When a man has been brewing a breakup for a long time, how can a woman redeem it?

If a man wants to break up, I think women have to find out what the problem is and use their sincerity to impress each other.

You can apologize to the other party, you can give the other party some gifts, you can also send some things that the other party is more interested in, you can also ask the leader to go out to dinner, or you can take the other party out to watch a movie.

Do you feel that your breakup was due to an argument? Do you think your breakup was irrational? Actually, you're wrong.

Women are rational, but men are rational and emotionally rational, so when men talk about breaking up, it is generally a long time in the making. It's just that this incident was the trigger for the breakup. When the relationship between you gradually becomes suspicious, the man takes the risk of breaking up, and only his reason tells him that today is not the time.

In everything we do, we must go to the bottom of the problem to find a clear reason, so that we can completely solve the difficulties better. The reason why men break up is because they are dissatisfied with you, and the greater the dissatisfaction accumulates, the easier it is to ignite the fuse. Do you know anything about love?

The relationship itself is the connection between two people's hearts, the collision of two people's hearts with each other, the communication between two people's hearts, two different bodies, but they have the same core and the same overall goal. When you each have a bad idea, you are going to the end of your emotions step by step.

Perhaps, you will feel that being a woman is really too tiring. To play several characters, a good mother, a good wife, a good wife, you also need to be out of the hall and in the kitchen. When a woman realizes this unfairness, she will start to be selfish, and if this selfish heart is caused, your love will be in trouble.

Being selfish doesn't mean that you can't be nice to yourself, but if you want to guard this feeling, you shouldn't worry too much.

First of all, you have to know how to let go of yourself in the eyes of others, whether you are happy or not, not to please others, what you have to do is yourself, how you are unique, how to be happy, how to be happy, how to do it, you don't have to think about yourself all day long, whether you are doing very well in the eyes of others, even if you are 100% in the eyes of others, you are not the same person you used to be. If you find your unique charm, this is your biggest asset in love. Women attract men, not blindly flatter men.

Men love to pursue, this is the nature of men.

What you have to do is to make him hold you in the palm of his hand, it's not that you run around him, circle around him, change around him, and end up being broken up, don't think that you don't show it, there is no movement, the other party needs to make you pity and sympathize, whether in terms of social reality or feelings, no one will put their life commitment into pity for another person.

The woman should apologize directly and say that I was too headstrong before, and I hope that the man will give her another chance.

The existence of any relationship and the existence of a marriage is because two people are happy and willing! Whether it is a relationship or a marriage, it is a matter of two people. It's like a doubles match where two people work together, and if one of them gives up, the other team won't be able to win the match, no matter how hard they try!

You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, and you can never get back someone who decides to leave!

In this world, every moment and every second, there are two people who decide to be together, and at the same time, there are two people who decide to separate. So, how do you do when you face a breakup?

When I was with her, I never thought that one day I would be in hiding. Although we occasionally quarrel, when she sent me a WeChat message saying that she wanted to break up, I still couldn't accept it. So she changed, went to her place of work every day to wait for her, called her every day, sent her WeChat, until, she blocked my ** WeChat also.

Even though she told me the reason for the breakup very clearly, I still went to the unit every day to wait for her. Until, she changed her job, changed her mobile phone number and ***, and completely disappeared from my world. Now that I think about it, that would be too young!

Therefore, I can't accept the hurt caused by the breakup. "This is a sign of immaturity, immature feelings, and it will not end well in the end.

He and I used to fantasize about what the wedding would look like, and we discussed how many children we were going to have, and we even thought of the names of the children. has been in a long-distance relationship for three years, and the saved train tickets are several meters away. However, our relationship was ultimately defeated by a long-distance relationship.

He said that there was a girl next to him who had been chasing him for three years, and he really couldn't bear to hurt her! So, choose to hurt me! I couldn't believe it was all true, so, pestering it all the time!

I kept calling him, and I sent him a large WeChat message, looking forward to recalling his love for me with the beauty of the past. Every weekend, I would take the train to find him and even yelled at him downstairs in his dorm. However, all that I did did not bring back his heart.

Instead, he witnessed that he and her walked together more firmly. I'm too good to him, so the entanglement after the breakup is actually just my own unwillingness! Looking back on all this now, I just feel that I was so stupid at the beginning!

The person who can say the breakup, his heart can't be kept for a long time! I couldn't help but sigh, such a girl is really stupid.

If you break up, don't dwell on it anymore! Any form of entanglement is actually unacceptable! Because, if you are willing to break up with you, his heart will not be with you for a long time!

The entanglement after the breakup is, in their own eyes, a recovery of lost self-esteem, and in the eyes of others, it is a disgusting behavior and behavior! In this world, everyone has the right to love, and at the same time, everyone also has the right to give up love! Perhaps, he once regarded you as a jewel, maybe, he once swore an alliance with you, perhaps, he once sheltered you from the wind and rain!

However, after the breakup, don't dwell on it anymore! Because, everything is not worth it.

If things have come to this extent, then what else can be saved? Two people who choose to break up must be not suitable for each other to be together, even if they are not suitable for being together, they are destined to be unhappy if they are forced to do so, so Changqiao still has to follow fate.

Will you promise the other party again and again that I will change, I will definitely change, give me another chance, okay? And these words are often said n times before the breakup, and repeating them again will only cause the other party to resent them.

Or you feel hopeless after trying to redeem yourself, and you are angry that you will never contact each other again, and then you can't help but contact the other party, these repeated actions are not conducive to recovery, and your image in the other party's heart will be greatly reduced.

And when a man proposes to break up, it is generally a deliberate decision, and he doesn't want to continue, for what reason? If you have the opportunity, be sure to ask the other person why they want to leave, but many times they will not tell you the real reason, you can only think about it yourself and understand.

Or you have some shortcomings that he can't bear or there are some realistic external resistances that make him have to give up, or more rationally, it is easier to give up than to continue, and you can find the answer from what he has said.

After breaking up, you have to give yourself some time to think about the real reason why the other party wants to break up.

Breaking up gives yourself a period of calm, and another advantage is to let the other party accept the fact that the breakup is that the two people who used to have the most information every day suddenly cut off contact, and it is not only you who are uncomfortable, but also him, but it is this pain that will prompt him to miss the good you used to be, and think about whether the decision to break up is right.

3. Breaking off contact and finding back to your former self is difficult for people who want to redeem their love, you may very much want to know if he still loves you, whether it is worth retrieving, and what he is doing during the breakup.

But I tell you, don't rush to contact, even if you are still in love with the other person, don't keep looking at his space and following his Weibo, because once you are overly involved, it will only increase your sense of need and make the other party more and more disgusted with you.

1.Learn to understand others more When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics. 2.

Appropriate silence and respect for others When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, and when we communicate, we should respect others and don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express it, we should learn to listen carefully to friends, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

Two people have slowly broken up from the original very beautiful love, and a lot of changes have taken place in the middle, people's psychology has changed, the environment has changed, and many statements and practices are completely different from the beginning. This is because these changes led to the original warm heart slowly cooling down, and finally couldn't bear it anymore and chose to break up. For men, if they want to continue to win back a woman's heart after a breakup, they must make a change and return to their original willing dedication to a woman and infinite love.

In the real emotional life, the breakup does not mean the end of everything, many breakups are temporary, but the marriage and emotional life encounter temporary difficulties that cannot be solved, and take an extreme approach. As a man, as long as he has the courage to make changes, he can win back the hearts of women. Many men slowly tend to be dull in their married life and love life, no longer like women, and no longer care about women.

If you want to continue to win back a woman's heart, you must change your own practices, starting from some details, so that women can truly feel their care and love.

From another point of view, many men obviously love each other very much, but they can't show it in words and practices, which has also become a very important problem that affects the relationship between the two people in love and marriage. Many women always say that their boyfriends or husbands become less romantic and less concerned about themselves after they get married, and the reason behind this is that men do not do enough to express their emotions. Although the relationship has been established, although it has entered the palace of marriage, care and concern can never be less, and sweet words can never be less, so as to save a woman's heart.

Don't think about these unrealistic things, first, if two people choose to break up in the end, there must be an unsolvable contradiction between the two people, so since filial piety and envy are not suitable for two people to be together, then what is the meaning of you reluctantly going down? After all, feelings are reluctant to come, and reluctant feelings will definitely not be happy.