Does high emotional intelligence mean you can get everything?

No, many people who feel that people with high emotional intelligence should live happily, feel that the world is a playground, and feel that everything can be understood and solved. But in fact, in his eyes, he feels that many people and many things in the world are unreasonable. When he was chatting with me, he talked about other people's troubles.

One of the most talked about mantras is: If you like to ask for trouble, you will get it. He felt that most people's pain and troubles were self-inflicted, and he could understand them, but he could not sympathize with them.

The world in his eyes is more noisy, false, stupid, greedy, and ugly. The world he presents to others is simple, pure, gentle, and beautiful. A lot of times, I feel like he's literally living with a mask, and under the mask, no one has really seen him, which is scary.

This contrast made me very unaccustomed to it, but after slowly getting to know him, I found that it is difficult for a person with high emotional intelligence like him to find friends and people who can be trusted.

No, this kind of person is actually happiest only when he stays in his room reading a book and meditating in a daze. A truly intelligent person has no friends. Because even if they encounter their own kind, they will sensitively spot and avoid it.

His loneliness goes deep into the bone marrow. Anyone who tries to approach rashly will be pushed away mercilessly. It's just that it's more technical.

In fact, for people with high emotional intelligence, it is like a game master who keeps playing games with rookies that he has long been tired of, but pretends to be very interested and happy. He was always afraid that he would be like everyone else in his eyes, willful, stupid, selfish, and greedy. Or suitable for one person.

Perhaps, if you live a little muddle, you will be happier.

Yes, this kind of person knows how to take advantage of the weaknesses and flaws of human nature and easily walk into the safety zone and comfort zone of others' hearts. But when he sees the poverty and ignorance in the hearts of others, he will sneer at them and leave indifferently. He is young, has no background, and has no resources, but there are many people who are willing to provide opportunities and take the initiative to help, so that he can mix smoothly and be a young talent.

He will do a good job on the surface, giving people a sense of sincerity, but I know that in the bottom of his heart, he has never really let anyone get close to him. Once he appears, he will gradually see the dark and cold side of his heart. He sees people very accurately, and he also sees many things very clearly.

So they weep in stupidity, and destroy in desire. Hehe, you deserve it. It's always weird to hear this kind of talk a lot.

Maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe.

True emotional intelligence is about facing problems head-on – having something to say, getting things done, and always having a positive attitude. This is also an important strategic issue, you must not hide yourself deeply, you must make it easy for others to see through, you know the purpose and motivation behind you, so that you can build a better relationship of trust with others. Those people with high emotional intelligence are really not detours at critical times, they usually face problems head-on, say whatever they have, say whatever they have, and only have a special relationship with those who have a special relationship.