.

It's not that you have to be rich and rich, or that you have to be a good family. Or to be a pilot, be realistic. Sometimes your dream is to open a small shop or become a chef, that's amazing, as long as you can persevere, I believe you can succeed, no matter what kind of blow the reality suffers, when you despair, you must have a motivation in your heart.

Go and persevere, give yourself the strength to keep going. Only in this way will you have the courage to face the difficulties of life later in life. Dreams are beautiful, but we need to maintain them with our hearts and act with our hearts.

Only in this way may the dream bloom one day in the future, while you are young, while you are young, you must chase your dreams and live up to your heart.

Despair is not terrible, what is terrible is that you give up hope. You must always be courageous, so that you are fearless in the face of any strong enemy.

When I was desperate, it was a stubble-covered but tired face that gave me the motivation to keep going.

I still remember vividly the drizzling rain that morning, when I was about to leave the dilapidated village school when I was about to leave the dilapidated village school when I was about to graduate from the sixth grade.

That time was when I had just finished an exam paper from previous years, and the teacher was invigilating the nine of us in the class, and I finished the Chinese paper quickly, and my heart was as calm as the drizzle outside the window. The teacher walked around the classroom, looking at the test paper I had answered, and the teacher took it without saying anything, without saying anything. I wasn't surprised because my teachers usually valued me very much.

It wasn't until after lunch that the teacher called me at the door of the office (rudimentary), and I followed him in. The other teacher inside is teaching.

First, second, and third graders are changing their homework. We study with just two teachers.

After the teacher brought me in, he sat down, took my test paper and told me: "Eighty-five points, higher than all of them, if this can be ranked in the top three of the previous class in the past, this time I will take the junior high school exam!" He looked up at me, his face covered in stubble, and he was still a little tired.

I know he's been worried about us lately, because that's a common occurrence that half of the nine of us dropped out of school after taking exams.

Then he discussed me with another teacher, saying that I must study hard and be admitted to a university in the future, and they said that we have few college students.

In fact, many times in the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, I was so sad and desperate. But when I think of my teacher, when I think of those words, when I think of the old days, I have the strength to fight.

Now that I'm a college student, I'm glad to have such a moment that has always encouraged me!

That's all for my answers and opinions, I hope it helps!