What are some social realities that some students are not aware of?

There are many social realities that students are not aware of. This world is always yin and yang. But most people only focus on the yang side and often ignore the yin side.

The main reason is that yang is explicit, while yin is implicit. The yang floats on the outside, and the gloom is on the inside.

Yang can be intuitively obtained through the eyes and ears, it can be learned from books, or it can be told to you by others, but Yin can only be perceived through life practice and can only be obtained by one's own experience.

Therefore, the ancients often said that after reading 10,000 books, you have to travel 10,000 miles. Reading 10,000 books is yang, and traveling 10,000 miles is yin. Only when yin and yang are combined and properly reconciled can we be comfortable in this world and live a clear and transparent life.

In life, if you don't understand the truth of yin and yang, no matter what field you are in, you will continue to suffer setbacks. The way of yin and yang runs through everything, from shopping in the car, buying vegetables and cooking, to marriage and childcare, and business.

If. Student: This is a yin and yang world, and you will gradually relax.

The world is very real and cruel. There is not only life but also death, not only comedy but also tragedy. There is no end to the world, and there is no appearance of a once and for all harmonious society, the world is a melting pot and a cesspool.

If you want to be free and liberated, and pursue true freedom, it is not enough to have money and leisure, but more importantly, you have the courage to look directly at the darkness and laugh at the abyss, the attitude of knowing that the darkness can also calmly drink the darkness, the attitude of knowing the light and not bowing down to the light, the so-called "not to be happy with things, not to be sad with yourself", in order to be able to grasp yourself. And those who see close are frightened crazy, those who see far are scared to death, and those who see through and are not dead become truly free and independent people.

We know that today's people, people's hearts, each has their own scheming, whether it is daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so that mutual suspicion, the mentality of self-deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but reluctantly, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key in their own life. Flexible adjustment of mentality, way of thinking and dealing with people and handling skills, struggle is a must, otherwise bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance the competitive strength, always remind yourself to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, as for the trust of others, get along well or not, not subjective thoughts can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.

People's hearts are diverse, each has its own scheming, regardless of daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so mutual suspicion, the mentality of deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but reluctantly, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key in their own life and things, and flexibly adjust their mentality. The way of thinking and the skills of dealing with people, struggle is a must, otherwise bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance the competitive strength, always remind yourself to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, as for the trust of others, get along well or not, not subjective thoughts can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.

If you really grow up, please learn to be considerate of your mother, understand your mother, and learn to apologize. Then discuss the matter with my mother and friends and family. Not doing things that make your mother worry and make her sad is the sign that you grow up.

Traveling doesn't mean you're growing up, because there are a lot of things you can't think of in travel.

What are some social realities that some students are not aware of? I have a few points to summarize here:

Society is no better than school, success is diverse, and there are indeed many ways to get to Rome.

In school, you only need to study hard and concentrate on scientific research, and you will be a success. But in society, there are many ways to succeed, even if money is used as a single success criterion, there are also many ways to make money. Some people have achieved after-sleep income by exploring side hustles outside of work**; Some people try to invest and open up a world in **.

In the workplace, don't think technologically.

If you want to become a technology master and solve the problem of stuck necks, this is your ideal, of course, you can pursue it without hesitation, but this does not mean that technology is the only way to succeed in the workplace, and even many people will find that the technology flow can be said to be the most cost-effective way to succeed in the workplace after entering the society.

Under the market economy, interest orientation is the inevitable result, so naturally, the position closest to the profit creation, the position closest to the leader, the position that is closely related to various departments, and the position that masters a large number of resources, must have the best development prospects and promotion and salary increase space, such as sales, administration, marketing, products, procurement, they mostly meet one or two of the above conditions, so under the interest orientation, it is more popular with the bosses.

For technology-related positions, such as R&D, process, and development, under the guidance of interests, it is often a position with relatively low input and output, and it is not easy to be treated by the boss. Although the benefits of building technical barriers are very fragrant, but the bosses are not stupid, they are well aware of the difficulty of this road, so in the major enterprises in the society, the vast majority of technical personnel, generally engaged in what seems to be technical, but in fact lack of innovative mental and physical labor day after day, so as to prevent the waste of resources by long-term idling of technical personnel.

1.China is developing so fast that the lessons taught to you by the previous generation may no longer apply, you have to have your own ideas, and the determination to stick to them.

2.Everything needs to be prepared, and thinking about the future path and preparing for it in school is no longer a rainy day, it is a necessary preparation. If you don't think about what to do in the future until the day of graduation, then you will basically be unemployed after graduation.

3.The relationship between colleagues and friends should be clearly distinguished, friends can be the icing on the cake for you, good friends can send you charcoal in the snow, and colleagues can send charcoal to you in the fire.

If you say bad things about your colleague and boss behind your back, no matter how long it takes, it will definitely reach the ears of the owner. ）

4.At this age, people who are still more arrogant in society are generally a little powerful, because they have no background, and arrogant people generally can't live to continue to be arrogant at this age.

People you don't like will always be there.

5.When it comes to being friends who want to be together forever, there will always be some friends who will gradually move away from each other with different jobs, different work locations, and different salaries. Light as water, but it can last for a long time.

6.Having money is one of the simpler ways adults can maintain their dignity.

7.Housing prices in the downtown area are really, really high.

8.The excitement is temporary, and loneliness will support your whole life.

9.The troubles and pains of your 20-year-old just out of school, for others in their 20s, 30s, and 40s who have already experienced a very mature workplace, it is like a kindergarten child complaining that someone was robbed of a candy today.

You feel like the sky is going to fall, and no one else wants to bother to understand it. So don't hope that others will understand you when you say that you are depressed, that someone can comfort you is a good thing, and that no one can comfort you, I hope you can hug yourself and cheer you up! After all, such days will be long.

But in fact, the experience that everyone says may not be applicable to you, everyone has only lived once, who can say that he himself lives the most correct and exciting?

After working for many years after graduation, other colleagues still think that I have a student's spirit, and compared to their dozens of years, they will think that I am young and look weak. But when I actually work, I feel that I am not a student, not as delicate as ordinary students, even if I have to move bricks, I can move bricks, and I have no ......complaints when I have to work overtime

And this is all because after graduation, I realized that social reality and the ivory tower are two different worlds.

The world in the university is still biased towards the mode that we have been reading for more than ten years, as long as you follow what the teacher says, carefully brush the questions and do homework, and memorize the secretary's notes, you can basically achieve certain results. But after graduation, society will tell you that what you thought was hard work in the past is not the most important thing, talent, luck, and birth skills, these are also a kind of capital, and it is no longer dependent on test scores to determine whether you win or lose.

However, the knowledge learned in books before is likely to be applied in practice, and we may even find that some of the knowledge in books cannot be practiced in reality.

Social reality is often very explicit, there is never real fairness, happiness and unhappiness are innate things.

When we are studying, as a student, few people will be aware of such a social reality. Parents and teachers like to tell us that we don't have to worry about other good books. We only need to compare our grades with others to achieve good results, and the future is bright.

But in fact, studying this thing well only accounts for a small part of your life, and the innate wealth gap between people is something that is decided as early as birth.

Most of us need to put in a thousand times the effort, time and energy to get a good achievement, but some people can easily get itThis kind of social reality is something that many students cannot experience, and they will only understand it when they go out of society.

Education in our country is already clearly out of touch with society, and students of all ages will find that what they have learned after society is useless. Especially for college students, about 99% of the things they have learned after graduation will not be used in the four years they have studied in college. In many cases, education in this society is actually a kind of screening, using a unified way to find some high-value people.

It's not that knowledge is useless, it's that what everyone knows is worthless.

Social education is the real education, and the concepts, consciousness, and qualities taught to us by parents and schools are not all applicable to this societyBecause in society, it's not about letting us follow the rules, it's about letting us find a more reasonable way to not follow the rules.

Many students may complain about the unfairness of this society and the idea of escaping from reality every day. But such behavior is like two sides of a mirror – a very sad phenomenonLying flat has made many people put down their arms prematurely, accept the beating of the cruel society, and have no ability to resist risks at all; The other is to continue to grow rapidly under the poison of society and occupy a position in societyThis kind of people have long been reborn, truly accommodating the education of society and the survival of the fittest.

In the information age, many social realities have already surfaced, and all we have to do is to successfully defeat these social realities.

- Who is a student at first glance?

- There is a clear stupidity in the eyes of the students, and there is a clear stupidity in their eyes; Thank you is the mantra, and apology is the basic skill; Not sleek, does not understand the world, exudes the breath of a good rabbit up and down ......

Recently, I often brush up on Douyin to "what person is a student at a glance", wow! I have to admit that this is the reality. Today's students are very simple, but the social reality is cruel.

Today I will summarize with you the social reality that some students have not yet realized, and I hope that we will still love life after recognizing the society!

I don't know if you know that there is a word called "wine and meat friends", but in fact, the people we meet during dinner and drinking are just wine and meat friends. You can't make any useful connections at all when you have dinner and drink, and if you really have the ability, will you still come here to drink with you? Take 10,000 steps back, even if you have the ability, how can you take what you say after drinking?

Why should I help you with a drink?

Let's talk about clubs, there are dozens or even hundreds of people in a club, unless you are particularly good or management, no one will notice you at all. What's the use of noticing you, the contemporary social reality is to take care of your own business, other people's business has nothing to do with me, and the sense of security you want to find is a joke in the eyes of others!

Every time we hear about the whole process of someone being cheated of hundreds of thousands, we always think: this is a fraud, so I won't be fooled! But what we don't know is that recent graduates are easy to fall into contract fraud, and we have no way to distinguish the authenticity of the contract, so we must find a professional to help identify it!

Be careful in everything you do, and don't be self-righteous!

When I was a child, I often made mistakes at home, and my parents didn't seem to treat us well; In the end, the fights in junior high school were all ......solved by our parents for usWe seem to have been convinced that we have parents behind us and they can help us solve everything, but society is not like this, no one will pay for your mistakes, your parents will not help you at all, and in the end you will only pay for your mistakes!

The above is the social reality that some students are not aware of, and we must not believe it all, because everyone's experience is different. Finally, I hope that everyone can still work hard to live after recognizing the truth of life!